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ChatteParfaitt -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 9:15:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing wow i didn't realize a pic of my pussy was really a big issue this is an adult website which focus is completely based on kink i don't need an excuse for my pic's u don't like what you see don't look . as for me a person who always hid from the camera that pic ina way was like independence day from one of my own personal bondage . so if i women puts a pic of her clit means iam probally only wanting a fuck partner an nothing else . then what does a dick pic mean . also i have to disagree about its all pretty much the same from the waist down. thats complete bs have you ever seen the exact same two on anyone .? hell even identical twins are not the same lol one might be a lighter shade of pink than the other for crying out loud . just my personal opinion . lol i love this ls :) Posting a pussy pic is not a big issue at all if you want to be treated like a piece of cunt meat only. Post as many pussy pics as you like then. The fact that this is an adult site doesn't mean that people will not look at your profile and make assumptions about who you are and what you really want. A pussy pic sort of screams low class carnival skank looking for dick, IMO. The fact that you don't know this, speaks volumes. But you know, carry on, and I will not look forward to your next posting of your next train wreck of a relationship.

xssve -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 11:17:26 AM)
I don't know if I believe all this shit either, suffering, I like woman that's proud of her pussy, it's part of you, one likes someone who is as fond of it as you are, so I'll dispense with all the amateur psychologizing and take you at face value: I see this more as an issue of you just haven't found a guy that's into you as much as he into your pussy - unfortunately, not an uncommon situation with the male of the species, in fact a lot of guys will pretend to like you to get to the pussy - it doesn't mean you're unlovable, or want anything unreasonable - with women though, it usually the opposite scenario, they hold out on the pussy till the guy demonstrates his willingness to jump through requisite hoops, and that is expressed in the conventional wisdom, "why buy the cow", etc. Plenty of guys grateful for the pussy though, and will love you simply for your generosity and not making 'em perform like a trained seal which can be kind of demeaning for a man - thing is, you might not find these guys by looking in the Dom demographic - you might be better off hooking up with a nice guy who is interested, not too hung up, but inexperienced who will appreciate your attention and company as much as he does your hot little ass, which is after all, in any real, balanced relationship, bonus - all that and pussy too? Who's complaining? I can't figure men out most of the time either and I am one - most women that go through this end up very defensive at best, often bitter and cynical, even mercenary at worst, which is what I'm more used to dealing with, I applaud your spirit. Anyway, you might find that, leading with your cooch, but it will take longer, men often mistake this as a sign of their own irresistible prowess withe the female of the species in abstract, rather than your generosity of body and spirit, and both heads swell up, so you might have to go through a few prospects till you find one that fits your needs - if you have some reservations about promiscuity, and there's nothing wrong with that either, you might want to lead with something else, and leave the pussy for a surprise.

xssve -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 11:38:22 AM)
Another way of looking at it is that while pussy is pussy, to some degree, time is money - so for my part, I appreciate a woman that lays it on the line and doesn't waste my time trying to figure out whether she's gonna give it up or not, and when, and what she expects in return, and on the other hand, I have had kind of the opposite problem: I can find women willing to take time out of their busy schedule to pencil me in for sex, but they don't have time for a relationship, so it goes - it's really the time I value, even more than the pussy.

coookie -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 1:05:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing wow i didn't realize a pic of my pussy was really a big issue this is an adult website which focus is completely based on kink i don't need an excuse for my pic's u don't like what you see don't look . as for me a person who always hid from the camera that pic ina way was like independence day from one of my own personal bondage . so if i women puts a pic of her clit means iam probally only wanting a fuck partner an nothing else . then what does a dick pic mean . also i have to disagree about its all pretty much the same from the waist down. thats complete bs have you ever seen the exact same two on anyone .? hell even identical twins are not the same lol one might be a lighter shade of pink than the other for crying out loud . just my personal opinion . lol i love this ls :) Okay so you like your cunt on display. So let it be. Your responders were trying to be helpful. And btw what does it say when a guy just has a cock pic? generally that they are looking for a quick shag. Take the advice given or dont it really does not matter. You are a responsible adult and make your own choices just like the rest of the population though i see no reason to get all defensive about it.

LadyPact -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 1:10:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing wow i didn't realize a pic of my pussy was really a big issue this is an adult website which focus is completely based on kink i don't need an excuse for my pic's u don't like what you see don't look . as for me a person who always hid from the camera that pic ina way was like independence day from one of my own personal bondage . so if i women puts a pic of her clit means iam probally only wanting a fuck partner an nothing else . then what does a dick pic mean . also i have to disagree about its all pretty much the same from the waist down. thats complete bs have you ever seen the exact same two on anyone .? hell even identical twins are not the same lol one might be a lighter shade of pink than the other for crying out loud . just my personal opinion . lol i love this ls :) Pretty much the same thing. With your experience so far, which of the guys that have a dick pic on their profile are looking to have a relationship that amounts to more than being a fuck buddy? Did the guy who went back to his wife after you were his booty call for a few months have one? If you want to advertise yourself as fuckmeat, that's completely your option. Just don't piss and moan when that's all you are to someone and wonder why they don't have an interest in actually talking to you other than when they are about to get their dick wet. By any chance have you discussed with your therapist about the possible link between your 'high sex drive' and what might be the relation to attempting to use the 'sex = love, attention, positive feelings' thing? That might not be what's happening here at all. If it is, you wouldn't be the first person to misplace what is actually the driving force behind the libido. I hate to say it, but there's a much bigger picture going on here, and it's not all about a pussy pic.

thishereboi -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 1:27:02 PM)
Did this guy show up after your thread about needing a dick so bad? Might be something to think about.

LadyConstanze -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 1:43:46 PM)
OP, get yourself a vibrator and lots of rechargeable batteries and masturbate all you want, but don't sell yourself as a piece of fluff they can use and then discard, if you're worried that they won't like you because you don't fuck them, they will only like you as long as they're horny. You're willing to risk heartbreak, STDs and being treated like crap for a quick fuck or you rather have a relationship?

Arpig -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 7:00:54 PM)
quote: I don't understand the fact that he would have so much care and respect when with me in the bdrm and have the complete opposite everywhere else ? He was so full of diplomacy when he was in roleplay why didn't or couldn't he respect me enough to be completely straight with me ? I haven't read through the whole thread, but my take is simple. He's a player, and you got played. Sorry.

xssve -> RE: absence of attention (5/16/2011 10:53:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig quote: I don't understand the fact that he would have so much care and respect when with me in the bdrm and have the complete opposite everywhere else ? He was so full of diplomacy when he was in roleplay why didn't or couldn't he respect me enough to be completely straight with me ? I haven't read through the whole thread, but my take is simple. He's a player, and you got played. Sorry. Yeah, it happens to the best of us, but right off hand, I'd suggest that dallying with married men is probably a strategy with a relatively low probability of success.

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: absence of attention (5/16/2011 11:58:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt In the month since you have been posting on this forum, you have started threads on the following topics: about what you call manic mode, that is, how you start crying when he leaves about badly needing dick, to the point your child had to comfort you about wondering if you were a booty call and now this one about absence of attention You are clearly not doing well emotionally, to the point I think you need professional help. Neurotically needy is never attractive. I agree with this. I think it's sad, when someone at any age, much less old enough to know better, acts desperate. M

tazzygirl -> RE: absence of attention (5/17/2011 1:08:55 AM)
I would be upset if I needed dick and I wasnt a booty call.... but thats just me [:D]

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: absence of attention (5/17/2011 4:23:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl I would be upset if I needed dick and I wasnt a booty call.... but thats just me [:D] I too would be upset, if I needed dick, and didn't have at least a couple of people to call on. I don't call, but I'm comforted by the fact that I have 'em. [:D] M

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