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Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:24:18 PM   
CuteButEvil1


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Status: offline 		I aquired a new maid guy a bit ago and put him through a training program of listening to hypnosis Mp3s and positive reinforcement. The training went too well.
He waits on me hand and foot and keeps the apt. immaculate but the problem is that he lives and breathes to be a maid now. He has gotten several uniforms and even sleeps in one to be ready in case I desire anything. Sometimes I just want to see a male naked body but he won't be out of uniform, ever. I can't seem to undo his training now.
How can I get him back to a normal maid, only on demand, not 24/7 ?
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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:27:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		If he's that well trained... how about just ORDERING him to do what you want?
Or is it that he's so well trained that he'll disobey you when you don't give the correct orders?




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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:29:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Exactly. Either he is trained to obey or he is not. Which is it?

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:32:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't deal with a service submissive who can't take orders. He can sleep in his maid outfit somewhere far away.

P.S. hypnosis really only works on those who want it to work. He's choosing to - it isn't some terribly powerful conditioning.


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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:39:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like he's got the "domme" trained to cater to his fetish 24/7.  Mission accomplished.

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:42:52 PM   
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Sounds like he's got the "domme" trained to cater to his fetish 24/7.  Mission accomplished.



That is exactly what I was thinking.

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:47:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CuteButEvil1

I aquired a new maid guy a bit ago and put him through a training program of listening to hypnosis Mp3s and positive reinforcement. The training went too well.
He waits on me hand and foot and keeps the apt. immaculate but the problem is that he lives and breathes to be a maid now. He has gotten several uniforms and even sleeps in one to be ready in case I desire anything. Sometimes I just want to see a male naked body but he won't be out of uniform, ever. I can't seem to undo his training now.
How can I get him back to a normal maid, only on demand, not 24/7 ?


By the same methods you indoctrinated him into being a maid, would be my suggestion. Hypnosis is strong stuff. Since he is so open to it, continue to use it. Find one (or better, make one yourself) that emphasizes flexibility in service and the concept that doing the will of one's mistress, no matter what it is, will make him feel far happier and more devoted than any specific activity. As usual, hypnotic suggestions need to be positive, but do stress the suggestions that he does anything his mistress wants whenever she wants it, that serving her needs and placing them before his makes him feel great, how wonderful it is to be be so flexible and attuned to her desires, etc.

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 4:58:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorta' sounds like he is in control now and you have become his service top. 

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 5:03:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

If he's that well trained... how about just ORDERING him to do what you want?
Or is it that he's so well trained that he'll disobey you when you don't give the correct orders?




My thoughts too..He can't be "too well trained" if he refuses to accommodate her lol. It sounds like a bunch of fantasy to me to begin with.


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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 5:30:29 PM   
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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 5:39:29 PM   
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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 6:13:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		My interpretation is the OP is stuck with a disobedient maid when what she really wants is an obedient slave.  It seems the consensus is she needs to take control.  I don't think we can teach her to control her maid and make them into the slave she dreams of. 

You can't dis someone for using self help tools, but was she careless or lazy by using tapes to train the maid instead of doing it herself? 
I think she needs to examine why she trained someone to be something she doesn't want them to be?
... and what the hell was on those tapes anyway? 

I guess it just goes to the old adage that "you reap what you sew".  If you leave someone with self help tapes to train themselves, they will become what they want to be, not what you want them to be.   




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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/7/2011 6:20:16 PM   
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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 7:24:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Couldn't you just get a different one to do all that sex stuff women are always going on about? Also, everything everyone else said.

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 7:29:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Trained too well?  Baloney.

Here's how you do this.  You say - you are only permitted this, this, and this. 

Problem solved.


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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 7:34:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		So let me get this straight. You have used your "hypnosis MP3's" to "train" your guy to disobey you and now you can't figure out how to train him to obey? Do you have any idea how implausible that sounds?

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 7:59:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lend him to me. I'll sort him out. ;)

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 9:13:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

So let me get this straight. You have used your "hypnosis MP3's" to "train" your guy to disobey you and now you can't figure out how to train him to obey? Do you have any idea how implausible that sounds?


Exactly!  I hate to call B.S. on the OP, but that's some grade A bullshit.

Did the MP3 tell him to wear the maid outfit 24/7?  If not, then why would he be doing it?  Perhaps you had an MP3 malfunction. 

Essentially, you've admitted that you're incapable of training your own sub, so you used a (faulty) MP3 to do it for you.  That definitely isn't going to win you the Domme-of-the-Year Award.

I doubt that the majority of those hypnosis MP3's actually work.  But even if they did, hypnosis can't force someone to do what they really don't want to do in the first place.  So your sub apparently already had a desire to disobey you.

Here's a hint:  rather than blame some ridiculous MP3, why not consider the possibility that your sub already had a fetish for wearing maid uniforms.  Now that you've "hypnotized" him to do so, he now has the permission that he needed to fully embrace his fetish.  And his fetish is more important to him than you are.  That's why he's disobeying you to focus on his fetish.

I'll send you my bill. 

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 9:22:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		See... this is EXACTLY why I shun the Svengali-esque mind control techniques. You never know when they'll run amok and the next thing you know you can't get your slave to wear what you want her to. Perhaps if the OP tried some NLP, EST or brainwashing... maybe a cocktail of all 3? At that point I guess her maid will probably look and act normal until he gets the code word to activate his secret agent identity and he turns into a super killer.

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RE: Maid trained too well - 5/8/2011 9:36:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ariane23

Lend him to me. I'll sort him out. ;)


I vote for the use of an electric shock collar myself!

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