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Differ than poly group. - 5/12/2006 4:45:49 PM

Master96

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Hello everyone,
I don’t know if this topic had been discussed before. And I don’t mean any offence to anyone with it.
There are some guys fantasize about their wife or Domme having sex with other men.
I’m wondering if there are sub-women who fantasize about their Master having sex with other women; maybe as a humiliation fetish.
I’m not into humiliating my girl like this; though I would be in poly.
Just wondering, that’s all.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/12/2006 5:21:58 PM

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Not a fantasy of mine...Nope.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/12/2006 5:24:02 PM

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Hiya Master96,

I often fantasize about the Owner having sex with other women, it has nothing to do with humiliation. It is just a big turn on for me. I have also seen him have sex with another woman it was really hot.

I am not sure why you put in the part about humiliation. I also do not understand your poly reference, check out the poly forum for a while , you will learn lots.

And as LuckyA will undoubtedly say, whenever on the CM forum someone asks ..'is there anyone else into x,y or z , the answer will always be , yes!

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 4:40:14 AM

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No these fantasies are not poly. In poly(i am poly)there is no humiliation involved in watching each other have sex, just an extra pair of hands to open the lube.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 5:33:20 AM

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I have said numerous times on the boards before that i am not poly wired. I also don't have a problem with humiliation...i can't say that i fantasize about Thorns having sex with other women. I know He has snaks from time to time..but it's through our communication that puts a girls thoughts to rest.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 7:26:27 AM

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Simply put, she likes to watch. We both enjoy watching the other one engage in activites with another. That is not the same as being poly. Interacting with someone else on that level is not the same as being involved in a poly relationship. We are both poly and one day will probably add another to our family. We also have close friends who we interact with, but they are not part of our relationship. Those are two seperate issues.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 8:18:04 AM

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As for me i would not like my Master to have sex with others. That is why i am glad he told me he would not be with another as long as i am his and he said that will be forever. It would break my heart to see him with another.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 4:59:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou
I am not sure why you put in the part about humiliation. I also do not understand your poly reference, check out the poly forum for a while , you will learn lots.

I think the OP is asking if there is a female equivilent to a cuckhold. In cuckholding the husband gets off on the humiliation that another man has to fulfill his wife because he supposedly isn't man enough.

Some fantasies tend towards a gender-bias. More example, foot fetishist are almost always men, and probably the number one vanilla male fantasy is watching 2 women having sex. These fantasies/fetishes are not as common among females, although, sure, they do exist.

I'm not sure how you could turn a cuckholding fantasy around in this manner, since it mostly reflects a "I am less of a man because I can not function sexually" mindset. That doesn't translate into female thinking.

Are there women who enjoy watching their husbands with other women. Sure, but you'd be more accurate to label them as voyeurs. And I doubt you'd find any of them feeling humilation. I'm sure a creative dom could take a scene like that and introduce some humilation into it, however.

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RE: Differ than poly group. - 5/13/2006 7:57:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou
And as LuckyA will undoubtedly say, whenever on the CM forum someone asks ..'is there anyone else into x,y or z , the answer will always be , yes!

LOL especially when one of those people happen to be ME.

And it's not just because I'm poly either- it's a total slut/feed off their vibe/voyeur/humiliation thing.

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