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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:38:54 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Well there is a road we travel to get there Bita :P there is a point where there are still thoughts and at that time you just get so fucked up in the head cuz you knw if you let yrself go its so far to get back and what if nothing happens and what if and what if and what if and what if ...but you so want to go there ..and you knwo when youve been triggered and it takes so mcuh energy to pull back cuz you really dont want to

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:44:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Never grasped the slave mentality, which is good since I'm not one.. LOL

However, being ont he other end of the whip, so to speak, there are times when those in charge crave to see this exact reaction, knowing that everything you are, everything you have and everything you will be in that instant is dictated by us and us alone.  I know I enjoy it, but it's been a few years since I desired anyone that powerfully.  Lately, I've just run into a lot of self-centered pain's in the ass, and not in a good way, either.  30 years old, and it feel like I'm in high school at times still with some of the nonsense the people around me have been pulling as of late.  But that is neither here nor there.  Sorry for that short vent. LOL

From the sounds of it, it does make me feel a bit better about losing myself in that primal, carnal desire knowing that the other person quite possibly is just as lost in it as I am, just from a different point of entry.  Sometimes, it's just hard to notice things when you get wrapped up in the Beast, ya know? LOL

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 8:49:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavejali

Well there is a road we travel to get there Bita :P there is a point where there are still thoughts and at that time you just get so fucked up in the head cuz you knw if you let yrself go its so far to get back and what if nothing happens and what if and what if and what if and what if ...but you so want to go there ..and you knwo when youve been triggered and it takes so mcuh energy to pull back cuz you really dont want to


Oh, not for me, hon! One bite on the back of the neck and it's MONKEY SEX TIME!

I got a couple of other spots as well. ;) When he sinks his teeth into me.. that's it, blink.. INFERNO!

Maybe unfair to go there though.. I 'am' um.. peaking these days. So it's pretty much monkey sex all the time.. well, between loads of laundry which rather explains the load of pink underwear I should think. ;)

Celeste - who has idle curiosity if Jali's spelling is always this bad when her um.. brain is too.. um.. hot. ::chuckles:: Shall we go ahead and purchase that Jali Grill now, hon? Doesn't sound like we'll need any charcoal.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 9:51:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavejali

Dont know if this has been talked about before.

How many slaves/submissives out there really get hot from just purely being an object for your Masters/Mistresses desires in play? I know that is a really really strong trigger for me. I really dont give a fuck about my own desires when it comes to play...my biggest thing is that I'm being used...thats what makes it really hot.

And for the Master/Mistresses, do any of you just simply get hot because of the ability to use your slave in whatever way you want, not really caring if they are getting anything out of it? (Ok granted to start the relationship your compatable in the beginning so you actually know they are getting something out of it...so I'm not meaning you dont care about them or anything like that.)

Thoughts and Comments?


Jali,

I'm with you on this one.  I've often extolled the virtues of clubs in these forums, but one thing the local clubs are big on is "negotiation."  A lot of people expect the sub to ask for a specific type of play.  I want her to do whatever she wants to do, whatever gives her pleasure.

Of course, part of the negotiation process is supposed to be about limits.  But, other than no cutting my hair (I'm trying to get it to ponytail length,) my personal limits are well beyond what is allowed at the club.  So for me, negotiation boils down to, "Don't cut my hair, otherwise do as you please."

In fact, not only do I not want a say in what's going to happen, I prefer not to even know.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 9:56:53 PM   
allspicey


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Status: offline 		That's the best space.  Master's eyes go all dark and intense blue and he looks at me and it's like...oooooo fuck yes/no/yes/no.  His favorite moment i think is when he has brought me to tears.  i don't know how many of you know the work of Louis Royo but his Prohibited books are awesome and we have a poster in the play room.  Master calls me his Royo girl because he says, when the tears are streaming down my cheeks, that my eyes and face are like the girl on the wall.  Being used by Master for his pleasure is the greatest reward he can give me and i truly live for those moments.

As for the energy thing, that's exactly what it is.  Master and i have talked about it because i go nuts on occasion, could literally climb the walls, usually after being around people who have been playing or being exposed to other bdsm things that get my mind in that space.  i fill up with primal energy and i have no way to drain it off.  Master plays with me then to give me release because it can incapacitate me. The need to release the energy is a real need, not just a want at that point and the bleed off is good for both of us.  It puts me back in a space where i can serve him better.

A few years ago i wrote this in a journal i keep:

"There is that within me
that responds to that within you 
No reason
No question
No choice
Together we spiral in the grip of a power
more primal than the ancient night"

spicey

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 9:57:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

This is a tough one... because if I am doing something that makes me hot to be using him in any way I desire.... then he will likely be getting a lot out of the fact that he is being used in any way I please for my pleasure. I think it's a win - win situtaion for the most part.



I definitely agree.  Knowing that she's enjoying herself turns my usual endorphin high into something truly sublime.  The better she gets off on it, the better I get off on it.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 10:31:41 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear slavejali, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
It pleases me when I can have a slave pose, serve and do anything I wish.  So, when that slave approaches as to 'present' my motor starts up and power is kicking in and there on the spot of presenting the energy explodes for me.
 
Some slaves will transmit a lot more energy than some others.  I must think that if they are 'in the mood,' the energy is explosive and not as explosive when they're a bit off their energy. 
 
I am at peace when they settle at my feet and nuzzle with their cheek.
But, I'm really spiritually empowered when any slave transmits power/energy and feel like I had my Wheaties.  Then I drop when they're not around.  I feel like I have a leaky valve.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 10:35:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		That triggers me. I like to be ordered around...and told what to do for my One's pleasure...lol

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 11:04:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavejali

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Original: becca
this is me, too... and, no, you can't demand to be used- but begging is allowed, thankfully.  =)


In our household, begging isnt allowed, Master equates begging with whining :(



That's a shame! As a Dom, begging is one of my biggest turn-ons. I even don't mind begging as a submissive.


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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/11/2006 11:32:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Win Win. The fact that I adore using a willing submissive morsel, and the fact that my favorite morsel loves to be used... Willingly unwilling is how he often puts it. I may objectify him once the ropes go on.... and he may always feel submissive to my will ...  no matter where we are or what we are doing.... I cherish him because I can use him so well.  The part of him that loves to be used and objectified and know without a doubt that he pleases me for I would not permit anything else... that part of him and that part of me... Win Win! LdyS

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/12/2006 5:49:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slavejali
How many slaves/submissives out there really get hot from just purely being an object for your Masters/Mistresses desires in play?

I'm a total objectification junkie.
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Thoughts and Comments?

Umm read my essay on objectification :)  heck I'll be nice and repost a portion-

Being an object means you don't have to think, you don't have to stress, you just have to BE that object. You are there, purely and passively, for service and use. There's no need for you to interpret anything, no need for you to react, only simply to BE there.

That's a pretty awesome state of being for me.

I also enjoy the passivity of the energy involved.  I'm VERY good at becoming the fantasy for someone else- I can become a blank slate for them to impress and project what they want and morph into that.  I can take their energy into me and give it back to them exactly like they want it.  (Not the same way femcar does, but similar principles)  I have to limit these sorts of scenes myself because they can be very tiring and disorienting, I begin to feel literally "washed out."  But one an occasional basis, I love simply being the raw statue on which they can transform immediately into their best fantasy.

Finally, it's just hot.  I got fucked by a friends awesome sadist dom a few months ago.  He was fucking me hard and then starting smacking me and punching into my breasts.  This hurt me of course and I didn't like that and was very unhappy with the pain.  And THEN the wave of "OMG he's getting turned on by my pain and fucking me harder" and that whole mix of just being a fuck/pain toy and the hate of the pain mixed with the love of the objectification....intense.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/12/2006 5:57:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's hot if I can keep the fact out of my head that she wants me to do it so I have to suspend reality first or do something she'd rather not want me to do, which is so much more fun.

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RE: Just for Them.... - 5/12/2006 6:04:20 AM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I can so relate to that LuckyAlbatross

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