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Daggerandpez -> male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 2:20:15 PM)
it seems to me that there are far more real domestic males than females...why do you think that is?

LaTigresse -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 2:23:47 PM)
I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity.

Arpig -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 3:53:13 PM)
That and because watching some naked female on her hands and knees scrubbing the floor is going to raise certain....well...issues, shall we say. Issues that simply must be dealt with.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 3:58:11 PM)
i think more women are looking for relationships, and not just service. males, who have more difficulty finding partners, are more interested in diversifying. and then yeah -- there's what Arpig said. also, men are far more likely to form an actual fetish out of an event, outfit, action, etc. women are less likely. so a man may have a very vivid fantasy of being an invisible servant for some powerful person, and that's all he needs, whereas a woman is less likely to be motivated purely by the fantasy/fetish.

FelineFae -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 3:58:54 PM)
Your clothes get all wet if you don't scrub naked.

LadyPact -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 4:09:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity. Bingo! In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved. Here's a little guide to go by: 1. Do you know that the person you are looking at has really done this type of service or is it just promises of what they will do? (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.) 2. Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked? (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.) 3. Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly? (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to punish them in order to do the job right.) 4. Are they doing it for barter? (The clean in exchange for play.) While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 5:28:31 PM)
quote: Your clothes get all wet if you don't scrub naked. and my panties will get all wet watching you scrub naked. its a viscous circle, lets just let it go round a few more times.[;)] hannah lynn

thishereboi -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 5:30:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daggerandpez it seems to me that there are far more real domestic males than females...why do you think that is? Maybe you haven't met enough people in the real world yet? Not sure. Why do you think you feel that way?

Daggerandpez -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 6:39:45 PM)
thishereboi...ive been extremely active in the SoCal community and Daddy is a will known Male Dom in the LA community...

Daggerandpez -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 6:40:58 PM)
[/quote] Bingo! In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved. Here's a little guide to go by: 1. Do you know that the person you are looking at has really done this type of service or is it just promises of what they will do? (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.) 2. Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked? (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.) 3. Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly? (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to punish them in order to do the job right.) 4. Are they doing it for barter? (The clean in exchange for play.) While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above. [/quote] i think you are right on point...ive asked people many of those same questions

hausboy -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/17/2011 8:06:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity. Bingo! In My experience, there are actually far more females who are willing to do domestic service without the kink necessarily being involved. Here's a little guide to go by: 1. Do you know that the person you are looking at has really done this type of service or is it just promises of what they will do? (I mean an actual reference of someone who has allowed them in their home that you can meet and talk with.) 2. Does what you're reading include a butt plug, a maid's uniform, or promise of doing it naked? (This especially applies to those who want to put on a cute outfit and prance around with a feather duster.) 3. Do they automatically have a scenario of how you can handle the situation if they don't clean properly? (Which makes you wonder how well they are cleaning their own house if you have to punish them in order to do the job right.) 4. Are they doing it for barter? (The clean in exchange for play.) While there certainly are male domestics out there, the rest of them can't pass that short test above. Right on the mark, LadyPact! I clean for a variety of houses--in one, there is discipline involved--but that was something that was carefully negotiated and it was something we both very much wanted to have in the dynamic. I clean for other houses (fully clothed unless they have a strong preference for another "uniform") with zero expectation of any type of play. I've seen one or two male "dress-up maids" come and go in the Household. You can tell in the first five minutes usually. Servants in the House always strip down to at least boy-shorts/jockstrap, but their excitement is short-lived when, after the strip, they are directed to the sink full of dishes...... then the counters.....and floors..... It's that priceless, shocked look of: "OH! you mean you ACTUALLY expect me to clean your house?!"

FelineFae -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 2:35:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: Your clothes get all wet if you don't scrub naked. and my panties will get all wet watching you scrub naked. its a viscous circle, lets just let it go round a few more times.[;)] hannah lynn You might want to perv' the profile, in that case. [:)]

thishereboi -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 5:52:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daggerandpez thishereboi...ive been extremely active in the SoCal community and Daddy is a will known Male Dom in the LA community... Then why do you feel there are far more real domestic males than females? And why did you agree with Lady Pact that there were actually more females?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 7:14:22 AM)
interesting turn of events. =p

HannahLynHeather -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 7:29:57 AM)
quote: You might want to perv' the profile, in that case. yum!! hannah lynn

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 10:07:46 AM)
Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house. It's hardly going to be the subject of an exciting sexual fantasy when it's something you do all the time anyway! I do all the domestic work in my relationship because I'm happy to accept it as a consequence of our power exchange, but it doesn't turn me on. I have to be honest and admit I don't really know why domestic service turns anyone on. But YKIOK and all that... owned xxx

LillyBoPeep -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 12:42:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OwnedFemaleFlesh Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house. It's hardly going to be the subject of an exciting sexual fantasy when it's something you do all the time anyway! GREAT POINT!

LaTigresse -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 12:44:00 PM)
Fortunately there is a vanilla male, in my house, that does about 80% of the cleaning type housework........YAY!!!!!!!!

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 12:49:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I think there are far more unrealistic bottom males that would like to pretend they are domestic s types, just so that they can weasel their way into a dominant woman's vicinity. This. Or else they want to prance about in a maid's outfit and impractical heels while they wave a feather duster around and pretend to be domestic.

LaTigresse -> RE: male vs female domestic sub (5/18/2011 12:51:50 PM)
The guy in my house usually does it while wearing those drawstring pants, usually in a really weird fabric like plaid, and an old t-shirt with the sleeves cut off. Kinkyyyyyy.

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