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Pro Domme Sessions- Into it or pretending? - 5/13/2006 8:23:04 AM

MissdeSade

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I am a Pro Domme in the Central Florida area. I was surprised last night when one of my clients asked me whether I enjoyed what I did. I love what I do! He asked if there was anything that I don't like doing, and I explained that if I don't like it, I simply don't do it. I am not going to pretend that I am into a session, if I am really not. So, I am curious- How do you subs/slaves feel about Pro dommes who do everything? Do you prefer a Domme who is really doing what they love- or someone who is into the theatrics of it? Thanks-
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RE: Pro Domme Sessions- Into it or pretending? - 5/13/2006 8:28:10 AM

gooddogbenji

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Miss de Sade,

I will not add much to this thread except to say you have opened a bit of a can of worms, and this thread, before long, will become a name-calling, sheet-slinging tropical fuckfest of misunderstandings.

I for one, will say I have never been to a Prodomme and paid for it, although I did play with one last week, and she seemed to truly enjoy making my butt into a zebra. But that's just me.

*Kicks back, gets the bar ready, waits for the seats to start filling up*

Yours,

benji

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RE: Pro Domme Sessions- Into it or pretending? - 5/13/2006 5:26:28 PM

openmindedslave

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The prodom really needs to determine how involved she wishes to be in her sessions. For example, if you take role playing as something you enjoy, by akll means the client will see that your really into , unless you are an incrediable actress and can full them. The sad truth is for many prodoms is the fact that clients return to you often when you can give them something that really challenges the senses and somehow reaches to their needs .If you do only what you want to or a preset schedule of activities with little personal involvement out of the client , then probably you will not see them that often because it might become stale. As you might have seen alot of clients have very similar desires . Some to appoint where you might be able to number them like a McDonalds. " We'll start with a number 3 ( kissing my boots ,), a side of number 6 (helping of humilation) and finsih that all off with a number 1 ( Strap on use.) supersized.
So you really have to figure what type of Prodom you want to be . Pretending is wounderful, but only if you can be convincing . If your clients want the real you , than just give it to them..

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RE: Pro Domme Sessions- Into it or pretending? - 5/13/2006 8:09:54 PM

subrob1967

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I've never payed to play, so I couldn't answer this question, but I can offer my opinion. A pro has to take her client's expectations into consideration, after all he's the paying entity. On the other hand, a pro shouldn't have to follow a scripted scene the client has fantasized about, unless they both agreed to the script during the negotiation. I would think that a client of a pro would love her to throw a curve ball or two, to keep him off balance.

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