RE: sad slave (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master



Message

sunshinemiss -> RE: sad slave (5/6/2011 6:58:02 PM)

Excellent, top of the line response.



slavesally22 -> RE: sad slave (5/6/2011 10:38:09 PM)

thank you sunshinemiss im going to concelling. im also leaving for a couple of weeks i need to get my head strait if he really wants me the seperation should be somthing. if he dosnt well life gos on



slavesally22 -> RE: sad slave (5/6/2011 10:40:51 PM)

we are talking more i been keeping calmer. trying to get the point to him . thanks for the advice



NocturnalStalker -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 1:37:22 AM)

quote:

He isn’t poly either. Poly involves informed consent. He is just another horny little cheater lying his way to the next piece of ass using lifestyle BDSM as a guise to cover his tracks. Another man’s real wife as pretend property and Alpha, until they get caught . . . that says it all.


*Nervously tugs at collar*

*Leaves topic*



angelikaJ -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 6:41:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavesally22

whit your gidence and beening able to talk to you Master and Mistress, you have opened my eyes. sence her husband found out my Master hasnt said much to me. I have been very quite and only answered when i am asked. he has not mentioned her name for the last two days. Today i feel better hes been more open to me we talked alot about how i felt how abonded i felt. we had very loving sex and i fell asleep in his arms. i still am on edge and very caushiou about everything. i have some trust ishues . talking to you people have made a diffrence thank you very much. slave sally22


Sally,
When I suggested that there might have been an issue in the relationship before "alpha" came into the picture, I was not implying it was your fault.

What I meant was that something was probably wrong within the relationship for him to just cast you aside like that... people do not treat things of value that way... that should especially apply to people.

And since your Master has just now expressed concern over your wellbeing: depression, it would be natural to wonder where was his concern for you before in ALLof this.

I can not tell you what is right for you but I can tell you it is wise to not trust people who have proved themselves to be untrustworthy.
Is he worthy of your trust; is he worthy of your heart?

edit for clarity



GreedyTop -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 6:43:25 AM)

angelika.. you are so very, very kind..

(one of the reasns I adore you)



Rule -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 8:30:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavesally22
Master told me i don't know if i believe him yet he has lied to me in the past.

If you cannot trust him, then he cannot be your master and you cannot be his slave. Apparently you are not his slave, but his servant.

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavesally22
i hate not trusting people i am a loner for most of my life so i don't have anyone to talk too.

Was that your sole reason to consent to the relationship, because you are a loner and perchance lonely? Methinks you have got some thinking to do.



GreedyTop -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 9:06:40 AM)

STOP THE PRESSES!!

I agree with Rule..


(who's got the smelling salts?)



petmonkey -> RE: sad slave (5/7/2011 8:43:05 PM)

sad slave sally,

So let me get this right:
you saw a major issue, brought up the issue with your partners but the issue remained unresolved
you asked advice of/checked-in with a lifestyle confidante (sorry, anonymous on CM is as close as some have, folks)
you physically separated yourself from the situation in order to clear your head
you are getting counseling
you are continuing a line of communication with your Primary Partner (Master)

Don't be sad, slave sally. You're going to be alright.



edit: 1 word.



slavesally22 -> RE: sad slave (5/8/2011 1:29:23 PM)

your right i been fooling myself. i love the slave Master style. i like the controll and outher things .he was supost to collar me the first year. he never did. when he met her she wanted to be so he collard her than me. it wasnt the same. it felt false. this was a year ago. my collar sits in a box want to ware it so bad but the feeling just arn't there. 



slavesally22 -> RE: sad slave (5/8/2011 1:36:49 PM)

thank you angelikaJ i understand your not blaming me. my head is filled up on so much nagative things i need to get fixed. i think him and her wanted to get caught for the thrill of it and she could do no wrong in his eyes she wanted someone to show her off.  and i think thats true.she told me one time she could do no wrong and if she did she would blame it on me. so i think you are very right. i thank you so much for your insite.



slavesally22 -> RE: sad slave (5/8/2011 1:38:39 PM)

thank you.



BeautyDebased -> RE: sad slave (5/11/2011 11:20:09 PM)

Saddens me to read this,

I know it will be hard but you need to walk away, he obviously cares very little, if at all for you and would be very aware of what this apparent alpha married whore is doing yet he lets her get away with it, she is lucky it's not me in your shoes because she'd wake up drugged and tied to something....details? I think I will leave that to your imagination ;).

He is not worth your time or tears, I'd find out who her husband is, tell him then leave, find someone who appreciates your gift, who loves you for who you are and shows it, I've had to walk away before and now I couldn't be happier, if you need to talk send me a private message, if not then I wish you the best, you certainly deserve it.

Also, please...please don't think he will change, he has some toxic relationship with this other woman and from what you write I'm doubting anything you do will ever change that or ever be right in his eyes.

I also don't believe in the "Alpha" sub bullshit, for those who really need two...that I also don't understand but I won't go into my thoughts on it lol, they should treat both as equals or not have a second at all, my Master never wants another slave, he loves me and we are eventually getting married, I know just as he does if another sub came into this house and tried to get his affection I'd make her life such a hell she'd skip the country [;)]...but I'm evil like that [sm=axe.gif]


Beauty.



falccon -> RE: sad slave (5/13/2011 6:50:58 PM)

this is not a healthy relationship; it's poison. i'd leave before it consumes you.



Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875