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denika -> RE: Pain - Need or Want? (5/12/2006 11:33:03 AM)
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I catagorize need as something you have to have to survive, such as air, water, food, shelter. Pain is something that falls into the want catagory as well as desire, it is also how that pain is inflicted. It is a bonding experience, not to mention one that can be freeing. In pain I let all my base emotions come to the surface, there is nothing left to hide behind and that can be an extremly vunerable position to be in, not something I do with just anyone. I would rather go without than expereince it at a substandard level with someone I didn't care about. I'm privlaged that I bottom to a Sadist who knows how to use pain to bring out the best and worst in me.
denika
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