How should I start this? . Is it easy? What we want to hear from someone we love knowing that  our minds are clouded with love and  all we want to hear is  "I love you" , would it be as easy as that?. But I tell you it's not .

 

W/we try and get into ones heart and mind for love  and joy and peace  so W/e can spend the rest of  our days together, but I wish this was true for W/we (meaning anyone that wants to meet some one off line or in real life) , W/we have to know each other  a million times over in order to do so . W/we can to  this came man style get a club and hit our partners over the head and drag them off to where we want them to go,  top or bottom doesn't matter, same sex or different sex don't make a difference. What the other one wants the other may not want it but  in this life style that we live in  does this matter? I am telling A/all of you new or not, it does, you have to listen to your  partner or a least try , does not mean "sub/slave you do this  or it's over" . Together you have to talk things out,  if you get mad walk away for a while but talk with your partner and  try to hear what they are saying , don't hit them over the head and tell them "It has to be My way  or nothing" ,because you know it's not  like that at all..but W/e would like it that way very much.

All we want to hear  are the words  "I love you" but life isn't that simple. If someone dies in our spouses life we have to be there for them, we  just  cannot  ignore it,  they have feelings  just like we do. W/e have to listen to what they're saying , W/we just can think  "Yea yea it will be ok" for we know it won't be ok.  Are W/we are all deaf when it comes to listening to our partners when they are trying to say some thing? Or is that we don't  understand what they are saying? If W/e don't understand, then ask, then tell them W/we don't understand .The bottom says  "stay out of out of My head" and  the Top says "No I won't for it  belongs to Me" , I tell it's wrong for it does not belong to you . It only belongs to you  because they allow it to be Yours, not because You own  their minds , thoughts as well, they give it to You freely. We, the Tops if you will do not and will ever own a sub/slave ,whether it will be Male or female if they walk away then they walk away just because We did not listen to  what they were saying because they tried so hard to  tell us their dreams but we didn't  care , or we didn't understand what they were.then if that's the case I ask why didn't you listen  I hope I listen to Mine as best as I can for I love her deeply more then what she may know.

What I'm trying to say is LISTEN to what they tell you or ask of you it's not hard to be understanding we all have the power in order to do so. So Do It.

The bottom line  of what I'm trying to say here is listen to what Y/your partner is trying to tell Y/you.