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DavidLee44UK -> pee and poop (5/21/2011 6:33:59 AM)

just seen another profile for a slave

where they mention pee and poop

there obv not of a sound mind but doesnt this give slaves a bad name




ebonywarqueen -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 6:47:19 AM)

I don't think it gives slaves in general a bad name. Its just an extreme fetish that some people have and in no way reflects on others. I routinely have slaves writing me to ask me to cut off their balls. So it can get a lot more extreme than that.




coookie -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 7:00:03 AM)

So because you do not like it means that it is not acceptable? Please do tell the rest of us what other kinks should be stricken for you.

I have never done scat but i very much enjoy pee games. I am psychologically sound. I am not into cuttings but i really do not think those that are give me a bad name.

If someone is into kinks you are not, just think of it as an incompatibility issue and move on




DarkSteven -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 7:18:15 AM)

It is not my thing.   But if its done safely and consensually, it's not my place to criticize them.

Keep in mind that many vanillas feel that ALL kinsksters are not of sound mind.

Why would a single slave's profile give all slaves a bad name?




myotherself -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 7:24:05 AM)

OP - scat is a bit extreme for me, but pee is not a problem. Done safely it can be an extremely intense way of bonding with a Master.

Just cos it ain't your kink doesn't mean it's wrong.

edited to make it clear who my post was replying to




littlewonder -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 7:49:52 AM)

why? Because it's not something you enjoy???

If someone would want to give me a bad name because of something I enjoy why would I care? I'm not WITH those people..I'm with HIM.




hausboy -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:16:25 AM)

As others have said.

We are all essentially on the fringe of what mainstream society publicly pronounces as "acceptable and normal."  Even within our own underground world, there are fetishes/kinks that many of us do not understand.  Some find certain kinks like scat and watersports to be extreme.... others engage in them regularly.  There are plenty of other fetishes and kinks that for some, rock their world...and others draw the line.

If it's not something that you wish to explore, peruse other profiles that have interests that may be more compatible with yours.  Or...see if there is other common ground where you might get along.  If the sub is very focused on being a toilet...and you have no interest or curiosity, then you're likely going to have a few obstacles in the bedroom (or bathroom,as the case may be) even if you hit off on the personal level.

I have encountered far more mentally unstable folks whose interests were far tamer.




xssve -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:26:18 AM)

Mention it how? In a positive or a negative way? Or is it just the words "Pee" and "Poop"?

I'm fine with pee, poop requires a bit more attention to hygiene and cleanup, not really my thing no, it involves more health issues, and I don't find it particularly erotic, but I prefer to have some idea how a submissive feels about it than to guess or find out later after she lays a steamer on my chest while I'm sleeping.

I can't control another persons paraphilias, if I like them enough I'll find a way to work with it.




windchymes -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:36:16 AM)

Everyone has their own kinks, but describing "pee and poop" in their profiles or posts would seriously make me question their maturity level.




DavidLee44UK -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:39:48 AM)

cookie thats not what i meant

if i was talking a\bout a pig

and at 44 said i wee little piggy id sound stupid and silly there are more adult ways to phrase things




coookie -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:45:21 AM)

oh you mean they actually used the words "pee and poop"? Okay that is odd and i do agree thhat there are better ways to phrase that.

I personally dislike the word "piss" i generally do say pee or urine lol but that is my own odd little language hangup




DavidLee44UK -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:47:24 AM)

apology accepted opens throat and pulls cookie out




coookie -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:50:43 AM)

umm well i did not actually apologize. You may want to make your ideas clearer in your opening statement.

When multiple people misinterpret what you are saying it is usually that you are not saying it clearly.




hausboy -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:52:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

cookie thats not what i meant

if i was talking a\bout a pig

and at 44 said i wee little piggy id sound stupid and silly there are more adult ways to phrase things


Okay...so that was totally not clear at all from your original post. 
Your issue with that the person referred to scat/watersports as "pee and poop" as opposed to "piss and shit" or "watersports and scat"

I think it may indicate a maturity level....or even a basic discomfort level (maybe they don't swear? I dunno.)  but I don't discount them as unbalanced just based on that.  There is a scat fetishist who regularly posts who has a profile ieatpoop or something like that.  I didn't find him to be mentally unbalanced because he has the word "poop" in his profile.

maybe it's a poop-lovers thing.....ya got me.  Even Dr. Oz uses the word "poop" on the air, instead of feces, stool, waste or any of the medical terms.






sexyred1 -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:54:39 AM)

No, I think you posting non stop complaints about threads and profiles just give YOU a bad name.




windchymes -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:57:18 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

cookie thats not what i meant

if i was talking a\bout a pig

and at 44 said i wee little piggy id sound stupid and silly there are more adult ways to phrase things


I actually was referring to the profile you were mentioning and posts they might make as an introduction, I wasn't directing anything at you personally, David. Sorry for the miscommunication :)

You'll see after you're here awhile that we get the waves of adolescent "pee-pee" and "poopy" threads periodically, usually right about the times of school breaks.




myotherself -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:57:58 AM)

ok, so if it's one person's use of juvenile terminology to describe watersports and scat, I'm now at a loss to understand why this would give any other slaves a bad name?




windchymes -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 8:59:47 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hausboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

cookie thats not what i meant

if i was talking a\bout a pig

and at 44 said i wee little piggy id sound stupid and silly there are more adult ways to phrase things


Okay...so that was totally not clear at all from your original post. 
Your issue with that the person referred to scat/watersports as "pee and poop" as opposed to "piss and shit" or "watersports and scat"

I think it may indicate a maturity level....or even a basic discomfort level (maybe they don't swear? I dunno.)  but I don't discount them as unbalanced just based on that.  There is a scat fetishist who regularly posts who has a profile ieatpoop or something like that.  I didn't find him to be mentally unbalanced because he has the word "poop" in his profile.

maybe it's a poop-lovers thing.....ya got me.  Even Dr. Oz uses the word "poop" on the air, instead of feces, stool, waste or any of the medical terms.




Fair enough, I do the same thing when it's everyday conversation with people I know well. It's all about the context, lol.




ParappaTheDapper -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 10:06:18 AM)

I just want to say that your user picture really suits you, my man, and you have an undeniable knack for bringing up perspectives that I think we can all agree few people would think of and even fewer would wish to articulate! Keep up the work! ;)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

just seen another profile for a slave

where they mention pee and poop

there obv not of a sound mind but doesnt this give slaves a bad name





flcouple2009 -> RE: pee and poop (5/21/2011 10:16:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK
there obv not of a sound mind but doesnt this give slaves a bad name


Why???

Just because it is not your kink??




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