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PhilSlave -> RE: I have an offline real life gf, this has already caused disbelief on this forum (5/30/2011 11:00:40 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
When inconsistencies abound, people are naturally going to wonder how valid your other claims are.
There must be some kind of cultural difference that I'm not getting. Over here, someone with a vanilla relationship who is interested in BDSM that doesn't include their primary partner, people are generally interested in that partner's views on the whole kink thing. Far too many cases of one person in the relationship coming onto BDSM sites without their partner's knowledge. It tends to be males who do this quite often.
As poly person, I've found that most folks who want to engage with Me in some way are also interested in My husband's views on all this. I had him create a profile here specifically for that reason. My sub has a profile here as well. It's very clearly Me that's pictured with them in both of their primary photos.
You can defend it all you want and I respect your right to have your view. To me, it's damn creepy thing to do.
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