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How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 9:45:20 AM

crazr

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I'm very lucky to have found a Mistress. She's one in 6 billion. Please give me ideas of how to be thankful for some one like her self (which there aren't many) to pay a loser like me some attention.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 9:51:04 AM

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Simple. Don't be a loser. Be the kind of male that she deserves.

Easy, wasn't it?

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 9:53:58 AM

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Some people like gifts, others like to spend quality time together. Some people like to be told they're special, while others want you to do things like wash dishes without being asked or help them finish a project they've been putting off. Find out what makes her feel loved and do it.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 10:09:48 AM

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Not only are preferences individual, but what floats her boat today may not work next week. Ya gotta talk with her.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 10:11:15 AM

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Read this book together and then discuss it.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 10:12:35 AM

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Thank you all for the fast replies.

She prefers to be surprised, she wants me to work for it.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 10:34:29 AM

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Then be creative. And plan well ahead. Here's an example.....

When my Ex and I first started dating, it was in the fall. I told her very early on that I didn't do Valentine's Day, that as far as I was concerned it was a bogus holiday invented to sell greeting cards. She was a bit disappointed but accepted it.
On Valentine's Day, I got up and said nothing special, went downstairs to get breakfast. As soon as she got up and went into the shower, I rushed back upstairs and spread the 2 dozen long stemmed roses I'd hidden in the basement over the bed and a box of chocolates on it as well. When she came back to get dressed....well lets just say she didn't actually get dressed till quite late in the day...

This little surprise was about 4 or 5 months in the planning, when I started the scheme rolling I didn't even know if we would make it to Valentine's Day. And it floored her completely...mouth open, speechless, tears in the eyes, simply overwhelmed sort of reaction...very satisfying

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If your Mistress likes surprises, then use your head...you know her and the sorts of things that she likes the best, use that information to think of things that will do it for her, and don't be afraid of the ideas that will require some setting up... they are often the best.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 1:14:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: crazr

I'm very lucky to have found a Mistress. She's one in 6 billion. Please give me ideas of how to be thankful for some one like her self (which there aren't many) to pay a loser like me some attention.

You could always start by changing your profile to reflect that she exists outside of your imagination.. you know, if she does.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 1:26:10 PM

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Stop calling yourself, and being, a loser. Be a man she's proud to own, proud to be seen with. Save humiliation for play time.

Tell her how you feel. Wash her car for her. Bring her a spiced chai or whatever her favorite drink is, without her asking for it.

The Man likes an apple pie himself. But he's one of those men whom the old adage fits: way to his heart is through his stomach.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/20/2011 1:56:04 PM

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Stop calling yourself, and being, a loser. Be a man she's proud to own, proud to be seen with.

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/21/2011 3:04:48 PM

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Please give me ideas of how to be thankful for someone like her to pay a loser like me some attention.

Easy enough... think of it this way: Many an s-type holds the view that they are a reflection of their D-type -- so if you feel yourself a "loser", then in doing so, you disrespect your Owner. Period. If you're a "loser", then your Owner is a "loser" -- is that what you want to convey?!! No... I don't think so. Thus, there's your answer for "how to be thankful".

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RE: How can I be thankful? - 5/21/2011 8:23:07 PM

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Okay i sense that she is looking for a grand gesture of your dedication to her. Now wouldn't it be cheating if i told you what you should do? Think large scale. Listen to what she says. Find out what she likes. Then surprise her with the day of HER life. Mine would probably be different.

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