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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:31:50 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:41:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins




... i do not look at someone and wonder what they look like naked at all. i'm into guys, what's to wonder at? so i see a slim tall guy, without clothes on i know he's slim and tall. the only thing i don't know is the size of his cock with a hardon...



there is only one person on this site who knows what i look like naked

needles


Using your very own words the only thing we don't know about you is how bad your pussy smells. You have obviously shown off more of yourself than the guy wearing the suit.




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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:44:32 PM   
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Or the woman should keep her children on a leash.



The child wasn't the problem, the problem was the mother pushing a child towards the dogs, the toddler was really unsteady and grabbed the dog to not fall over. If it was me, I would be careful even if somebody says it's a friendly dog, but not just assume "it will be alright, after all it's only my child that might get bitten because I pushed it at strange dogs who are several times the size of my child..." I wasn't worried about what my dogs would do, but what if she does it with another dog who's not used to kids and thinks it's an attack because it gets spooked. I don't think kids should grow up fearing dogs, but teaching them to approach carefully is something a halfway responsible parent should do. The least she could have done was ask "Is it alright if my child strokes them?" The child didn't want to stroke them, it was pushed towards them by the mother who - amazingly - hung back...


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:46:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins




... i do not look at someone and wonder what they look like naked at all. i'm into guys, what's to wonder at? so i see a slim tall guy, without clothes on i know he's slim and tall. the only thing i don't know is the size of his cock with a hardon...



there is only one person on this site who knows what i look like naked

needles


Using your very own words the only thing we don't know about you is how bad your pussy smells. You have obviously shown off more of yourself than the guy wearing the suit.





seriously? you have nothing better than that? how pathetic.

needles

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:47:21 PM   
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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 2:52:58 PM   
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If it is, I owe so many people an apology, that I might as well do form letter....

Dear Denzel Washington..... Matthew McConnaghey...... Van Diesel.....Mr. President...... Unknown Muscular sweaty guy at the gym:


LMAO!

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:04:58 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		No idea how this got onto dogs......but just a thought or two, not being a dog owner...What if a family with a toddler came along and the littlie unexpectedly approached the dog without encouragement?

Generally, the average wobbly toddler is unlikely to cause any great harm to a dog, even if she/he got frightened or *spooked* by it.  They usually just wail and run to Mum and Dad.

Considering the dog is likely to *harm* a toddler far more than a toddler potentially could, I think the best move is to keep the dog leashed and away from small ones once spied.

It's daft and irresponsible to encourage children to approach unknown animals, whatever they are. What WAS she thinking of?

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:13:50 PM   
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Perhaps you are just "undressing them with your eyes" or having a conversation that is leading, but sexually charged for you - without them even knowing it. What about masturbating to the sound of his/her voice on the phone but never fessing up to it?

Do you believe you need to get consent from someone before you take sexual gratification on their behalf, even if they are totally unaware of it?

Akasha


No, of course it's not unethical.  It's human nature. 

On the other hand, foisting this sort of belief system off on a slave would probably make a fun training tool. 

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:17:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins




... i do not look at someone and wonder what they look like naked at all. i'm into guys, what's to wonder at? so i see a slim tall guy, without clothes on i know he's slim and tall. the only thing i don't know is the size of his cock with a hardon...



there is only one person on this site who knows what i look like naked

needles


Using your very own words the only thing we don't know about you is how bad your pussy smells. You have obviously shown off more of yourself than the guy wearing the suit.





seriously? you have nothing better than that? how pathetic.

needles



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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:21:07 PM   
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Perhaps you are just "undressing them with your eyes" or having a conversation that is leading, but sexually charged for you - without them even knowing it. What about masturbating to the sound of his/her voice on the phone but never fessing up to it?

Do you believe you need to get consent from someone before you take sexual gratification on their behalf, even if they are totally unaware of it?


Men would fall over and die if this suddenly became a rule. The porn industry is proof that fantasy is alive and well.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:22:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: ebonywarqueen

If it is, I owe so many people an apology, that I might as well do form letter....

Dear Denzel Washington..... Matthew McConnaghey...... Van Diesel.....Mr. President...... Unknown Muscular sweaty guy at the gym:


LMAO!



Hey, I owe the Unknown Guy at the gym too, but he wasn't really the muscle bound type.... more Lance Armstrong long and lanky type....

Oh, the memories!

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:26:55 PM   
TheCabal


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Men would fall over and die if this suddenly became a rule. The porn industry is proof that fantasy is alive and well.


Yeah....  just men.  *snicker*

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:28:50 PM   
gungadin09


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:29:02 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Women are not as visual as men...But that certainly does not stop them from objectifying a guy. They don't necessarily look at men as a whole being.

They tend to treat me like I am nothing but eye candy.

It hurts the soul.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:30:01 PM   
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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:32:46 PM   
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Men would fall over and die if this suddenly became a rule. The porn industry is proof that fantasy is alive and well.


Yeah....  just men.  *snicker*



Porn guys honestly make me want to vomit...now that guy at the gym

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:34:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins


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ORIGINAL: domiguy


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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins




... i do not look at someone and wonder what they look like naked at all. i'm into guys, what's to wonder at? so i see a slim tall guy, without clothes on i know he's slim and tall. the only thing i don't know is the size of his cock with a hardon...



there is only one person on this site who knows what i look like naked

needles


Using your very own words the only thing we don't know about you is how bad your pussy smells. You have obviously shown off more of yourself than the guy wearing the suit.





seriously? you have nothing better than that? how pathetic.

needles



It sucks when your words are used against you...You are not mad at me, you are mad at you.

Let me help you heal.

Come to Domiguy.



i'm not mad at you, you are quite right on that point, because you are not worth the effort that would take. i'm not mad at myself because i have said exactly what i meant too. you have not used my words against me at all, you've just been rather silly trying to insult me with your own words because you can't come up with anything more intelligent

there's nothing to heal and if there were i'm more likely to used natural remedies than toxic waste thanks all the same.

needles


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:38:22 PM   
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guy at the gym


That guy gets around a lot

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:39:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ebonywarqueen

If it is, I owe so many people an apology, that I might as well do form letter....

Dear Denzel Washington..... Matthew McConnaghey...... Van Diesel.....Mr. President...... Unknown Muscular sweaty guy at the gym:


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/17/2011 3:39:42 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		The question is just silly.

Everyone, men and women (sorry to blow our cover) is visual and we all fantasize or objectify others all the time.

How you think this is unethical is beyond me.

I actually think the word unethical should be replaced with annoying since men often will write to me and share their fantasy they just had of me without ever having spoken to me.

Usually, the fantasy/scenario they are sharing bores me to tears, so it just wasted a moment of my life in reading it.

But unethical? Nah.

Now, if someone I thought was hot objectified me, then I would welcome it. You know, the thought of a number of hot guys here and there thinking filthy thoughts about me would not bother me in the least.

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