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wickedslut4u269 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 10:57:15 AM)

I agree relationships locally are more better than LDR's and I would never feel like being in an LDR relationship ever again. [sm=waves.gif]



Iamsemisweet -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 11:30:31 AM)

Lady Constanze, part of my aversion to LDRs probably has to do with the fact that all of mine (and I have had several) have been monumental failures.  If someone else can make it work, I think that is great.  So, in answer to your question, would I knock it back due to distance, I would have to say "probably".



LadyConstanze -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 11:36:25 AM)

Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't pick a LDR deliberately, but since it happened and it worked out for me, I can see how it can work...



tj444 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 12:40:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

I just had someone from Florida email me today.  Now why would I be interested in someone from Florida?  I have absolutely no trouble meeting people locally, and I have no interest in my social life being over the computer.  I am sure LDRs can work, and I am happy for those of you that are happy in LDRs.  But I think we all need to decide our priorities, and I want physical contact often and on a regular basis.


Well, i have been here in SoCal for a while now and the guys here are all turds. They all seem to want someone under 30 that looks like some movie star but not a princess or gold digger and they have relationship phobias or cheat and lie. [8|] So, that is why I would consider talking to someone long distance, to find someone that is more reasonable and has his feet planted firmly on the ground. I am looking to move outta here anyway but no firm plans on where yet.
I know that is not you or your situation, but just explaining another view point. [:)]



wickedslut4u269 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 1:07:48 PM)

I have been in your shoes hun and? I've been there and done that. [sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif]Life is way too short for those kind of guys hun? [:@]




Innocence is Pure Bliss



theRose4U -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 5:10:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Let's see........

Long distance, huh?  Well, I had a husband deployed to Korea.  That kind of sucked.  Then, My sub went to Afghanistan.  That pretty much sucked, too.  I'm not divorced and I've still got the sub, so I guess it was successful.  Is that what you wanted to know?



Just out of morbid curiosity...what is the military view on sexy skype?



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 5:17:06 PM)

And worst of all there's some times things really suck big balls an not the sexy big balls, and a lot of the time the other person is to far away to come comfort you in person or help you through it in person. Or quite the oposit something joyfull is happening an they're to far away to come celebrate.



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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I'm a masochist. LDRs in my own personal experience have sucked bit style. I get ZERO fun out of smacking myself about, even if someone else is directing me.

If I'm in a relationship I want snuggles, cuddles and lots of bruises given to me by him. Oh, and lots of really hot, nasty sex.

History has shown me that LDRs do not give me enough of any of that.



wickedslut4u269 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 5:35:02 PM)

I would rather my local Dom comfort me instead of my LDR Dom come and comfort me. [;)] He would make me feel better about myself. [sm=hearts.gif]



sunshinemiss -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/1/2011 5:39:18 PM)

<<<< is in an online relationship / long distance relationship with all you whack jobs. [:)]



SailingBum -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/3/2011 8:24:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

<<<< is in an online relationship / long distance relationship with all you whack jobs. [:)]



Hell YEA .. and I got first dibs on her hot lil ass. BTFW I love when you speak french to me mortica

Darling Gomaz



Aynne88 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/3/2011 8:31:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Either it moves into real time or crashes and burns.


Yep.I need to be touched, and I need to be in a physical relationship, online would never do it for me. If we were separated now for work etc., I could deal with that until he got back, but just online? That is not a real relationship. Would never satisfy my carnal needs.    



LaTigresse -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/4/2011 8:12:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Snappingfingers


I would be very interested in hearing what everyone thinks about long distance relationships which go on for a long time texting, or on phone?

Who has had them where it has turned out successful?

Thank you,

Snappingfingers.


It is not something I will enter into as anything other than......computer aquaintances/friends. And ANY online friendships will take a back seat to ANY personal/physical relationships. Nor would I ever consider an online relationship, a romantic partner type relationship. Unless we had met, spent actual physical time together, and had the ability and plan to make it NOT a long distance relationship. In person stuff always wins. Even in that in person stuff is just hanging out with three furry bitches![:D][:D]



DomImus -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/4/2011 9:53:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't pick a LDR deliberately, but since it happened and it worked out for me, I can see how it can work...


I view long distance relationships the same way I view any other non-traditional relationship model (like polyamory, for example). If just one couple can do it and make it work then it is possible. Everyone else who fails at it is the failure. The relationship model itself is not doomed to failure.



blueflowers2 -> RE: Online relationships - Long Distance (6/25/2011 3:37:56 PM)

Unfortunately, they have not been successful in my experience. Sorry.



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