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gungadin09 -> RE: Fake bi women (5/28/2011 9:30:18 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Tarheel69
What's up with the chicks acting like they are looking for a woman to play with and then when replying to messages from them, they suddenly want to have their man involved? Seems to me like the dom is just using them to try to lure in unsuspecting bi women... for himself... It is happenong here in tidewater, VA... Any comments?
OP, i'm trying to make sense of all this. From Your profile, You state that You're looking for a housegirl. ("Another housegirl":- does that mean You already have one, and You're looking for a second, or does it mean that You're looking to replace a housegirl who left?) This housegirl would be responsible for servicing any guests in Your home. For that, she would need to be bisexual. She would also be responsible for servicing You.
From Your OP, You're looking for a bisexual woman for play (with You and presumably another woman.) The women You've contacted in Your area are already attached, and want their Doms involved in any sexual tryst. You assume that means they either fake (meaning not really bisexual?, or not sincerely interested in meeting and instead having a hidden agenda??) A couple of questions come to mind.
1. Did You bother to check if the girls You were emailing were already attached?
2. Sometimes people don't put their relationship status in their profile. God knows why not. Maybe they forgot to update it. Maybe they're out fishing for something better. Maybe they don't use the site much, and never bothered. If You find You're contacting a lot of women who are "taken", maybe it would be wise to ask that question outright from the beginning. It might save You time.
3. It's not clear whether Your OP is referring to casual play or to the housegirl You're searching for in Your profile.
4. It's certainly not clear why You, a man, could offer a bisexual woman play with another woman, even if she *were* interested. If there is confusion, perhaps it comes from the fact that You're being far from clear Yourself. Judging by the way Your OP is written, i wouldn't be so quick to attribute any fault in communication to the other party.
5. Asking to include a known person in a sexual tryst with strangers does not mean a woman isn't really bisexual.
6. Asking to include her Dom in a sexual tryst with strangers does not mean a submissive or her Dom is trying to "steal" bisexual woman.
7. This is the internet. Fakes and scammers happen.
8. There are other ways to meet people. Try going to a munch or an event in Your area. That should make it easier to weed out the "fakes".
9. Yours is one of the most confusing OP's i've ever read. You would be wise to work on expressing Yourself more clearly.
pam
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