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Love the aftercare - 5/15/2011 10:41:36 AM

falccon

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After a hard spanking session, I'm in a total different world. I can't describe it, but I like it. I remember one particular episode where the Mistress whipped me hard with a crop then follwed that with heavy paddling. I broke some tears that day, and the Domme that I'd be pissed off with her. When I got up, I went over to the lady, put my arms around her and thanked her.Also,what I like after the session is when a Domme hugs me while I'm moaning and groaning in pain. It's a feeling of being loved, and it's very powerful.

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RE: Love the aftercare - 5/15/2011 11:41:02 AM

MasterSlaveLA

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Some like/need/want "aftercare" -- some don't. (shrugs)

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RE: Love the aftercare - 5/15/2011 11:54:37 AM

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I wonder if there's a pathology here related to being hugged by your mother after she disciplines you.

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RE: Love the aftercare - 5/15/2011 12:59:19 PM

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I always attempt to hold and make my sub feel appreciated after rough playtime, especially if we did anything that required me to be more forceful or mean than usual. There was an incident once where something I said got to her emotionally, so I learned to become more gentle after rough sessions. We are very close though, so those who are involved in more "play only" relationships may prefer something else, or some may not desire that kind of affection at all. You know how the saying goes... "different strokes for different folks".

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RE: Love the aftercare - 5/15/2011 1:11:28 PM

Hisprettybaby

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I feel that aftercare is just as much for the Dom/me as for the sub. We enjoy it together and take care of each other.

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