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Af - 5/14/2011 11:40:25 PM   
sub618


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Status: offline 		Hello
After a brief email exchage, a Domme asked for the following:

Send your Letter of Submission to my alternative e-mail address below  for further communication and make sure you enclose some vanilla/fetish/nude pics of you therein for Her consideration, while declaring your Willing intentions once again to Please and be of Servitude to Mistress in line with Her Mandatory requirements for selection of Her sex slave and also Mistress shall provide slave his Questionnaire.  ( [email protected]  )

Does this exhibit any signs of being less than genuine?

Thank you for your help!
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RE: Af - 5/14/2011 11:52:14 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'll answer your question if you'll answer Mine.

If you've never met this person, how do you know that your vanilla/fetish/nude pictures of you won't be plastered all over the internet?


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RE: Af - 5/14/2011 11:53:22 PM   
isoLadyOwner


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Status: offline 		Not necessarily although she does refer to herself in third person and appears to be complete stranger you met on the internet who wants nude photos of you and might not even be a woman.

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 12:22:42 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub618

Does this exhibit any signs of being less than genuine?



You're kidding, right? Methinks you have a wanker and/or scammer here. Are you sure the 'Domme' is indeed female? Get 'her' on the phone asap for voice verification.

I personally don't know of any actual lifestyle Domme who would make naked pictures and some bogus statement of servitude a requirement for consideration before she even talked with you by phone or met you to see if there was a mutual connection.

Don't send naked pictures to someone questionable...they can be distributed all over hell and gone and after that's happened there's no cleaning up the mess. And do I need to say...unless it is crystal clear 'she' is a professional and you agree to pay for a session, do not send money!!


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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 12:41:59 AM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		I'd say, go with your instincts. I'm thinking your insticnts said, "this sounds phucked up." and this is why you're asking what we thing. M

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 2:22:23 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub618

Hello
After a brief email exchage, a Domme asked for the following:

Send your Letter of Submission to my alternative e-mail address below  for further communication and make sure you enclose some vanilla/fetish/nude pics of you therein for Her consideration, while declaring your Willing intentions once again to Please and be of Servitude to Mistress in line with Her Mandatory requirements for selection of Her sex slave and also Mistress shall provide slave his Questionnaire.  ( [email protected]  )

Does this exhibit any signs of being less than genuine?

Thank you for your help!



OK, most of us here have mailboxes that regularly get swamped by guys wanting to be "sex slaves", I don't dare to imagine the stampede it would cause if any domme would go to a fetish event and spread the word around that she's looking for a male sex slave...

Sounds like that if you will provide the pics, you have NO idea where they are going to end up, or that you might be hit with a "tribute demand" to compensate her for reading your questionnaire...

And you know, most of us aren't all that interested in seeing naked pictures of strangers, that is a bit of a red flag...

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 4:55:18 AM   
ebonywarqueen


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Status: offline 		Why is it that normally intelligent men seem to lose the ability to think when it comes to kink? Why would you even consider sending nude pics of yourself to someone you have never met and only had a BRIEF email exchange with? Do you even have any proof that this person actually is a woman, let alone a Dominant one?

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 2:39:13 PM   
chiaThePet


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Drat, foiled again.

Bitches.

chia* (the pet)


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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 2:45:44 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		Better question is "does it show any sign of having contact with reality"

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 6:16:36 PM   
LeatherBentOne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub618

Hello
After a brief email exchage, a Domme asked for the following:

Send your Letter of Submission to my alternative e-mail address below  for further communication and make sure you enclose some vanilla/fetish/nude pics of you therein for Her consideration, while declaring your Willing intentions once again to Please and be of Servitude to Mistress in line with Her Mandatory requirements for selection of Her sex slave and also Mistress shall provide slave his Questionnaire.  ( [email protected]  )

Does this exhibit any signs of being less than genuine?

Thank you for your help!




This smacks as being phony to me.

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 7:00:47 PM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Interesting since it's similar to what I require. After a few e-mail exchanges on CO, I exchange e-mail addresses and photos, and send a questionnaire to a prospective sub.
The operative difference being the word "exchange".

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RE: Af - 5/15/2011 8:35:32 PM   
BlackTigerDragon


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Status: offline 		I would send her an email with vanilla/fetish/nude pics of my middle finger.

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RE: Af - 5/23/2011 6:05:47 PM   
MistressK2011


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Status: offline 		You might say, "You first."

lol

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RE: Af - 5/30/2011 12:38:10 AM   
PdxJ


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Status: offline 		If I ask for a picture, I usually specify - 'non-nudity and must show your eyes.'  And - 'do not send nude photos, I know what a naked woman looks like.'

I just don't get what the deal is with getting nude pics. It's the internet - a few clicks and there are millions of nude pics of virtually every body type, state of undress, position, etc.
Why solicit nude pics?

And - OP, your intuition is there for a reason. That alarm bell in your head isn't a dance tune.


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