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Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 9:20:10 PM

mixielicous

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i saw a 'queening' thread in 'ask a mistress'

[i apologize now, b/c, i seem unable to stop asking questions, feel mildly OCD]

sometimes my Master MAKES me queen. i dislike oral in general because i feel like i have much too much power when His head is between my legs. [thouroughly enjoy it in a physical sense]

so when He makes me queen Him it is 10X worse, i feel in a *wrong* situation, but i oblige, because He is a fan of oral sex, and loves to make me cum.

Do any of your masters make you do this? How does it make you feel? Why do you think He does it in *your* case?

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 9:26:00 PM

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I started that thread. What your master has you doing is not queening, hes just giving you oral with you on top, theres a difference. The dictonary type explanation towards the end of the queening thread, as well as my own post should help shed some light, if your doing those actual activites such as purposfully smothering, entrapping ect ect, then its a different story...

Then again...I do have rum in me. [Story of my friggin adult life]

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 9:28:12 PM

mixielicous

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thanks for the clarification...

......but none the less, my questions still stand

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 10:45:53 PM

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Laughing...yeah, mix...get with the program! What you're talking about can't be queening because it doesn't conform to So-and-so's dictionary entry for "queening" in the CM forums. Really, how dare you misuse terminology so irresponsibly?

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 11:07:21 PM

mixielicous

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*giggle*

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 11:16:01 PM

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Obviously, if your master likes this then, according to "BDSM for Dummies" he can't be a TRUE dominant. And since, as you say, you do derive some sexual pleasure from it, then you can't be a TRUE sub.

Which means, you must both be (holding crossed fingers in front of screen to ward off the evil eye) SWITCHES.

You both have my deepest sympathy and may God have mercy on your souls.

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 11:47:16 PM

mixielicous

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

(holding crossed fingers in front of screen to ward off the evil eye) SWITCHES.

You both have my deepest sympathy and may God have mercy on your souls.

"i feel in a *wrong* situation, but i oblige"

OBVIOUSLY- yes, that must be the swich talking ......

< Message edited by mixielicous -- 5/13/2006 12:01:43 AM >

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/12/2006 11:49:18 PM

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and on another note, the fact that i enjoy physical pleasure, does not make me any less submissive......

......apparently [and i never thought this possible]....... youre reading way too much

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 4:20:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

Which means, you must both be (holding crossed fingers in front of screen to ward off the evil eye) SWITCHES.

You both have my deepest sympathy and may God have mercy on your souls.

I cannot believe you used the S word! Now all our computers shall have to be cleansed by a qualified Dominant from the 12th order of the 12th house on 12th Street. Somebody call Crappydom.

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 6:23:20 AM

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Because she derives pleasure from being a sub she isn't a sub and I am not a Dom? ARE you SERIOUS?

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 6:36:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i saw a 'queening' thread in 'ask a mistress'

[i apologize now, b/c, i seem unable to stop asking questions, feel mildly OCD]

sometimes my Master MAKES me queen. i dislike oral in general because i feel like i have much too much power when His head is between my legs. [thouroughly enjoy it in a physical sense]

so when He makes me queen Him it is 10X worse, i feel in a *wrong* situation, but i oblige, because He is a fan of oral sex, and loves to make me cum.

Do any of your masters make you do this? How does it make you feel? Why do you think He does it in *your* case?

I am not a fan of that position either, because as you said-- it makes me feel like i hold power. at the same time, i am being submissive because although i don't prefer to be in a position such as that, i am still doing as He asks of me.

Just remind yourself that you are not asking, HE is telling you to do it, so therefore you are not in a position of power at all, but fulfilling his request.

I know -- easier said than done-- but thats what i do personally... remind myself that it is His power that put me there...

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 7:52:43 AM

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mixie,

Have you ever asked your Master if he feels you have the power when he is performing on you? I am sure you have and I am guessing the answer is the same one I have, absolutely not..

You just need to find a way to wrap your thoughts around the act. Lets say your lying on the bed, blindfolded, your hands tied together and pulled back over your head. He enters you for intercourse, he is controlling how hard he thrust, how long, he is in control and you are at his mercy. Now switch his penis for his tonge. Did you suddenly take control? He is still controlling where he touches you: how he touches you: when, if , and how many orgasms you have

I completely enjoy giving oral sex, sometimes my little one gets so worked up while we are playing that I smell her and as the smell gets stronger I just have to stop and perform oral on her. In between orgasms she is begging, pleading, and crying for me to please let her serve me, but I just grin and give her another orgasm. Does it sound like she is in control?

I know in theory you understand what I am saying. It is just a matter of making the adjustment in your thinking. You can be submissive and at the same time enjoy an act that is done purely for your benefit (though, and I suspect, that if you Master is like me he gets as much from it as he gives you) It is the same thought as anything else. My little one loves the flogger, is she not submissive and in control because I am doing something that she gets pleasure from when I flog her? Now substitute oral sex for flogger, it is all the same thing.

Smile and enjoy, you know how many women would love to be in your position? There are many who won't do that because it is not "domly", lol.

K

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 7:55:57 AM

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You are so right. I refuse NOT to enjoy the orgasms he gives me, no matter how!

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 9:35:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

You are so right. I refuse NOT to enjoy the orgasms he gives me, no matter how!

no kidding, right?!

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 9:37:52 AM

mixielicous

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thanks for sharing your experience...

trying to remind yourself that HE is the reason you are up there is hard to do, but once He starts 'working' i guess its hard to have ANY thoughts, really

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 9:39:09 AM

mixielicous

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

Smile and enjoy, you know how many women would love to be in your position? There are many who won't do that because it is not "domly", lol.

K

yes i never forget how lucky i am to have a sensual Dom..

thank you for your insight

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 11:53:23 AM

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A recent conversation I had with a dominant:
HE: What do you think when I order you to (fill in the activity)....
me: I think since you are the dominant I want to obey you.

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 4:34:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sab

Because she derives pleasure from being a sub she isn't a sub and I am not a Dom? ARE you SERIOUS?

Obviously no, he was not being serious. Sometimes tone is tough to convey through the written format.

Cin <~ hopes Crappy gets here soon, her computer is starting to show signs of infection by the switch virus.

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/13/2006 7:42:15 PM

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Here's a way to look at it. Just think that you're Queening him because he's your King.

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RE: Queening ...... - 5/14/2006 11:43:27 AM

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I see nothing wrong with it if it pleases him to do that well you should be happy you are pleasing him. If you get plasure then that is great. I feel he would not do it if it did not please him. Try to relax and go with the flow.

Matt's littleone

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