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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Almost all the toys used on me have been used on other people before me (and since I came along as well). It doesn't bother me in the least. I rather like it. The toys are just that, toys. She's had several floggers, and she likes the ones she has now. Why should she have to give them up? I don't mind if she thinks of Suzy Whippedwell when she picks one up. Suzy is gone. That flogger is mine now, its me it goes out dancing with now.

So she has memories of Suzy attached to it, so what, she's building new memories to attach to it with me now. Now when she uses it on somebody, I'll be in her mind along with Suzy, I'll be there along with whoever else made it a special toy to her. And I like that. It makes me happy to think that I am now part of her forever, that I'm in her head alongside all her past playmates and partners. We may split up one day, but I'll be in there for ever, I'll be part of those toys from now on, and whenever she uses them, she'll think of me as well. I'm permanent. Why would I want to deny the people that loved her in the past that same permanency?

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

I am not trying to be facetious -I am trying to make a point. Unless you are into virgins you do realize that he has dipped his proverbial wick elsewhere before he met you, right? I see your point but it's not about the thought flooding his head. It's about the thoughts flooding yours.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
The last thing I want is when he is hitting me with that cane is for all those memories of that person to come flooding back into his head. I want those thoughts to be of me and of us, not a third party.

I am not trying to be facetious -I am trying to make a point. Unless you are into virgins you do realize that he has dipped his proverbial wick elsewhere before he met you, right? I see your point but it's not about the thought flooding his head. It's about the thoughts flooding yours.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
The last thing I want is when he is hitting me with that cane is for all those memories of that person to come flooding back into his head. I want those thoughts to be of me and of us, not a third party.

I am not trying to be facetious -I am trying to make a point. Unless you are into virgins you do realize that he has dipped his proverbial wick elsewhere before he met you, right? I see your point but it's not about the thought flooding his head. It's about the thoughts flooding yours.

I never said I don't realize he's had others before me. Of course I do. As I've said before in anotehr post, we're both mature adults...BUT I don't need to hear about those other girls. I don't need to KNOW about those other girls. I would like to think I'm special and not just another girl who he's dipped his wick into.

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
The last thing I want is when he is hitting me with that cane is for all those memories of that person to come flooding back into his head. I want those thoughts to be of me and of us, not a third party.

I am not trying to be facetious -I am trying to make a point. Unless you are into virgins you do realize that he has dipped his proverbial wick elsewhere before he met you, right? I see your point but it's not about the thought flooding his head. It's about the thoughts flooding yours.

I never said I don't realize he's had others before me. Of course I do. As I've said before in anotehr post, we're both mature adults...BUT I don't need to hear about those other girls. I don't need to KNOW about those other girls. I would like to think I'm special and not just another girl who he's dipped his wick into.

I do not want second hand things used on my body. I do not want to wear some clothes left behind by another woman. I wouldn't want to use her pillows. If there was some sort of left over makeup or hairspray I do not want to use that, either. I like things that were bought with ME in mind, not other random people. He was born with his dick, he didn't buy it for an exgirlfriend/lover. If he had bought his dick for someone else, I'd want that to go too[;)]

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
I never said I don't realize he's had others before me. Of course I do. As I've said before in anotehr post, we're both mature adults...BUT I don't need to hear about those other girls. I don't need to KNOW about those other girls. I would like to think I'm special and not just another girl who he's dipped his wick into.

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You would be spending lots of time and money at the toy store buying your stuff for me to use on you. I am not about to toss out a $ 100 flogger just cuz I didnt buy it while thinking of you, that thought process is just retarded. Like Im gonna go buy new stuff so I can wack around the flavor of the month.

Get Real. BadOne

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather
Almost all the toys used on me have been used on other people before me (and since I came along as well). It doesn't bother me in the least. I rather like it. The toys are just that, toys. She's had several floggers, and she likes the ones she has now. Why should she have to give them up? I don't mind if she thinks of Suzy Whippedwell when she picks one up. Suzy is gone. That flogger is mine now, its me it goes out dancing with now.

So she has memories of Suzy attached to it, so what, she's building new memories to attach to it with me now. Now when she uses it on somebody, I'll be in her mind along with Suzy, I'll be there along with whoever else made it a special toy to her. And I like that. It makes me happy to think that I am now part of her forever, that I'm in her head alongside all her past playmates and partners. We may split up one day, but I'll be in there for ever, I'll be part of those toys from now on, and whenever she uses them, she'll think of me as well. I'm permanent. Why would I want to deny the people that loved her in the past that same permanency?