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t99206 -> humiliation ideas (5/21/2011 4:18:03 PM)
I am going to be getting a new sub in a few days and he likes to be humiliated. I'm trying to think of things to do to him to humiliate him and need some ideas. I was thinking of making him walk around 1 of the local malls wearing a buttplug, his hands cuffed, and a ballgag in his mouth. He would be required to walk both levels completly 1 or 2 times. Anyone else got ideas? [image]local://upfiles/343661/E5D07F75C56F4EB38054F9F50C7E9FB2.gif[/image]

DarkSteven -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/21/2011 7:15:28 PM)
I assume that the charges against him would be considered humiliating? Seriously, dude. Don't make daddies and mommies have to explain to Junior what the funny man is doing.

coookie -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/21/2011 7:18:36 PM)
Ahh the shipment is coming in then? This is controversial but myself, I really do not want to see your friend walking in such a manner in the mall in my town. Many people are going to be exposed to this and allegedly the public consents by leaving their homes but i don't agree with this. If you have a need to display him as such why not do it in a more suitable venue? Humiliation is a very large umbrella and i would need to know the person a little before i could offer good humil ideas because what i think is kick ass he may not. Like your example ... i wouldnt find that humiliating so much as i would think that you are not someone that i would want to be seen with. Just my perspective

windchymes -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/21/2011 9:52:13 PM)
OP, get some common sense and keep your humiliation fun between the two of you or in front of other CONSENTING adults, not in public around minors and adults that just really don't want to see someone's hairy ass with a plug in it.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/21/2011 11:31:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: t99206 I was thinking of making him walk around 1 of the local malls wearing a buttplug, his hands cuffed, and a ballgag in his mouth. You must have a humiliation fetish too... which will likely be fed while both explaining such stupidity to the police, as well bailing your pal out of jail. Bravo!!! [8\|]

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 1:20:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes OP, get some common sense and keep your humiliation fun between the two of you or in front of other CONSENTING adults, not in public around minors and adults that just really don't want to see someone's hairy ass with a plug in it. This. Using members of the public to humiliate your submissive is nonconsensual. They did not consent to being a part of your play, nor of doing your dirty work for you. You should be able to humiliate your submissive by your speech and behaviour, or by getting him to do / admit things that he finds shameful. It is one thing to make him wear things under his clothes, for his own personal shame. But what you suggest is exhibitionism and totally nonconsensual. owned xxx

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 1:41:37 AM)
If you really want to humiliate him in public without running into the consent/non-consent of the public issue. Go to the food court with him and "accidentally" spill your drink on his crotch. For the rest of your shopping trip everybody will be looking at him and wondering.

ranja -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 6:53:19 AM)
that's a nice one heatherMcLeather the buttplug will be invisible... i hope and put the ball in the mouth by all means, but not the leather strap around the head please... allthough i believe many here think dog-collars and leads are acceptable... so maybe a ballgag strap is only a tiny step further... cuffs should be conceiled under clothing i think... allthough my own brother walks around with a handcuff bracelet on permanent display... i suppose the main thing is not to get turned on in public because that would be unethical

UberBrat -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 7:28:06 AM)
Honestly? i quite like humiliation, but if someone told me to do that, i'd tell them where to go. Giving your sub a task that would quite possibly end up with them in jail is not responsibe, and, as others have said - what about the public, particularly children?! As for any other ideas ... it's really difficult to know without knowing the sub. For example, verbal humiliation - this could be a huge turn on for some, but a huge turn off, or even damaging, for others. It really depends on what your sub finds humiliating. Good luck :)

Kana -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 8:46:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: t99206 I am going to be getting a new sub in a few days and he likes to be humiliated. I'm trying to think of things to do to him to humiliate him and need some ideas. I was thinking of making him walk around 1 of the local malls wearing a buttplug, his hands cuffed, and a ballgag in his mouth. He would be required to walk both levels completly 1 or 2 times. Anyone else got ideas? [image]local://upfiles/343661/E5D07F75C56F4EB38054F9F50C7E9FB2.gif[/image] What could be more humiliating than submitting to a fool?

TheCabal -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 10:07:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: t99206 I am going to be getting a new sub in a few days and he likes to be humiliated. I'm trying to think of things to do to him to humiliate him and need some ideas. I was thinking of making him walk around 1 of the local malls wearing a buttplug, his hands cuffed, and a ballgag in his mouth. He would be required to walk both levels completly 1 or 2 times. Anyone else got ideas? [image]local://upfiles/343661/E5D07F75C56F4EB38054F9F50C7E9FB2.gif[/image] Just a word of advice: if you're going to keep/train a sub or slave for a long period of time, it is best to avoid those activities that have a significant probability of putting you or them in jail or the ER. If you want him handcuffed, buttplugged and gagged in public, take him to a bondage club where people might actually appreciate what you're doing for chrissakes.

coookie -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 10:09:07 AM)
Haha Kana I absolutely agree with that.

crazyml -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 12:49:01 PM)
Ok... I am 100% with the other posters on the silliness of overtly sexual public humiliation - it's just nasty. What if you made him wear some light tan trousers, and then told him to piss himself while in the queue at McDonalds? Then maybe people would just laugh at the jackass who'd pissed himself? Would that still be the wrong side of involving the public w/o consent? <ponders>

LadyPact -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 12:57:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Ok... I am 100% with the other posters on the silliness of overtly sexual public humiliation I'm pretty much with the comments (at least those that are visible) of the other posters, too. I'm pretty much in the crowd that says My right to be kinky ends where the rights of other people begin. No matter how much "fun" I want to have, those other people have a right not to be infringed upon. The good key to humiliation of this type is to walk the line of the person being humiliated thinking that the world knows what is going on when the world really doesn't have a clue. Anything else is amateurish at best and forcing the kink on others at worst. Time to come up from the minor leagues OP and step up your game.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 1:13:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: t99206 I'm trying to think of things to do to him to humiliate him and need some ideas. I have an idea. Why not have him log onto a BDSM website and ask others to think of humiliation ideas. Not only will he prove to everyone else that he has absolutely no knowledge of, or experience in, WIITWD, but it will also prove to everyone that he has no imagination at all. His utter stupidity will be on display for all to see. What could possibly be more humiliating than that? [;)]

Rochsub2009 -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/22/2011 4:45:07 PM)
Okay, all jokes aside. I'm serious this time. To me, the best ideas for scenes/play come from getting to know your partner. What is humiliating to one person won't be humiliating to another. So coming on-line and asking for humiliation ideas really isn't likely to bear much fruit. A much better approach is to truly get to know your sub/slave. Peel back more layers of the onion. The more new insights that you discover, the better your scenes will be. This applies to humiliation and all other aspects of a typical D/s relationship. You can't use a cookie cutter approach to domination (well, you can, but you probably won't be very effective). Each sub is different. So take the time to learn each sub individually. You'll be a much better Dom if you do.

PdxJ -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/23/2011 2:39:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana What could be more humiliating than submitting to a fool? Ohhhh yeeeaaahh!

masterlink65 -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/29/2011 8:50:33 PM)
Ummm yeah, really?

Nanako -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/30/2011 7:16:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: t99206 I'm trying to think of things to do to him to humiliate him and need some ideas. I have an idea. Why not have him log onto a BDSM website and ask others to think of humiliation ideas. Not only will he prove to everyone else that he has absolutely no knowledge of, or experience in, WIITWD, but it will also prove to everyone that he has no imagination at all. His utter stupidity will be on display for all to see. What could possibly be more humiliating than that? [;)] This is the best reply ^_^ These kinds of threads are always silly, and seem to be someone looking for wank material

ResidentSadist -> RE: humiliation ideas (5/30/2011 8:13:45 PM)
Now that we have established prancing around the mall in bondage is probably a bad idea here's one for you; stick a remote vibrator up his ass, take him to dinner at a restauraunt with nice private booths and everytime he tries to take a bite, zap him. The spills and thills should be very humiliating.

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