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slave55555 -> Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/10/2006 8:20:45 PM)
Greetings honorable Ladies, After the topic “Femdom sites that are FOR femdoms?” I have this idea. If a new web site is lunched for Dommes. What it should include? What is you don’t find on the net and wants this new site to have? I’m a computer programmer. I can build such site. With that I can serve all Dommes to find what they want. In addition I can help subs to educate themselves. a slave

Najakcharmer -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/10/2006 8:35:47 PM)
1. No glitzy crap, pop up windows for advertising porno sites, non-tasteful photos or other stuff that is more designed to appeal to the horny "submissive" male than to be of any use or interest to women. Keep all explicit imagery off the main page and in a section or gallery that you have to click on purpose in order to view. I don't like tits or dicks shoved in my face in real life, and I don't like it on a website either. 2. In the image area that you can click on if you're in the mood to see explicit photos, fewer images of glitzy femdoms and more of attractively presented males, please. I like looking at bound and beaten boys. I just want to look at them when I specifically choose to. 3. Lots of informational resources and links. Articles about toys, techniques, safety, relationships, etc. 4. Friendly place for femdoms and femdom couples to chat. POLITE single male subbies would be welcome to socialize, but it would be nice to have a place where we could relax and not get harrassed by wannabe "subs" who send us explicit penis pictures and go into drooling detail about how they want to give us oral sex. That's yucky, and it's one of the things that makes it difficult for women to relax and enjoy themselves on a BDSM site. Just my two cents, for whatever that's worth these days with inflation.

MsDominiquenz -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/10/2006 8:53:01 PM)
Yep.. one of those thanks. :)

crouchingtigress -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:01:57 AM)
If when chatting in the chartroom that there would be an option to ignore all PMs that would be nice (as long as the user can activate it easily) A page of wickedness....all sorts of creative pain and pleasure ideas, maybe sub categories of mind fucks, cbt, corrections ect... A resource and link page where we can all add our fav links over the years... A toy and book review area great idea Naka... But mostly just chatting with other Dommes and Dominas....that would be awesome! Oh and this is just a wish-list thing, but a real women section where the ladies are normal looking people playing with normal looking people and not fuck fantasy flesh fettishes... The main thing is warm and freindly...pros non-pros all welcome but NO solicitation allowed in the chat room.

MsDominiquenz -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:27:56 AM)
Claps yes yes yes !

MsMacComb -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 3:20:20 AM)
This suggestion is pretty much right on the nose. [:)]

GoddessFreya -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 3:39:23 AM)
check out www.female-led-relationships.com the boards there are very friendly with normal people :)

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 3:41:16 AM)
I would like to see options that include dominant, top, submissive, slave, switch, bottom as well as M/s or D/s and BDSM all as seperate catagories to choose from. And I agree, it would be awesome if there was a place where we could socialize, exchange ideas and glean information from each other without the "drooling hng" hanging on every word. *Dreaming is nice, isn't it? lmao* *Jewel*

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 4:37:53 AM)
What she said! Also... for Goddess' sake, make it a site for WOMEN, not just another male wanker material site. Make it a friendly place, where the emphasis is on friendship and information exchange rather than porn. And if you've gotta have graphic photos, at least put them in their own section.... I hate even opening alt dotcom because you're instantly deluged with cocks, cunts and tits. Yuck. quote: ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer 1. No glitzy crap, pop up windows for advertising porno sites, non-tasteful photos or other stuff that is more designed to appeal to the horny "submissive" male than to be of any use or interest to women. Keep all explicit imagery off the main page and in a section or gallery that you have to click on purpose in order to view. I don't like tits or dicks shoved in my face in real life, and I don't like it on a website either.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 4:47:55 AM)
It'd be nice if there could be some way to verify user's, perhaps by use of registering a valid non-free-email-account email address. The message boards and chat rooms would be available to everyone, but there would be certain forums and chat rooms available to ONLY validated users. All this... and still remain free. Yeah, right <sigh> quote: ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel *And I agree, it would be awesome if there was a place where we could socialize, exchange ideas and glean information from each other without the "drooling hng" hanging on every word.*

DiannaVesta -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 9:26:51 AM)
How about a site only about female domination – The Vault XXX – you can go here IF you want to see hardcore pictures, etc. The Village – free community with chat, blogs, personals, articles (written by lifestyle dominant women), Reviews (thank you TammyJo) and forums that include; Mistress Lounge, Training & Education (for ladies and subs) The Ladies Garden (that’s right a femdom garden & cooking forum) Spiritual (for spirituality a la femdom) The site is owned and moderated by lifestyle dominant women (including me) that have been in the scene collectively for nearly 20 years. There will be tight moderation to prevent disrespectful males from exploiting the space. You can bet you’ll meet males that truly do understand and appreciate feminine authority. Articles will include topics that address the day to day in this lifestyle and how you can incorporate female domination into your already existing lifestyle. Healthy, safety and emotional balance in a discriminating world. Unfortunately there will be banners in order to pay for the site, its webmasters, writers and technical folks. These will be in theme and tastefully placed, however you won’t see anything that doesn’t match the theme of the site or considered distasteful. NO pop ups. The Vault requires membership (cheap) and this is where you can watch unlimited streaming video & photos galleries. You don’t have to go into the vault. The Village is free. I’m doing something close for othersex.com but its entirely different because it is pansexual bdsm – more general community based content, however femsupreme is strictly FEMALE DOMINATION and not none of this fluffy, Barbie doll shit. If you go to femsupreme now you can’t see the new site, however if you want to get an email when it opens then go to my personal site and signup for the newsletter www.diannavesta.com don’t worry I rarely send out mail and I don’t trade my list.

Najakcharmer -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 11:03:50 AM)
applauds Dianna Let me know when and where, and subbie and I will be there with smiles on.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 11:21:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer applauds Dianna Let me know when and where, and subbie and I will be there with smiles on. yes I will try but please consider adding your name to my mailing list. I'm really swamped. I also notice you're not very far from me. I'm on the boarder on NC/VA. I definately want to see you there. There is a small group of us and we're talking about having some ladies teas... well you know, hell with tea, some wine by the creek!

LaTigresse -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 11:27:18 AM)
chanting........wine by the creek....wine by the creek............... loading cases of wine and cheetoes in truck for road trip. I cannot do a long road trip without a bag of cheetoes.....its a thing

Najakcharmer -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 11:33:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta yes I will try but please consider adding your name to my mailing list. I'm really swamped. Done. quote: I also notice you're not very far from me. I'm on the boarder on NC/VA. I definately want to see you there. There is a small group of us and we're talking about having some ladies teas... well you know, hell with tea, some wine by the creek! I'm moderately active in FAD (Female Artists of Domination, www.femaleartistsofdomination.com), which meets in Raleigh, Winston-Salem and Greensboro. I can usually make the Raleigh events, but the others are a bit of a commute for me. I am planning to be at the FAD retreat which I think is close to the VA border. Given enough notice and somewhere to stay as that's a 3-4 hour drive from me, it would be good fun to make this sort of event. I'd suggest cross-posting it to the FAD list as we have members in this area.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 11:40:37 AM)
I know what you mean about groups. I'm not looking to do a group, per se, just network and do social things. I'm pretty busy but when I relax I enjoy the company of other women like myself. I'm not really into the whole dungeon, play party scene. I do enjoy networking tho.

Proprietrix -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:12:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave55555 If a new web site is lunched for Dommes. What it should include? What is you don’t find on the net and wants this new site to have? In addition to what's already been suggested.... A seperate forum for D/s-M/s. Here at collarme, there's no "safe haven" forum to get away from all the fetish/BDSM and just talk about power exchange dynamics. (Unless one wants to hang out in the Gorean forum.) Someone said pictures of real people. I second this!!! I'd LOVE to see people's family albums of Mistress sitting on the sofa watching TV and laughing while slaves are sitting on the floor playing a board game. Or of Mistress and slave playing frisbee in the park, or subbie cooking breakfast in normal jeans and a T-shirt while Ma'am is in her pajamas enjoying a cup of coffee. I get so deathly sick of dungeon/bondage pictures I could puke. And I like to see "normal" women. Women who don't derive their authority through their model perfect wardrobe and make-up. Show me fat Dominas in sun dresses, short Dominas tiptoeing to reach something, poor Dominas sunbathing outside their trailer, Ladies in hair-rollers, laughing while subbie paints her toes. Let us show the world that we are real women, who do real things, without feeling like we have to dress in PVC, have our hair professionally done, and cake on make-up just so our photos will "measure up". Some kind of database that will show us which users are close to us geographically. Like, if I wanted to have a get-together, let me see which users are within 100 miles (or 500 or whatever) that I could invite. Mail forwarding. When I open Outlook, I get messages that say "you have a message on collarme". Sometimes I'd like to know what that message is without having to log in. Same with forums. I liked the way yahoo group messages can show up in my inbox & I can respond to them from my outlook email, all without ever having to open a browser. I know some might disagree here, but I'd really like a way to keep male subs out. (or at least out of certain forums). Most days, I don't mind at all communicating with the community at large, but damn, some days I get SO TIRED of seeing the same freaking questions over and over, just phrased differently and by a new user. (I'm thinking here along the lines of "Do any women here enjoy strap-ons? What do you like about them?" and similar questions.) A place for recipe exchange. I see a lot of vegans, low-carb, dieters, etc... but never a place for people to discuss which recipes their subbies can cook. I wish collarme would make a forum called "Sex, Sexuality, All things sexy, kinky sex, sex freaks, sex play, bedroom bondage, and sex toys." Then, once the flood of people went there, I could see who was left in the main forum to chit-chat with. [;)]

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:26:44 PM)
Proprietrix: BRAVO!!! YES YES! I second everything you say... and the last paragraph gave me a HUGE laugh! ;) Funny you should mention about the clothes... I was thinking just this morning about that. I am a Dominant. Why is there this insistent stereotype that in order to BE Dominant, a woman must wear corsets and latex? If I wear flannel PJs and bunny slippers, I am still Domme. If I wear ripped jeans, baggy t-shirt and Birkies, I am still Domme, *no less so* than when I wear my corset, my stiff, rustling satin skirt and fishnets. I am who I am, regardless of what I wear.

Najakcharmer -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:39:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta I know what you mean about groups. I'm not looking to do a group, per se, just network and do social things. I'm pretty busy but when I relax I enjoy the company of other women like myself. I'm not really into the whole dungeon, play party scene. I do enjoy networking tho. chuckles To me, that's what a group is for - networking and doing social things. That's largely what FAD does, though there are certainly play opportunities at some of the events. I don't attend primarily for the play, and it's not unusual for some of us in the group to spend all or most of the evening in the social area chatting.

Najakcharmer -> RE: Femdom site for Femdoms! (5/11/2006 12:51:02 PM)
Freya: Thanks, I'm on it. Proprietrix: You totally rock. Lady Morgynn: Oh hell yeah on the fetish wear thang. "Subs" who insist that I have to wear certain clothes or they won't play need to be more honest about their orientation. If I wanted to be forced to wear skimpy, revealing, uncomfortable clothes to please a man, I'd be a sub. Nothing wrong with kinky bedroom games if you're honest about your orientation, but there's not much more annoying than a kinky fetishist who wants it served exactly his way but calls himself a submissive. And I am not a McDomme's where a sub can just drive through and order. "I want a Kinky Quarter Pounder in fishnet stockings, hold the bondage, extra Special Sauce lube for my ass fucking, with a side order of oral sex. Because I truly want to serve." Uh huh. Kinky fetishists need to be up front and honest about their orientation and desires to prospective partners, or there is going to be a seriously dysfunctional mismatch of expectations. As Jay Wiseman says, when one partner is naked and tied up and the other is standing over them holding a whip, now is not the time to have a mismatch of expectations. Get it straight and honest up front please, or the consequences can be really unfortunate.

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