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mancslave2 -> punishments (5/22/2011 3:40:32 AM)

anyone got any ideas for punishments? how to punish a dirty woman who seems to enjoy everything?
would really appreciate some ideas if anyone has any?
many thanks.



0ldhen -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 3:41:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: mancslave2

anyone got any ideas for punishments? how to punish a dirty woman who seems to enjoy everything?


Make her bathe?



lusciouslips19 -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 3:43:54 AM)

Funishments are way better than punishments.



BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 3:57:16 AM)

The punishment should fit the crime not just to punish..Around here it can be to privileges taking away.Not allowing them to take sacrament at  mass while wearing a very short dress with no panties,,The most severe is being sent home to momma for a month or two, it sure shapes them up very quickly..Bounty



mancslave2 -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 4:09:14 AM)

just looking for any ideas anyone has for how to punish someone who seems to enjoy more normal punishments like spanking, whipping, etc.

hoping someone can suggest some new and interesting and effective ways to punish for a variety of things.
thanks for any ideas you may have.



Focus50 -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 4:41:14 AM)

You start by observing the things she doesn't enjoy....

I've found subs to be attention junkies. So if I need to punish her, I stop giving her any .......?

Focus.



mancslave2 -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:11:45 AM)

see thats the issue, finding stuff she doesnt like, she seems to be up for anything.
normally id say a good hard spanking, or whipping, but those would be greeted with delight.
yes i think maybe denying attention sounds good.



lally2 -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:12:12 AM)

its really quite simple.  if she's a masso dont use pain.  after that its like others have said, take away the things she likes, pain play maybe?

use youre little grey cells, im sure you can come up with plenty of devious ideas if you really try.



DarkSteven -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:19:40 AM)

Send her to the mall in handcuffs, wearing a butt plug. [8D]



myotherself -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:21:42 AM)

feed her bean curry, rub her ass cheeks with alcohol and then make her light her own farts.

You might want to keep a bucket of ice nearby, just in case.



thishereboi -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:37:21 AM)

Make her sit in a corner holding a sign that says "my master has no imagination".



Kana -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:39:07 AM)

Give her a Tabasco enema-then feed her  the leftovers



LaTigresse -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 5:39:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Make her sit in a corner holding a sign that says "my master has no imagination".


My personal favourite so far!



angelikaJ -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 6:18:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mancslave2

just looking for any ideas anyone has for how to punish someone who seems to enjoy more normal punishments like spanking, whipping, etc.

hoping someone can suggest some new and interesting and effective ways to punish for a variety of things.
thanks for any ideas you may have.


Then you aren't doing it right.
You are missing the most important element of punishment and that is headspace.

I love being spanked.

I hate being punished.

The difference is headspace.

If she does not feel contrition over what she has done, or doesn't _get_ that what she has done is wrong then no amount of punishment is going to impart that to her.

If she loves impact play so much that she is unable to differentiate then don't use it.

Only give her impact play for when she is 'good'.

For misbehaviors, instead give tasks she doesn't like or assign writing lines.

And for heavens sake, work on your communication.
How consistent are you with your expectations.
How well does she understand them?
Why isn't she behaving?
Are these uncompleted tasks or misbehaviors?
Are these honest mistakes or instances of willfull disobedience.

Find out the whys and fix them.
If she doesn't want to obey then perhaps her style of submission is incompatible with your dominance.



Mumyoo -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 6:31:25 AM)

Writing Lines (particularly handwriting)




ranja -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 6:42:06 AM)

FR

has anybody mentioned the best thing to do is to ignore her yet???

that is just such a good way to punish... honestly is wields great results (NOT)



littlewonder -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 6:54:02 AM)

ignore her



poise -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 7:17:38 AM)

I always thought it was the dominants' position to mete out punishment? [:-]



Kana -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 8:48:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

I always thought it was the dominants' position to mete out punishment? [:-]



You and your whacky ideas...



DesFIP -> RE: punishments (5/22/2011 8:55:53 AM)

You're a sub so the problem must be that she doesn't believe you have the right to tell her what to do. You inspire submission in people. If you aren't, then that's your fault, not hers.

Around here, he tells me what he wants, tells me when he's disappointed and we discuss the problem and solve it for the future.



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