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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/20/2011 5:46:37 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		That's a new one on Me, so thanks for sharing it.  Especially for adding in that part that there was no Black Rose event, because I definitely could have seen that as a potential reason.  The "make sure everyone got home ok" contacts.  I know some of us still do that today and send emails rather than call.  (I'm funky about calling *anyone* at three AM unless it's an emergency.)

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/20/2011 5:50:42 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: badlieutenant35

just wondering what attracts a mistress/goddess etc to a sub's profile.?



Nothing does.  The Dominant women here don't go hunting through profiles.  You as a sub man must take the initiative.

You need to start things up with them.  If you like her profile or her posts here, write her and tell her so.  Be specific - "I like your profile" is nowhere near as good as "I get the feeling from your profile that you prefer quiet nights in.  So do I."  Then if she's interested, she'll read your profile.

Your profile doesn't quite grab me.  The spelling needs work, and you omit the use of apostrophes and capitalization.  But chiefly, I don't get a feel for what a relationship with you might be like.  Will you cook for her?  Go for walks?  Go to shows? 


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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/20/2011 6:41:43 PM   
isoLadyOwner


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

That's a new one on Me, so thanks for sharing it.  Especially for adding in that part that there was no Black Rose event, because I definitely could have seen that as a potential reason.  The "make sure everyone got home ok" contacts.  I know some of us still do that today and send emails rather than call.  (I'm funky about calling *anyone* at three AM unless it's an emergency.)


No problem, I check CM casually but the profiles seem to get bumped together all at once every time I do log in.

The 3:15 am thing was a weeknight. I just happened to check the site and noone had logged in since the previous day.

The profiles are geographically far enough apart that even if there was a BR event it would have been a bizarre coincidence plus it was really late on a work night. It was as if the ads were forgotten, then all at once they logged in from 3:15 am to 3:17 am.

I would rather spend a minute a day checking and not waste my time on a fake profiles but its certainly not foolproof. Maybe there's a real person in those groups but there's no way of telling which one she is, plus I wouldn't trust her.

Staying logged in doesn't bump a profile the way these ads get bumped.

Anyway good luck to the OP.

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 2:30:03 AM   
isoLadyOwner


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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 8:34:14 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: badlieutenant35

just wondering what attracts a mistress/goddess etc to a sub's profile.?

ive tried everything and with little luck, naked photos, vanilla photos, body photos, detailed profile, straight to the point profile... am i missing something or just wasting my time?????



You seem to have tried quite a few different types of photos, but it looks like you haven't stumbled upon the right formula yet.  I'm going to share a secret with you that a wise man once shared with me.  The secret is to send the ladies 13 (not 12, and not 14, but exactly 13) cock shots.  The photos must be high resolution, and most importantly, they MUST include your balls.  I used to fail to include the balls in the photo, and I had little success. But I learned that the balls make all the difference.  Ladies love balls.

(Heeheeeheee.  Yet another male competitor is eliminated from the game.) 

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 9:06:45 AM   
badlieutenant35


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Status: offline 		lol - very funny

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 3:58:16 PM   
Tantriqu


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

OMG, I'm now waiting for the conspiracy theory that we are all just one and the same...

Any other women who don't log out?


Same! Love having multiple tabs open, rarely log out.
Monty Python and the Life of Brian line: 'Yes! We are all individuals!'

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 4:04:16 PM   
o2beyoursub


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Status: offline 		I've asked several Dommes about their vievs on cockshots. Thumbs down from all.

The wine glasses are a nice touch!

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 5:15:08 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		On the other hand, they do seem to like armpit shots. There was even a thread on it here, once.


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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 5:26:34 PM   
SexyBossyBBW


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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 5:49:06 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: o2beyoursub

I've asked several Dommes about their vievs on cockshots. Thumbs down from all.



Ignore this person.  He is clearly trying to sabotage your attempts to find a Domme. 

When it comes to capturing a Domme's heart, nothing works better than cock shots.  Nothing!  They are a submissive male's ultimate weapon.  Trust me on this one. 

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 6:02:46 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Nope, I disagree. Hairy bollocks shots. The last word in courtly elegance. A bow tie round them - we're talking James Bond levels of suave. The hopeful malesub will be experiencing wall-to-wall crumpet in no time.

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 6:16:15 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Peon! Darling! My inbox awaits, ta very much in advance! :P

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 6:16:44 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Nope, I disagree. Hairy bollocks shots. The last word in courtly elegance. A bow tie round them - we're talking James Bond levels of suave. The hopeful malesub will be experiencing wall-to-wall crumpet in no time.


Excellent point.  But let's not forget the hairy arse shot.  It's truly the coupe de grace when it comes to making women swoon. 


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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 6:33:20 PM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Peon! Darling! My inbox awaits, ta very much in advance! :P


For you, Lady Hib, a hairy meatballs shot with my lunchpack sporting a silk cravat! You shall have the Noel Coward of all scrotal photos!

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 6:37:42 PM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009


Excellent point.  But let's not forget the hairy arse shot.  It's truly the coupe de grace when it comes to making women swoon. 


Well said. But to get those lady-juices truly cascading, it's crucial to develop a large, angry-red boil on one's anus for the photo, I feel.



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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 9:32:19 PM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		The photo of champagne glasses, is fabulous. Your profile is fabulous... Except for
quote:

i do have a life, and wish to keep it that way, i have a good job, home (can accomodate) and car
This says nothing about everyone, just yourself; but to the person who has values slightly dissimilar to yours, it might come off as...
*Wait, I'm trying to come up with something nice to say.*

As we are all alive, we all have lives. The valuation of a human being based on dollars earned/hour or year, or how much stuff he/she owned, or general superficial attritutes, has never sat well with me.
My $.02 cents worth, for your consideration. M

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 10:10:28 PM   
Tantriqu


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Secure in the knowledge I have seen the ULTIMATE subbollock photo: venereal wart on the half-mast erection, o how it framed said grey steelwool pubes and old saggy tube-socks.
Ahh, how the ladyjuices flowed!

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 10:20:13 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Simple answer is you have just joined the ranks of men drooling because they would really like to get to be near a ferarri, let alone drive one. If you were writing for the kink version of a free ferrari what would you say?

Tell us who you are...not what you like sexually
Tell us what's special about you...not what we can do to you
Tell us what special skills you have...not what kink tools you prefer

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RE: what should a sub do to make his profile stand out? - 5/24/2011 10:21:03 PM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		Bwah hahahaha***

Oh MY God! You win!. See how different we can be, as to what makes us wet?! LMAO.
*snorting, unladylike, Laughing* M

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