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LadyNTrainer -> RE: explain Race Play from your point of veiw (5/12/2011 7:41:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
And I can understand that. Frankly, I'd be much more likely to be willing to participate in a fantasy you have about being raped by a black gangster if you first established that role-play was a part of our relationship. So if I had already pretended to be a pirate, an elf, and Zorro for you, then I would be much more open to playing a plantation slave or a gangster.
Whoa there. Who said I would be the one getting raped? You can be as gangsta as you like, homey. I'm still badder than you and you gonna be MY bitch. [:D]
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What offends me is when someone doesn't have the imagination to think of any other roles for me to play. The only ideas they can think of are for me to be a gangster, a plantation slave, or an NBA player. [8|]
Mundanes are so boring.
The fact is, people have sexual fantasies, and those fantasies tend to be about types of people rather than about actual individuals that they know. If you look like you would be easy to typecast in their fantasies, then that's what may well happen. I don't see any issues with indulging sexual fantasies. The key issue is confusing the fantasy with the real human being you're playing with, or making the fantasy more important than the human being who is doing it for you.
Your issue of being fetishized because you are black is essentially the same issue that femdoms face in being fetishized because we have breasts and a vagina. It is No Fun to be seen as nothing but a big black cock, on the same level as it is No Fun to be seen as nothing but tits with a whip. And people who treat other human beings as cardboard cut-out stereotypes rather than as real people with thoughts, feelings, ambitions, desires, needs, etc, are quite annoyingly shallow. Filter and avoid.
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