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LadyHugs -> RE: So confused... (5/18/2006 12:16:23 PM)
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Dear Luvbug, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I wanted to first say, that I am always disappointed in dominants to whom portray one thing and are entirely another.
Lies are not good at all. The trust broken, is never restored ever again and repeated lies are just a conformation that trust is broken and pieces float further apart.
That said, I know that there are two sides to every story. However based on what is posted, these are my thoughts on the matter and offer for consideration.
Masters are human. Although they may know a lot, that does not mean that they are able to apply it. They may know how to have a commanding presence or technically know how to whip someone. However, a Master is much more. In addition, not all Masters are good trainers. And, not all good trainers make good Masters.
I feel the need to refresh on what power slaves have. The slave empowers and enables a Master to be "the Master," and as long as you accept that, that Master will continue. You feed that power and energy the Master requires as to function as one. If he is of the mind that slaves are property and feelings, desires and such are not entitled to a slave, then this Master is for you. My written question out loud for you to consider, is what kind of M/s and or D/s "mentality" did you agree to. What was negotiated. If the negotiated contract and or terms of agreement are broken, it is no different than a breech of contract, as you acted 'in good faith.' Treating it from a business aspect it may take the romantic, the "love" and the emotional parts out of the logic of the questions you need to ask.
Taking a step onto the legal realm, to support your logic and judgment now. You have found evidence that supports your lack of trust in this Master. It has been found that while it was a condition of forgiveness for the first lies as it regarded to your trust and betrayal, it has been established once again--that he cannot behave in a manner which is acceptable in your "court." There needs to be a stiffer penalty for the repeated offenses and the perjury he has committed. It would land someone in jail. The question is, will you release this Master again on his own personal word not to do such things again? (Probation or conditional release).
Apparently, this Master has his motives. He has demonstrated his intent. He does know the consequences of his actions, by hurting you again, does it again. Unfortunately, dear lass-- I believe he will never change. If sincere, he would not have given you proof to confirm he is a liar. Now, if ads were for "training" help--fine but, your post reflects that he is looking for another slave who will enable him to act badly.
I'm sure he knows that he will need to find a home to live in very soon; especially if you remove the Master's rubbish to the curb and no returns.
The heart of yours has been broken so many times. However, you can do better and are entitled to better. You have the power to recall from the Master and disable him. The sad part is, the careless manner how he has treated you and your daughter's affections. However, if you cannot trust him, your daughter should not be subjected to an individual who can't be trusted either. Do for your daughter, the right thing as well as yourself.
It is better to be alone and know what you have and what you can depend on and have trust in, then to have someone around that your mind will have doubts in.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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