Hillwilliam -> RE: 60s Blamed For Church Sex Abuse (5/20/2011 5:33:50 AM)
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I think the so called 'study' misses a lot of the points (note who paid for the analysts). First, they act like this has only been going on for a few decades. I think if the truth were known, it would be found that this behavior has been going on for centuries. Why wasn't it reported before now? Pure and simple FEAR. the church had absolute power until fairly recently. Even a 12 year old with a sore ass knows there are worse things than being summoned to the bell tower again. They also realized that even if they DID tell, noone would believe them. Secondly, I feel celibacy does have something to do with it. Before you flame Me, read the next couple of sentences. "Priestly Celibacy" attracts those who do NOT have normal sexual desires (a minority) as well as those who feel a genuine calling to serve. There is a certain small percentage of people male and female who just have no sexual attraction to anyone. They have no need for it. For these folks, priestly celibacy is PERFECT. They have no pressure to marry. They understand that if they did marry that some poor person would be miserable and they feel they have a chance to contribute and do a lot of good. An asexual person in a job requiring celibacy is a perfect example of a round peg in a round hole. On the other hand, there are those who know thay have "dark desires". Some of them choose the priesthood in an attempt to fight those urges reasoning that "If it's forbidden to have sex, I will be able to get past these 'unholy urges'". Maybe it works sometimes but, sadly, it definitely doesn't a lot of the time. I think the church has been aware of this problem but they turn a blind eye to it because of the shortage of priests. I think it should cost them every dime they have.
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