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RavenMuse -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 2:35:20 PM)
I know where you are comming from Kevin. I keep having to make sure the breaks are firmly on as well, us old dogs maybe having to learn new tricks when it comes to doing this over the net but it has made it way to easy to get suckered into seeing more than is actualy there, we don't get the clues we would get in real life that we are used to and the 'right words' come very easily to some people from behind a keyboard.

angelface183 -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 2:50:25 PM)
I just wanted to say that from reading this thread it is apparent that this is a community of people who genuinely care about each other and look out for one another. It is a pleasure to be among you...and some of you write so damn well!

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 4:27:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 I just wanted to say that from reading this thread it is apparent that this is a community of people who genuinely care about each other and look out for one another. It is a pleasure to be among you...and some of you write so damn well! After you've been a regular here for awhile, you become privy to some of the ups and downs of the members here. It's easy to realize that there are loving, feeling people behind the nicknames. As humans I like to think we are naturally inclined to reach out to each other. (Although it's often like being addicted to a TV soap opera!) Kevin is quite a charactor, and many of us just wish him the best. Glad you're enjoying the boards, Angelface. Stick around. Cin

angelface183 -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 7:32:29 PM)
Thank you for the welcome, Cin. I believe that I will stick around... I enjoy the scenary...and the company.

piscess -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 7:42:04 PM)
Can it work? Oh anything can work if both want it to. piscess

eruditegirl1 -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 8:48:08 PM)
I have been involved in a LDR myself....I know the odds...lol...I live in Vegas....but for me it comes down to this...I have been curious about the whole D/s thing for over a year now...had one date with a local Dom...great man...but to extreme for me...emailed with numerous Doms...but no one ever seemed to fit for what I was looking for....until I meet someone who is 1200 miles away....he fits me....I asked myself a question...when I turn 80 or 90....will I look back in regret if I don't find out if he is the one....yes...I would regret it...so I made the decision to continue getting to know him and allowing my feelings to grow....will it work out...who knows...am I willing to find out...definitly....the chance we take when we allow ourselves to enter into anothers life...be it 12 miles or 1200...is all the same....are they worth it and our you willing to take a chance....

theRose4U -> RE: a potential? (5/13/2006 9:54:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane Kisshou's quote "the only problem is so far this is all online (maybe phone too) so everyone is telling him it is probably a good idea to meet in person first before getting all swept up in your feelings and making public announcements because it can be embarrasing to have to say two days later that she wasn't what he thought " Fastlane frowns..."she wasn't what I thought." Alas, back to the phone lines as Fastlane says "never say never!" winks and follows up with "You know, I tend to act on impulse and often make a post or begin a thread such as this, then read how ludicrous it is for me to jump to such an elusive expectation. The truth is, that I am a true romantic at heart and when the endomorphins kick in, the chemistry appears right and the conversations seem to be in alignment with the stars, I do believe that this can come true. Unfortunately I am also a realist and know what the odds are as well. I've been in this postition before and it crashed and burned before it got off the ground. Still, thank you all for your comments and sharing, I loved reading them all............. Now, where'd my phone card go?, Kevin Kevin it's things like this that sometimes make me think you'd be safer ON a leash than holding one. You see a girl and you're like an over-grown slobbering puppy. Jump, lick, hump slobber...you wanna be my friend right? Grrr no looks dijected for all of 2 seconds till another leg is spotted. [:@] Where's that darn water gun and newspaper when I need it...BAD BOY BAD BAD KEVIN FAMMIT those are new shoes.

windchymes -> RE: a potential? (5/14/2006 10:46:33 AM)
Kevin/fastlane, I do truly wish you the best.....some people can make 1000's of miles work, other's can't deal with the reality of it. I wonder if you are "in love" with the idea of love, or "in love" with a mental image at the other side of a computer monitor and telephone line, or are you really in love with a living, breathing, warm human female being? I think it could most definitely be the latter, but you won't find out if it's the former until you meet in real life. Something that stays online/phone will keep your endorphins (or endomorphins) running and you flying high, but true love and contentment won't happen until the relationship moves forward. The problem with mental images (which are one step away from fantasies) is that they are what WE want them to be, not what they really are or possibly are not. You might be happy finding "love" online because you can feel safe that way, you are still in control. If it moves to real life, you have to deal with the reality of it all, and you might lose control, and the outcome might not be a good one. Or it might be a fabulous one. But, you lose the control. Is she worth the risk? She might be. But you won' t know for sure until you move forward. But moving forward might bring your "love high" crashing down, right? I don't know what your phone conversations are like, but if they're all about phone sex and dreams and fantasies, then it might be time to bring them to reality. If they're full of reality, meaning, talking about the bad days you might have had, problems, illnesses, or even debating subjects that you both might not agree on, and you still believe you're in love, then that has potential. But if you avoid reality and steer the conversations back to tra-la-la and dreams and fantasy, then that's not a good sign for potential. Sorry, I've rambled on with thoughts as they popped into my mind. Here's a dollar, take it and have a cup of coffee on me. Good luck!

ginawithaB -> RE: a potential? (5/14/2006 11:04:04 AM)
Kevin: Ditto: with everyone else, I'm wishing you the best. Take your time, tho and be careful. Take care of your heart. -gina

fastlane -> RE: a potential? (5/14/2006 12:12:13 PM)
Windchymes and GinaB Thank you ladies...both of you are very, very nice. We often say things without really putting a lot of thought in what we really mean......Kevin, looks in the mirror. I think I've been a single/Dom/bachelor for waaaaaay, waaaay toooo long and that the thought, more then anything else, makes me shout to the world..."I've found someone!" After the reality sinks in and the boat has sunk, a new search goes out on to the horizon. Why? Because I believe there is one person out there that will/can/be loving and serving me and I telling the world about her. In the mean time....bare with me and we'll see and by bare...I do mean get nekked! winks, Kevin

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: a potential? (5/14/2006 1:29:08 PM)
Sighs....ok Kevin..I got my fingers crossed for you....but darn I wish it had been someone local!....be really well!..Tempting

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