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Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/4/2011 7:29:50 PM   
nashdude


Posts: 5
Joined: 4/27/2011
Status: offline 		I have read the posts and taken the advice of many great thoughts. I would like to know the thoughts/opions from you on my profile. Hopefully, I am the lucky winner of not asking the same question that has been asked 10 times today. Thanks everyone in advance for your patience with us new guys!
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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/4/2011 8:06:45 PM   
BonesFromAsh


Posts: 1362
Joined: 6/17/2010
Status: offline 		1) All the talk of "discreet", "busy" and your time being limited makes me think you're married.

2) The surest way to be thought of as an ass is to post a main profile pic of one, in my opinion.


Read the Ask a Mistress FAQs thread and pay special attention to the parts pertaining to profiles and photos.

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/4/2011 8:12:15 PM   
nashdude


Posts: 5
Joined: 4/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank You Bonesfromash. Making some changes right now, I appreciate your time!

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/5/2011 1:44:35 AM   
Arpig


Posts: 9930
Joined: 1/3/2006
From: Increasingly further from reality
Status: offline 		Actually pretty fucking good. I have two suggestions.

1. Think up a witty comment and insert it. Actually, I kind of like your parantheticals, they are sort of funny, yet honest. Shows you don't take yourself too seriously.

2. The last word of the profile should be "sexually", not "sexual".



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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/5/2011 4:17:41 AM   
nashdude


Posts: 5
Joined: 4/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank You Arpig. Will give me someting to think about besides work today. I appreciate your time and help

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/5/2011 3:53:56 PM   
Madame4a


Posts: 2045
Joined: 2/4/2008
From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		Your picture stinks... and besides being brand new, what do you have to offer another person (note I said person, not mistress) ... also if you're so new, how do you know you dislike fisting?  Have you been fisted?  Ever fisted anyone? 

Ultimately, to be honest, its like most male profiles, all about you and what you want...

works for some, but not for many

if you search "profile" you'll find a ton of generic advice on profiles

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/5/2011 8:53:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I found it rather generic.  It didn't register any "wow" factor with Me, which generally means that you'll be seen just like every other new guy who has decided he has an interest in this stuff.  

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/5/2011 9:22:09 PM   
diablarosa


Posts: 63
Joined: 10/3/2010
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quote:

ORIGINAL: nashdude

I would like to know the thoughts/opions from you on my profile.


Well you win out of the gate with me by hating diapers.

I would update your photos, as Madame4a hinted on.

I agree with Ladypact, too.. not the most moving profile in the world. Talk about your interests in your willingness to explore real submission in a little more detail. its hard to know if you're sincere with that or more stuck in bottom mode.

btw, it's womAn, not womEn. -- "Wanting a caring, but firm women.."

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/7/2011 3:16:24 AM   
Ariane23


Posts: 88
Joined: 12/2/2007
Status: offline 		First of all, a head cut off pic generally makes me lose interest before I start. I appreciate that some people have legitimate reasons for not wanting to show their face on a bdsm site, but it shows a decided lack of imagination. A little shadow to make a nice silhouette, a pic from behind against the sun, many techniques can be used to keep identiy discreet while giving a positive impression.

"My limited experience has me craving more, not sure if this is a curiousity, or a full time desire. Only way I know to find out is to put yourself out there and hope to find a patient dominant woman. From the reading I have done, I would say I am more of a bottom at this point with a strong willingness to serve."

Sounds like too much hard work to me. Oh yes, it gets points for honesty. But it isn't going to attract my interest.

I'd suggest replacing it with a paragraph about your interests outside of bdsm. You've covered your bdsm interest, and well done on ticking boxes, but the text is what people will read.

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/7/2011 6:52:40 AM   
Tantriqu


Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline 		Welcome!
I liked your profile, so if you're looking for a lifestyle Domme, good choices. I understand the lack of face pics on a profile, so good choice on the torso shot and mentioning you have other pics.
But first, read the FAQ's section on how to write a profile and how to approach a Domme, so you can see what a lot of us like and dislike.
Then, also as above, just add a short, thoughtful paragraph about the vanilla interests you have to offer
Then CAREFULLY READ the profiles of Dommes you're interested in, take a deep breath, and send a short, thoughtful msg tailored to each one, and good luck with your search.

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/14/2011 11:25:56 AM   
nashdude


Posts: 5
Joined: 4/27/2011
Status: offline 		Thank You to all that gave me some honest feedback. Your feedback and thougths have helped me not only with the profile, but understanding more about dominant women in general. I will have to do something about the picture for sure.

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RE: Feedback appreciated on profile - 5/14/2011 11:46:02 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


Posts: 6562
Joined: 3/22/2011
From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		Nashville has a very active kink scene and a well known dungeon called The Mark.

My advice (along with the goodies you already received) is to get yourself to a munch and meet some real life fem dommes.


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