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CherryNeko -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 9:21:05 AM)
When I submit, I have to struggle to keep OUR demands met. Funny, isn't it? (Maybe I'm just not that hovery today...)

Hillwilliam -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 9:22:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker When I dominate an inferior lifeform I get hard. Duh. Is there such a thing? Sorry, that question was in pure fun because it was so easy and I'm still in P&R mode

BrilliantMind -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 1:28:43 PM)
Thanks for the replies so far. I think it is quite interesting, that although the goal is the same as in as simply as dominating or submitting to put it in it's easiest context. There seems to be so many different feelings from both sides. OK, question some may not want to answer but... for those currently in a relationship, have you done the same things, in which I mean dominated in the same way, or submitted in the same way, with another and was it different? I am thinking there are always subtle differences that add up to make a large difference? Right?

leadership527 -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 2:51:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrilliantMind OK, question some may not want to answer but... for those currently in a relationship, have you done the same things, in which I mean dominated in the same way, or submitted in the same way, with another and was it different? I am thinking there are always subtle differences that add up to make a large difference? Right? Well, I've never done this with another woman so I can't know for sure. But general leadership experience as well as common sense would lead me to believe you're right. I've never had any two relationships where they were even similar. Heck, I've tended to be very different in the context of different relationships. So I don't see why my leadership/dominance style wouldn't change along with everything else.

art4YOU -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 3:24:53 PM)
Brilliant Mind Agree with you. it feels so good to lose the daily grind at a dominant Ladies Feet, to focus on Her and Her only takes me to "sub space" so fast and i love being there. Thanks for posting.

needlesandpins -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 3:31:04 PM)
what about just being in a kinky space? in recent play i have found that at any moment i can feel submissive or more domme depending entirely on the action at the time. i have nothing such as chores as part of a D/s type thing so day-to-day life kinda doesn't count. but as soon as any kind of play starts, and that can even be just a pinched nipple while watching a film, i'm imediately transported away from whatever was going on to start with. needles

littlewonder -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 4:04:14 PM)
all my past relationships have been different. Our play was different, our sex was different, how we interacted was different. I'm pretty sure it's that way with everyone. Otherwise anyone ole person would do. We could just be with anyone since it would just be exactly the same.

sexyred1 -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 4:08:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrilliantMind Hi When I submit, it takes my mind away from thoughts of work, money, bills, mortgage blah blah etc... I feel like a vessel, or an object, being used, my thoughts and focus are on what I have to do for the Domme and nothing else matters, it kind of puts me at peace. Do other subs feel the same or is it something different? Also if you are a Dominant person, what is it that you feel? What do you get from dominating someone? I can't imagine it. Is it similar? Yes. It is the ultimate de-stressor for me. Since it is a sexual thing for me and not a service thing, I end up relaxing to the nth degree afterwards, no matter how intense things go.

ann1967 -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 4:31:46 PM)
I have a demanding, stressful career, where I give orders and I have a so much responsibility. When come home to my Dom and I submit, I can leave all that stress behind me, and someone else is in charge. Submission is absolutely delicious: it is a luxurious ability to live in the moment.

Arpig -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 4:44:51 PM)
quote: oh the thrill of control, like the blitzkrieg on the roll, is the sweetest taste i've known, oh yah. HEDWIG!!!!! Hannah, you rock! Actually its really hard to describe how I feel. It depends on just what I'm doing. It ranges from contentment, to an almost crazed rush that is on the very edge of being out of control. Like being on a fast running river heading towards a waterfall.

BurntKitty -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 5:04:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I dunno what she feels throughout, but at the end(chortles) she feels like she has a dick in her ass....cuz she does! This.

sunshinemiss -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 7:00:19 PM)
I feel ... feral.

gothikbutterfly -> RE: What do you feel? (5/6/2011 7:05:20 PM)
I feel anger, pain, despair, and I feel helpless all at once.

uncertainlyizzy -> RE: What do you feel? (5/7/2011 3:58:18 AM)
Depends on the day. Depends on his intent. It almost always takes away a good chunk of my anxiety though. I'm less anxious all around when someone else is in charge. Doesn't matter what we're doing or what's going on, if someone else is holding the reins then my anxiety level is lower and my thoughts are clearer.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What do you feel? (5/7/2011 5:45:26 AM)
I feel....free.

FelineFae -> RE: What do you feel? (5/7/2011 5:55:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy Since the majority of my submission revolves around keeping the house, paying the bills on time, and working, submission doesn't take my mind off those things. But it does often bring me a sense of peace. Partly this for me. i am able to live as a subservient person, even if i can't spell it. Most of the time, i feel fulfilled getting to make someone else's life better in some way, even if that means i am doing the dishes or laundry so they don't have to take time out for chores. Now for the kinky part, those that see that side of me have called it " lucid subspace " And i would say that the OP's terming of "vessel" is a fair description. i will feel pain at first, then the rush comes and there is no more pain and no more stupid confining human body there is only energy for lack of a better word. Everything becomes united in some way, some insane version of gravity that Newton never dreamed of...

aromanholiday -> RE: What do you feel? (5/7/2011 7:10:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrilliantMind When I submit, it takes my mind away from thoughts of work, money, bills, mortgage blah blah etc... I feel like a vessel, or an object, being used, my thoughts and focus are on what I have to do for the Domme and nothing else matters, it kind of puts me at peace. Do other subs feel the same or is it something different? Something similar, I think. Although I feel it when I'm doing the more mudane activities of life, if I've been ordered to do them, because I am submitting then. I feel secure, and like I am my real self. I often feel very happy and sing little snatches of songs as I work. My kitty catches my mood and gets happy too. I like the feeling that I cannot disobey (where does will not merge into cannot? It's Saturday night, so I'll save that for another discussion [;)]). I think about the person I am submitting to and get aroused. I just really, really like doing what I am told. I feel happiest when I am pleasing someone else, serving them. I feel better performing the activities than I do even when I am given a smile or a pat on the head later. I have nothing against praise, I like praise, it's just that service feels better.

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