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lexora -> idea (5/16/2011 4:59:23 AM)
hello all, it is a weird question but I do want to know if there is ever anyone who would like this idea. is basically getting a slave for a service or so, like if you want a room painted or so, or you just want a maid or someone to clean the house, basically anything, and lets say, you want me in a maids outfit to clean the house or serve some guest of yours. you would buy the outfit and any supplies needed. you could punish me if i do not do it well, or slack a little or slow down. or if you just want a slave to clean the car naked with a vib in bum (just so you can whip em or just to humiliate someone), you would need to supply vib and cleaning items. That would be a short straight to the point version. it would not be a relationship maybe at most once or twice, depending on job. maybe not even a one shot deal if needed can meet again for other jobs or so. At times, some people just want someone for short periods not to long just to do this and that. This is no paid service you would not pay me and i would not pay you, i would do the work and you would punish me and supply what is needed to do job properly. That would be the idea, anyone think that is a good idea? I would think a public meeting before hand to talk things over be good to do, this way I get details and directions to where I need to be and you would get all the info you need from me, size of clothing and so on. Any questions ask away but I can see this being needed but even if so I also see it not working >< I know there are times people say they need help in a farm, to clean the house, for some party or even a driver to drive them around a little. But mostly they are pro dommes wanting people to pay them or they really far away from me.. but any thoughts on this would be great.

Rule -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 5:02:42 AM)
If one is not in a relationship and provides service, it is reasonable that such a person is recompensed.

LadyConstanze -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 5:09:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rule If one is not in a relationship and provides service, it is reasonable that such a person is recompensed. If the person actually gets something out of doing so, then that could be seen as re-compensation... Say somebody has a fetish for cleaning somebody's house in a maid's outfit... Nobody would be forced to work for free, it would be volunteers from my understanding, so I guess that means they would only volunteer if it floats their boat... In theory a great idea, but like a lot of others I'd be a bit careful who I invite into my own personal space and far too often looking pretty in the outfit and pretending to dust or clean seems to be the order of the day, or breaking things on purpose to be "punished"

lexora -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 5:15:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze In theory a great idea, but like a lot of others I'd be a bit careful who I invite into my own personal space and far too often looking pretty in the outfit and pretending to dust or clean seems to be the order of the day, or breaking things on purpose to be "punished" yes true, the meeting before hand and talking over mail or IM would be ways to get to know each other, but if i was to do it i would not pretend why pretend word of mouth helps this a lot and well faking is no fun as well >> then you end up having to do it anyway or getting nothing in it but yes there are many flaws and a few to many kinkers out there... makes it hard

ReginaMirus -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 5:33:32 AM)
Sounds like a hell of alot of work for me. How about this...you do the work, skip the silly clothes and the games, I inspect after you're done, if it's up to snuff, I beat your ass as a reward. If it's a half-assed or piss poor job, then you get nothing. That sounds like a better scenario to me. What do you think?

OttersSwim -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 6:08:31 AM)
Yea, again not a lot of traction for this kind of idea with your stipulations. Things like this happen all the time...but with a difference. If there is an outfit to be worn, it would be on you to provide it and make sure that it does not keep you from actually doing the task that you are there to perform... Very few places to wash a car while you are naked...insertables with strangers...eeewwwwww!!!! Now, if you want to stick a carrot up your bum or whatever, as long as it does not interfere with the task you are there to do...meh... Slack or slow down on purpose thinking that you were going to get some funishment, and for most Ladies you would be done and out. Buh'bye If at the end, the Lady was happy with what you had done for her, she would provide a period of service topping for you. My Lady did something like this with another girlie-boy who came in and cleaned out our closet and completely re-organized it. She was late arriving and spent the first 10 minutes nearly naked in the garage in the middle of winter. She brought her own clothes, changed completely on her own, did a very thorough job and is someone we wave at and take time to talk to at events to this day.

thishereboi -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 6:23:33 AM)
If I need my house cleaned and have to spend the money on an outfit and then take the time to watch you clean so I can tell you if its good and punish you....sorry but that is too much work. I would rather have someone I could trust to leave and come back to a clean house. Not have to worry about what they are wearing. Not have to police them because they know how to clean. Then I have time to get the shit done I need to do and more time to play. But I am sure there is someone who will want this so good luck with that.

SomethingCatchy -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:47:07 AM)
FROM THE FAQ SECTION THAT SAYS PLEASE READ THIS AT THE VERY TOP OF THE MISTRESS BOARD. quote: Common Kinks/Fantasies Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]? A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. So as you can see, yes. There is someone, somewhere that would enjoy your fantasy. I am not one of them. I much prefer the other scenario suggested, the one where if you do the job right, you get some play time. I don't have the patience to 'hire' someone to do a job and then have to constantly harass them about doing what they've been told.

LadyPact -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 9:15:32 AM)
More often, when folks bring up the idea of NSA housework or bartering chores for play, there isn't any of this bit about buying clothes, toys, etc to be provided by the Dominant. There are plenty of folks who offer to do this without the financial investment being on the Domme. A number of folks try this route trying to get to know Dominant women. Most people that I know aren't interested in it unless it is someone that they know very well. Chats and a meet up over coffee certainly wouldn't satisfy My requirements of getting into My house. I'll save the risk, effort, and expense and do My own dusting, thank you.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 10:47:11 AM)
As a general rule, you should buy your own outfit and insertables. These are personal items that shouldn't be shared and since it is your kink to have these things you should be responsible for them, not the Domme. I have a service sub who is exceptionally thorough and brilliant at organizing. My closets and cabinets have never looked so good. He has also baked for me when I needed something to take to a potluck and didn't have time or desire to do it myself. He keeps the cathouse weeded and the bedroom clean, which is where I keep all the 'stuff' that I don't want my regular housekeeper to see. He wears what I tell him to wear, or naked if I want him that way. He never demands particulars as 'terms of service' but I encourage him to make requests. If I feel like accommodating him I will, but that's never guaranteed. We are casual friends who have known each other several years, and I trust him to work unsupervised. In fact, his whole "thing" is providing assistance to a busy woman to help make her life more comfortable. Works for me, literally and figuratively.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 2:26:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy FROM THE FAQ SECTION THAT SAYS PLEASE READ THIS AT THE VERY TOP OF THE MISTRESS BOARD. quote: Common Kinks/Fantasies Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]? A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. I've seen this quoted more than once recently. lol quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt As a general rule, you should buy your own outfit and insertables. These are personal items that shouldn't be shared and since it is your kink to have these things you should be responsible for them, not the Domme. That's what I thought too. ~Hisprettybaby~

windchymes -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 3:01:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi If I need my house cleaned and have to spend the money on an outfit and then take the time to watch you clean so I can tell you if its good and punish you....sorry but that is too much work. I would rather have someone I could trust to leave and come back to a clean house. Not have to worry about what they are wearing. Not have to police them because they know how to clean. Then I have time to get the shit done I need to do and more time to play. But I am sure there is someone who will want this so good luck with that. I completely agree, it would be easier just to clean the house myself. [:)]

ResidentSadist -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:13:42 PM)
Sounds like the author should hook up with Rosie O'Donnell and fill her wish from the movie Exit to Eden to "paint her house".

BonesFromAsh -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:15:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lexora is basically getting a slave for a service or so, like if you want a room painted or so, or you just want a maid or someone to clean the house, basically anything, and lets say, you want me in a maids outfit to clean the house or serve some guest of yours. you would buy the outfit and any supplies needed. you could punish me if i do not do it well, or slack a little or slow down. or if you just want a slave to clean the car naked with a vib in bum (just so you can whip em or just to humiliate someone), you would need to supply vib and cleaning items. Thoughts....I think for me, this wouldn't work out. Anyone who comes to my house to clean or do yard work would need to wear regular clothing. I have neighbors. What sort of references can you offer? I'm not letting a total stranger into my home to clean or do work without checking professional references. Why should I supply you with an outfit and insertables that I wouldn't use again? What would I get from your scenario? While you may be able to find someone who'll be interested, that person wouldn't be me. I would rather take the money you'd expect me to spend on your clothes and toys and hire a cleaning service. I would get references, a professionally cleaned house and I wouldn't have to chase them around with a crop waiting for them to slack off.

sunshinemiss -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:24:42 PM)
You are a meanie.

tazzygirl -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:25:37 PM)
Thats meaniebutthead... oh... wait... im in public. sowwy, my bad.

BonesFromAsh -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:38:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss You are a meanie. [sm=lastthing.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:47:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Sounds like the author should hook up with Rosie O'Donnell and fill her wish from the movie Exit to Eden to "paint her house". Ummmmmm...... I've had people do that. [:D]

LadyNTrainer -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 7:52:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lexora is basically getting a slave for a service or so, like if you want a room painted or so, or you just want a maid or someone to clean the house, basically anything, and lets say, you want me in a maids outfit to clean the house or serve some guest of yours. you would buy the outfit and any supplies needed. At this point it'll be both cheaper and a hell of a lot less drama to hire a professional house cleaner who is not going to be getting their kink on while they are doing a really good, professional job cleaning my house. Yeah. No. Letting some stranger into my house so he can prance around and get his kicks in a maid's outfit - at my expense even - isn't happening. For all I know, he's going to fuck my dog and shit in my refrigerator. At the very least, he's going to be too busy focusing on how turned on he is by all this stuff to do a decent job of actually, you know, CLEANING MY HOUSE. Which is supposed to be what he's there for, except he won't be. The primary motive here is not to get my house clean, but for you to get your kicks. Nope. Not cool. I'd have to know the person already and trust them before I'd be willing to let them work in my home unsupervised. And if I have to supervise every second because I don't trust them not to drip body fluids on the furniture, I might as well be doing the work myself.

lexora -> RE: idea (5/16/2011 8:56:54 PM)
ty all for replies :) its been very helpful

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