Cuckolding Sans Humiliation

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NiceGuyNihilist -> Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (4/30/2011 2:37:01 PM)
"Dollface, I really do love you, but I need more than you can give me sexually. I'm headed to the club. I'll be back around midnight." "Okily dokily. I'll just be here playing Halo. Love you!" "Bye!" Anyone practice cuckolding in this sort of fashion?

Delilya -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (4/30/2011 3:42:41 PM)
Nope.

undergroundsea -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (4/30/2011 5:55:27 PM)
I can see such a conversation happening amongst those who have open or poly relationships, and believe in compersion, even if it is only one partner who is having relationships outside the primary one. Cheers, Sea

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/1/2011 12:10:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceGuyNihilist "Dollface, I really do love you, but I need more than you can give me sexually. I'm headed to the club. I'll be back around midnight." "Okily dokily. I'll just be here playing Halo. Love you!" "Bye!" Anyone practice cuckolding in this sort of fashion? Yes. It's called "poly". My two cheerfully pinch-hit for each other, depending on who's got what time and energy level. They're generally grateful to have the other one around as backup. The situation with us is more or less as you describe it, only I tend to announce that I want some entertainment and ask which one of them has the time and energy. It's not impossible the answer will be neither of them, in which case if we're already at a play party, they will both cheer me on while I find someone else to do bad things to. With their wicked sense of humor, I really wouldn't put it past them to bump fists in a WWF "tag in" pro wrestling move while arranging which of them will be in my bed on a given night. They're the only ones I have actual sex with, but if I wear them both out, then I'll go beat or assfuck someone else with their amused well-wishes.

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/3/2011 1:13:16 AM)
That's the only way cuckolding would be enjoyable to me, at all. I don't want to check in! I don't want to tell you! I don't want you to get me ready! I don't want you to either be intrigued, humiliated, hurt, or deceived by my actions. I'll just go out. If I find someone who makes me feels intrigued by him, I have condoms, and "all is well," I would be okay with that. As I have read, on cuck profiles, I'm not into it, because they need one, or all of the above... It seems most, are more into what the man is about, than their woman is happy about. IMNSHO. M

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/3/2011 4:24:37 AM)
Cuckolding Sans Humiliation is an oxymoron. If there is no humiliation, it's something else.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/3/2011 4:59:12 PM)
I think humiliation is at the core of cuckoldry, it's one of the reasons I don't do it. Have I said before how madly envious I am of LnT? :)

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/3/2011 10:29:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I think humiliation is at the core of cuckoldry, it's one of the reasons I don't do it. I don't believe humiliation need be a part of cuckoldry, if the submissive/slave submits, at her pleasure, even to knowing his Lady may at some point, have sex with other men, and it is simply none of his business. If it is "obey, or leave," and he chooses not to leave after being informed of "yes, I may sleep with other men, as I wish, and no you will not be involved." Is that cuckoldry, or the fact the she doesn't mention it on the day it happens, excepts it from being cuckoldry? This is an honest question, because like you, I find the humiliation aspect, disconcerting, and not fun for me. I don't allow that he should have other partners, but D/s, to me and mine, is definitely not a democracy. I have never done cuckoldry, despite constant invited from the men into it. M

LadyPact -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/4/2011 12:10:45 AM)
Unfortunately, people automatically link the inclusion of humiliation into cuckholdery, when that isn't necessarily the case. I tend to use the term in the broader sense. That being any dynamic where the Dominant female may have multiple lovers while the submissive is not permitted the same. The element of emotional distress related to that situation isn't necessarily a requirement for the male to be considered a cuck. Some cuckhold situations have nothing to do with humiliation and are much more related to voyeurism instead.

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Cuckolding Sans Humiliation (5/4/2011 12:39:14 AM)
I agree, and apreciate what you had to say. I definitely find the emotional distress may not need to be present, if one submits at her pleasure. We go out together for a fun night. I go out, stay out late with friends, and may meet an attractve man, to use, than go home. I come in late on the rare occasions, if I find an attractive man to spend time with, I need to know he is not tortured, when I get home. M

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