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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 8:24:44 AM   
EmilyRocks


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Status: offline 		So far the only men writing me want to send me money for nothing in return. Tempting, confusing but very tempting.

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 8:27:51 AM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: EmilyRocks

So far the only men writing me want to send me money for nothing in return. Tempting, confusing but very tempting.



Give them a PO Box or an Amazon wishlist and watch them disappear before you can say SNAP

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 9:32:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Red, you know oddly enough all the females who usually approach me and claim to be bi and lesbian (one reason why I put my profile to straight, though that's not 100% true) usually slip up after a few emails by asking about my underwear or other stuff women just wouldn't ask for... Funny that...

On that note, it might be helpful to mention differences in the ways women and men behave on IM, and email.

Men tend to sexualize intimate apparel.  Women tend to sexualize exterior apparel.  I knew one woman who got wet whenever she saw a guy wearing a huge watch, because her father used to wear one when he would read to her.

Men tend to sexualize visual body parts.  Women tend to sexualize smells.

Women want you to talk about your kids, your nieces and nephews, and your pets.  Men want to talk about your experience with anal sex.


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 9:36:22 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Oh don't get me wrong, I can get excited about lingerie, but I'd be more likely to ask which brand it is, the material it's made from and not if it's see through... Some things just give it away

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 9:58:17 AM   
HeatherMcLeather


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Status: offline 		I'm more likely to ask if I can wear yours. Ooops, I think I just gave myself away.


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 10:21:15 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		If that's you in your avatar, then I guess my undies might be too big for you ;)

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 10:29:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Well, you see a female will know that they are most likely Lise Charmel


What about your other pair?


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 10:30:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
I knew one woman who got wet whenever she saw a guy wearing a huge watch, because her father used to wear one when he would read to her.


Really? Far out!


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 10:46:05 AM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Well, you see a female will know that they are most likely Lise Charmel


What about your other pair?



Let me show you my dressing room... One wall is reserved for undies, I think you are a bit aware of my shoe and leather fetish, it pales when compared to my lingerie fetish, I recently "downsized" my bras because H complained, I agreed that more than 100 are too much, but you do need at least one matching pair of panties for each bra, but then panties come as thongs, brazilian cut knickers, boy shorts, tangas... different materials such as silk, linen and cotton... And really, panties don't take up so much room so that having several hundred is completely normal... come on over, put our vinyl maid's uniform on and sort them all by colour...

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 10:59:37 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
. . . come on over, put our vinyl maid's uniform on and sort them all by colour...


Right, you're on! Though, I don't what half those items you described actually are.


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 11:02:04 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It's really simple.  You're new.  Not just to the scene, but also to the net.  That means people will think you will be dumb enough to fall for the 'old tricks' because you haven't heard about them before.

Others that you'll probably get:

You're not really female.

You can't be Dominant if you haven't been a sub first.

People who say they want to sub to you, but then want you to switch.

Anything to get you to join them for erotic chat or cam.

Woman or couples who are interested in you, but there's no other woman when the time comes to meet.

People wanting "training" via the internet.

Probably at least two dozen more that it's too early for My brain to remember.


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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 2:09:10 PM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		Don't take all of the emails seriously, since a percentage of those Dommes are guys pretending to be Dommes.
I don't know how many switches are 55% Domme and 45% submissive (or any percentage combination, a person believes self to be). In terms of behavior, many people can be dominant, and still bottom to another, if they notice you play (in public or not), and share similar kinks with you.

The easiest way to deal with the undesired, is "no thanks." If they persist, block/delete. M

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LadyConstanze
Give them a PO Box or an Amazon wishlist and watch them disappear before you can say SNAP
Definitely this Emily, in response to your post #21. M

< Message edited by SexyBossyBBW -- 6/1/2011 2:12:33 PM >

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 4:53:21 PM   
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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 6:08:34 PM   
Wickad


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@EmilyRocks,

You mention that you are from a 'corner' of MB - not knowing the distance and such, do you know about the things going on in Winnipeg, MB? If not, there is a quite a vibrant community there if you feel the drive isn't too much.

Drop me a line if you want more info.

Wickad

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RE: Submissive Dommes?? - 6/1/2011 7:40:12 PM   
NovaDomme01


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Status: offline 		While a lot of people here strictly identify with one side or the other of the power exchange dynamic, there are plenty of people here (myself included) who have found it is certainly fun to switch things up at times.  I feel it helps all parties involved learn more about themselves as well as what goes into the other side of the dynamic.  IE: My sub sees how much work really does go into planning and playing out the perfect scene, while I have also benefited greatly and improved my skills by playing the other side of the fence on occasion.  I'm not saying switching is for everyone but it sure does have its pros and cons just like anything else.   Would I title myself as a submissive domme, never... but truth is I am a domme who will on rare occasions submit for the right man (so title it as you will).  :-)  I'm not sure if this is the same for those soliciting you but I figured I'd share my perspective on the matter.  

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