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RE: spanking properly - 5/16/2006 11:00:26 PM

yourMissTress

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress
She is your owner and it's her right to do with you as she pleases.

What utter nonsense. Everytime I see people post ridiculous comments like this it makes me want to puke. How it is that people can take something wherein a sub offers themselves up into the care and attentions of a domme/dom and twist it into their being reduced to something on par with a shoe or piece of gum is beyond me. There is a reason why "John Q. Public" thinks people into S/M are all stark raving lunatics and its exactly these type of posts, messages, articles and attitudes that make them so. If I wasnt on the "inside" I would want to outlaw, ban, arrest and incarcerate "those/you" people too.
It seems like we just went through this but the sub controls the scene/relationship (as it applys to S/M) 100% of the time, with out fail nor qualification. This "ownership" nonsense is a fiction of people imagination. If anything it is either a gift/offering, "rental/borrowing" or what have you. Fantasy is great, reality is something else altogether. There should be a disclaimer on this site that states that the opinions of some "experts" should be disregarded as fantasy. People look to those with experience and may (sadly) take some of this advice.
"She is your owner and its her right to do with you as she pleases". Great, next week she will castrate you and make you eat your balls and you have no right to question this.

No, no castration, what would I drive the nails through?

My subs don't tell me how to punish them, how hard to punish them, or whether or not to warm them up. Maybe yours do, that's your kink and you are welcome to it.

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RE: spanking properly - 5/17/2006 3:02:13 PM

ShivaTS

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Hello, I was wondering if I could put my 2 cents in? Is it a punishment or play? My Master makes it very clear when it is. He doesnt care if I can take it or not if it is a punishment. If it is play, he carefully watches my responses. The first few times we played, but now goes at me full tilt from the getgo because he knows I like it and can take it.

If you dont like it and it isnt a punishment, why is she doing it? Talk to her. My only experience is with my Master, but I dont think your Mistress would want to intentionally do things that would make you contemplate why you are with her or even leaving.

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RE: spanking properly - 5/17/2006 8:12:29 PM

Evanesce

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If you dont like it and it isnt a punishment, why is she doing it?

I can't answer for the OP's Mistress, obviously, but I can certainly answer this for myself. I do it because, 1) I can; 2) I want to; and 3) I'm a sadist, and causing men pain is an amusing turn-on for me. If I'm not hearing screams and seeing knees buckle, it's just not any fun!

Those I play with know what they're in for before I ever touch them. Sometimes, if I'm feeling particularly benevolent and generous, I'll cater to the bottom's desires; but most of the time, it's all about me, and the bottom has two options - play, or no play. Any slave I might own in the future doesn't get the second option.

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