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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 1:42:02 AM

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I'm dashing enough to warrant it, really. Ask VC. Much better than NocturnalAndrogyny or whatever his name is. Rugged, even!

Rugged is out, pretty is in!

That made me laugh. If someone asked me to describe TRJ's looks I would not, in fact, say rugged. I'd be much more likely to go with pretty, as it happens...

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 2:10:28 AM

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See RaptorJesus? We combine forces, we form an alliance, and we'll take these people here out! CollarMe will be ours to rule! We'll dictate the BDSM community!

We'll be Gods...

Actually, you're already one... but I'll be a God too! Two Gods is better than one!

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 4:34:28 AM

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I admit that when I joined Ron and Jeffff and Domi were all kind of the same person in my head.

All givin' you head? Pics or it never happened!

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 4:42:40 AM

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its the new guy the easy pickings its bully mentality and i also know that EVERY post i make from now one will be attacked in the same way

You know, a good friend of mine once stated the following;

"There needs to be a 72 hour death watch on new posters. For the first 72 hours that they log onto the boards they cannot post, only observe. Then they can get the feel of things. Learn who is playing and how they play, so that when they are allowed to post they do not start up with foot and mouth disease."

I think he is right.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 5:13:57 AM

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lol everyone's missing the point
or just wants to intentionally mispoint

pact so im an asshole, in fact im a rude son of a bitch sometimes

but as i said thats part my problems and am a much better asshole than i was

but i dont go around saying because you dont know x you arent who say you are and thats my point

not whether im an asshole

and buythe way tune into spike tv every thursday who makes his living by saying hes an asshole

but its funny there are a number of people who post on 99% threads all the time

but hey look around u pact there are people who post here offtopic and not on ontopic boards why

so all im asking for is your little clik and yes i know your part of it as u seem to stand up for the same people

and leave me alone

ill leave u alone

but i know 100% that me being rude and an asshole has NOTHING to do with it

its the new guy the easy pickings its bully mentality and i also know that EVERY post i make from now one will be attacked in the same way

u proud of that huh pact

now Id rather be an asshole than an itimidating bully

I think part of it may be a perception thing?
Not every negative response you have gotten has been bullying.

You admit you are "an asshole...a rude son of a bitch sometimes".

But you do have some control over your behavior... and you do have the option to dial things down instead of escalating them.
That may not be how you are personally wired, but it is an option.

I sent you a cmail that was friendly. I tried to explain some of the lay of the land.
Where the forum guidelines are, what postings belonged in Community Discussion and which ones went in Casual Banter; the length of time on the edit button.

I did not bully you.
Your response was to delete it unread.

Now just so you know there have been people who have been new, come on here and made spectacular asses of themselves.
(You are not yet close to being a spectacular ass...and no that isn't a challenge.)

My point is that once they figured out that they screwed things up, they came back and apologised, learned from their mistakes and we all moved on.
Not many people here carry grudges, we are just too busy.

Don't blame other people for your bad behaviours.

You don't like the way things went down?
You change how you do things to the best of your ability.

If you make a sincere effort, some people will give you a second chance.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 5:23:58 AM

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Well I, for one, have really enjoyed the welcome I've received since joining the site!

Nice job mods? No no no...nice job EVERYONE!

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 5:34:11 AM

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dangit, PArrapa, I just noticed your sig line, and most of my CDs are already packed!!

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:07:53 AM

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dangit, PArrapa, I just noticed your sig line, and most of my CDs are already packed!!

Just for you, Greedy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toiM1B6E2ww

Btw you really want to read Keith Richard's biography, absolutely fab, I was howling with laughter more than once, the Brenda part and the lethal drummer punch are just too funny....

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:12:44 AM

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Thank you! Whats the name of the book?

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:24:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

lol everyone's missing the point
or just wants to intentionally mispoint

pact so im an asshole, in fact im a rude son of a bitch sometimes

but as i said thats part my problems and am a much better asshole than i was

but i dont go around saying because you dont know x you arent who say you are and thats my point

not whether im an asshole

and buythe way tune into spike tv every thursday who makes his living by saying hes an asshole

but its funny there are a number of people who post on 99% threads all the time

but hey look around u pact there are people who post here offtopic and not on ontopic boards why

so all im asking for is your little clik and yes i know your part of it as u seem to stand up for the same people

and leave me alone

ill leave u alone

but i know 100% that me being rude and an asshole has NOTHING to do with it

its the new guy the easy pickings its bully mentality and i also know that EVERY post i make from now one will be attacked in the same way

u proud of that huh pact

now Id rather be an asshole than an itimidating bully

I call bullshit. You come here and start being an ass then get all butt hurt when people call you on it, and wind up being an even bigger ass. The folks here do NOT crucify every newbie that comes along. Not even the ones that don't fall right into line with the majority opinions. *waves cheerfully*

And no, people aren't missing the point of your whinging, deliberately or otherwise. They (perhaps I should say 'we', as I'm including myself) are just tired of it. This 'dyspraxia' thing doesn't give you a pass to be a rude, immature jerk.

Am I being a bitch? Quite probably. But at this point you've earned it. Now go play somewhere else, the big kids are bored with you.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:27:38 AM

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I have to disagree with you there.

I didn't know anyone when I joined. I browse a lot and only occasionally participate. I'm certainly not in the "incrowd", as you put it. Yet I have never been abused on here

or been acused of being fake.
Maybe you should have a good look in the mirror. I've not been on your profile but from the replies, I presume you label yourself Dom. I always thought Dom/mes were supposed to be in full control of themselves. If you can't control you how can you take responsibility for someone else. Just an observation

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:39:16 AM

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I think it's just titled Keith Richards Biography, hold on, I get up and check, ahh nope, it's called Life...

Without spoiling the book for you, when he talks about the infamous raid of Redlands, he actually invited the cops in, because he was so off his tits on various substances, he thought they were shiny blue gnomes...

One of the quotes from the book is "I’ve never had a problem with drugs. I’ve had problems with the police." and he's so bloody refreshingly honest about his drug use and addictions, he says he doesn't recommend drug use but he's not exactly a poster child for clean living, if they don't want to take his advice to not take drugs, then they should at least take his advice and always take the best drugs they can afford, because the crap the cut it with is just as bad for you as the drugs, so go as pure as you can... No holier than thou BS.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:41:00 AM

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Niiice :)

even he DOES always look like a cadaver, I've always thought he'd be fun to hang out with.

OP: see, we're not all meaniepoopooheads...

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:44:59 AM

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Shut the fuck up and eat your goddamn dinner.

(Yes, that was said in jest.)

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:48:11 AM

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but hey look around u pact there are people who post here offtopic and not on ontopic boards why

For me I rarely post in ontopic boards. Not because I can't. Not because I feel I will get picked on. I just feel I don't have the experience to add anything of value to the thread. I mostly just read and learn from them. Offtopic threads are are easy threads to post on. Mostly they are just fun threads.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:49:26 AM

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Shut the fuck up and eat your goddamn dinner.

(Yes, that was said in jest.)

Can we have NocturnalStalker for dessert? Please?!

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:52:10 AM

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Everybody wants the cream-filling.

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:53:48 AM

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Shut the fuck up and eat your goddamn dinner.

(Yes, that was said in jest.)

Can we have NocturnalStalker for dessert? Please?!

no..please...I'm already queasy....

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:55:08 AM

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Shut the fuck up and eat your goddamn dinner.

(Yes, that was said in jest.)

Can we have NocturnalStalker for dessert? Please?!

no..please...I'm already queasy....

Think positive, you could use his hair as dental floss

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RE: a nice welcome mods - 5/20/2011 6:55:54 AM

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erk...

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