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pantyslave2suk -> what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:02:50 AM)

I have a question pertaining to top or to bottom. What or how is a top different than a bottom? I have read many forums and ads in alt.com for guys to top or to bottom. Since I'm new to this world of being dominated, I need to know what it means. I'm a part-time crossdresser and have always desired a man's pens, bigger than mine to be penetrated into me. What is it when they say, I can top you, what position is it?

Pantyslave



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:05:31 AM)

In the upper righthand corner of the screen is a link to the Search feature.  Click on it and enter "top" and "bottom" as your search terms.  You should come up with plenty of reading material.  Alternately, you can use Google to find the answer.



pantyslave2suk -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:18:46 AM)

I was not hoping to resort to Google for the answer, I wanted an answer from a mistress that could deliberate the question. Thanks for the help though at the top of page response. How do you like your slaves to participate in your activities?



Hisprettybaby -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:25:10 AM)

I'm not a Mistress, the easy answer is this: Usually the Top is the person doing the activities to the bottom. The bottom is the one having the activities done to them. Like, for instance, a couple of examples are the Top flogs the bottom, or the Top fucks the bottom with a strap-on. But I'm sure it's not all that simple. For instance, the Top can tell the bottom to eat her hoohoo and he does it. He's doing the activity there, but she is telling him to do it. Just makes it more confusing, heh?

~Hisprettybaby~



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:54:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pantyslave2suk

I was not hoping to resort to Google for the answer, I wanted an answer from a mistress that could deliberate the question.


Thanks for letting everyone know you're too lazy to look up your own answer.  That's always a hot commodity in a sub.

quote:

How do you like your slaves to participate in your activities?


That's none of your business.  I don't provide wank fodder for random strangers.



pantyslave2suk -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 11:59:04 AM)

Thank you for defining what I was asking. I really appreciate your time. I guess I want to bottom, never have, but have had a few urges to get topped, safely.

Thanks for help.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:08:49 PM)

You need to do a lot of things, starting with reading the FAQ and the Forum Guidelines.  You really have no idea what you're in for if you maintain that attitude, sparky.



Tantriqu -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:10:11 PM)

I originally had a polite answer to the original question, but scrubbed it when the OP called a respondent a bitch.
you're on your own, dude, literally.
And yep, you're a bottom.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:11:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

quote:

ORIGINAL: pantyslave2suk

I was not hoping to resort to Google for the answer, I wanted an answer from a mistress that could deliberate the question.


Thanks for letting everyone know you're too lazy to look up your own answer.  That's always a hot commodity in a sub.

quote:

How do you like your slaves to participate in your activities?


That's none of your business.  I don't provide wank fodder for random strangers.



*just chuckles*

Really, coming onto a BDSM discussion board not knowing the difference between top and bottom is just.....mind blowingly ignorant. Kudos to you for trying to find answers, low marks for expecting those answers to be spoon fed to you, with huge doses of wank fodder to boot.

You are 44 years old, old enough to stop expecting others to do your work for you while you sit around and wank. You most likely will not fair well here with that attitude.

Do some reading, do some learning, figure out how to ask pointed questions for things you do not understand. Oh and, welcome to CM.







pantyslave2suk -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:11:43 PM)

And what can you do about it, sunshine? I see someone got up on the wrong side of the bed of nails.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:13:24 PM)

I don't have to do a thing.  You'll do it all for me.  [;)]



HannahLynHeather -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:25:42 PM)

i can't believe you got to your age without knowing this. i knew what these terms meant in middle school. i can't wait to find out what the fuck else you don't know

to answer your question, its simple:
the top does to
the  bottom is done to

as for how they participate? they do what they're told and i do whatever i want with them. and that's all you're going to get, because i don't do wank fodder either (unless you're cute and show me your tits [;)]).

look, this stuff isn't complicated, its sex. its all just glorified fucking. do what feels good and you are pretty much doing it right.

and don't bother calling me a bitch. me and everybody else on here already know i am one, so be inventive if you're going to insult me.

hannah lynn



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:43:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
i don't do wank fodder either (unless you're cute and show me your tits [;)]).


*Is almost tempted to show you my tits just to see what you come up with*



Hisprettybaby -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:58:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pantyslave2suk

Thank you for defining what I was asking. I really appreciate your time. I guess I want to bottom, never have, but have had a few urges to get topped, safely.

Thanks for help.

You're very welcome.

I can see this thread is deteriorating fast. lol Ah well. Just a few friendly pointers: (1)Calling Dommes "bitch" does not make a good impression. (2)There actually is a search function, on the top right and the lower right of the forum page that are not all that hard to find. (3)Don't let it get you down. We were all newbies at one time and had to learn the hard way. lol

~Hisprettybaby~



HannahLynHeather -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 12:59:52 PM)

quote:

*Is very tempted to show you my tits just to see what you come up with*


fixed your post

hannah lynn



LadyHibiscus -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 4:25:05 PM)

Didn't we already show our tits elsewhere? ;)



NiteWing2000 -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 4:58:14 PM)

What??? A Boobie show and i missed it![:@]



Hisprettybaby -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 5:33:34 PM)

Did someone say "tits??" lol

~Hisprettybaby~

[image]local://upfiles/1193382/6D1CF56FD4E54819A7199311DDF93AA7.jpg[/image]



poise -> RE: Tits are Tops! (5/1/2011 5:40:48 PM)

See now prettybaby, that image is just bound to confuse the OP even more.
We all know that the best tits are those that are on TOP.
psssst....this is just my attempt at non-hijacking the thread

Tits are definitely TOPS!
and for those that missed the show



mummyman321 -> RE: what would be considered a top/bottom? (5/1/2011 6:38:55 PM)

Now that is just UDDERLY ridiculous!



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