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RE: Am I crazy? - 6/4/2011 6:41:19 PM

BegForPermission

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Thank you for the responses everyone. I'm working on the profile, I'm just having trouble with the language. I don't want to mislead anyone in my quest for power and glory. =)

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RE: Am I crazy? - 6/5/2011 6:34:41 AM

DesFIP

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Btw, slamming anyone who doesn't want to be the leader in their interpersonal relationships as lacking individuality and a sense of self is extremely rude. We all have that, whether or not we're compatible with you is something else.

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RE: Am I crazy? - 6/7/2011 3:31:18 PM

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Am I crazy in looking for a full-on D/s relationship "in the bedroom" while at the same time looking for a full-on 50/50 partner for everything else in our lives?

Nope. Sounds great to me. My ex husband and I enjoyed this dynamic. I suggest you tweak your OP just a bit and add it to your profile.

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RE: Am I crazy? - 6/7/2011 5:33:23 PM

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I don't think you are crazy at all! My bf and I are working on developing a similar dynamic right now. Outside of the bedroom, we pretty much live democratically, as a team, with the ultimate goal of our relationship being to fulfill each other's needs. Outside of the bedroom we are, for the most part, equal in terms of power. But I've told him about my submissive side, and so we've been working to set up times, usually in the bedroom, where I can let that side of me out and he can let his growing dominance out. But we started out as a purely vanilla couple; it may be harder to find that kind of dynamic on Collarme, though not impossible.

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