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NoaFrayedKnot -> Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 3:27:19 AM)

i have discovered that i want to be taken by a woman with a strap-on-cock. i have always desired to worship a Mistress in thigh-high boots along with other leather accessories. However, this new desire and attraction to a Woman donning a strap-on-cock has me aroused and confused at the same time. How do i go about exploring and finding such a Goddess?



Suleiman -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 3:51:01 AM)

Might I humbly suggest Asking For It? There are, believe you me, a great many wonderful ladies, girls, madames, dommes, goddesses, gals, dames, women, wimmin, grrrrls, and yes even chicks who enjoy "sticking it to the man".



Sundew02 -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 4:18:21 AM)

"Sticking it to males"? Smile, I wouldn't say that is why I enjoy my strapon. I enjoy the sounds and the control. As to my advice, I would say read the profiles of the Dommes, and see if you can find one that otherwise suits your personality. Myself I have zero interest in looking like a stereotype, the leather boots, etc. My mode of dress is up to my mood and personal taste, not something I do FOR the male. What I do for the male is use him, so always remember if you have a narrow area of interest finding someone to touch you will be extremely difficult. Sundew



NoaFrayedKnot -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 5:01:57 AM)

Ms. Sundew,
Thank You for Your advice, i am new to this site and was amazed at getting such a fast response to my inquiry. i do understand about the sterotype look You mention but i just love the look of thigh high boots. However, i could get over the leather boots for a stiff shaft of plastic.
joseph



MaitresseEden -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 8:38:10 AM)

Speaking as one who often enjoys.. "sticking it to males" . I just don't care for the "do me" attitude.. simply offer the use of any orifice if I should wish.. but the rule number one is when I go for that orifice don't start whineing about it. I hate whiners.

Ms.Eden



proudsub -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/10/2004 12:01:51 PM)

Here are two other threads that might interest you:

subs craving strap ons..

what does the mistress get out of a strap on



LadySonelle -> RE: Strap-on desires (10/12/2004 10:20:23 AM)

Since you are here, on CollarMe, I suggest using the features of the site. I only just discovered to My great delight, the search function in the opening section has phrase capacity. If you look for the gender, height, weight, etc, and put 'strap on' in the search word area, you will find a listing of Dommes who include strap ons in their repertoires.

That would be a good way to begin.

Lady Sonelle



Prazi444 -> RE: Strap-on desires (12/29/2004 8:03:39 PM)

Um, some of us like our Dommes to dress up in black leather. But they have the last say, right?

PJX



alwayzron -> RE: Strap-on desires (12/29/2004 8:45:11 PM)

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when I go for that orifice don't start whineing about it.

You know ... few guys know how much taking it in the ass can hurt. More of a burning, really. And I don't care what people say about "taking it slow" ... and "if it hurts, it's not done right" ..... I have always experienced some inital pain, no matter how slow or small things start out. But I think this is too often a fantasy that dissapears with the onset of reality.



submise -> RE: Strap-on desires (12/30/2004 6:43:00 AM)

I just have to say, prepare yourself first. If you haven't already, purchase a dildo with a suction cup on the bottom... practice makes perfect.



noireman -> RE: Strap-on desires (1/1/2005 1:33:55 PM)

Wow!! What and interesting topic!! I must say that the first time a domme approached me with the idea, I thought it was gay. It took me 3 yrs to get over the idea that it was gay. When I finally surrendered to a dildo, I found it amazing. Although when asked how I liked it, I lied and said it was horrible. Just does not seem to be something I'd volunteer with my mate. Yeah, I know I should be able to tell my mate anything, but how do you go about telling the woman you are involved with -- hey, I like it up the ass too. Though in general conversation in the life style, I have found many women that have done it to there subs or significant others and they see nothing wrong, but then, they arent my mate.



ProtagonistLily -> RE: Strap-on desires (1/3/2005 5:12:48 PM)

You know, there's a big differance between vanilla sex and kink. More often than not, it's the sex part....

I've been in the lifestyle for over 5 years, and I've had very little sex, and I've played with countless people and have a lot of experience.

I'm tired of submissives trying to pair up on predetermined ideas about what they like and want. I'm certainly not saying that submissives shouldn't have a good idea of what their hard limits are, however, there's much more to serving a Mistress than what you like. As it has been so often said, the less I hear about a submissive's 'kinks' in the beginning, with respect to specifics, the more inclined I am to continue a discussion and consider them.

There's a differance between what I term "kinky sex" and 'Kink". I wish you guys would figure this out....I bet that W/we'd all have an easier time finding compatible pairings.

See, my thing is doing what I want, and denying an orgasm until I've decided it's time. How we do that is up to me. And I can pretty much gaurentee if you are all about a "strap on" or what ever you are jonesing for you'd be smart not to hold your breath waiting because I'm not particularly inclined to fulfill your desires before I fulfill mine.

If you can't submit without certain accoutrements on the Domme (boots, etc.) I'd caution you to examine yourself a little more closely.

Lily


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ORIGINAL: NoaFrayedKnot

Ms. Sundew,
Thank You for Your advice, i am new to this site and was amazed at getting such a fast response to my inquiry. i do understand about the sterotype look You mention but i just love the look of thigh high boots. However, i could get over the leather boots for a stiff shaft of plastic.
joseph




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