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ORIGINAL: shaym35

Thanks everybody. As I sit here typing this he is talking to others. I asked him if we could talk later, so we will. I have made plans to remove myself from his household in the next 3 weeks, and am just waiting to tell him... It's odd, I really knew from the start what I should do, but still was trying to figure out a way to get some positive attention from him...

Again, thank you all for listening.

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I'm treated as a girlfriend and nothing more... I have brought this up with him and he has given me many excuses as to why this is. One being that he sees me as his equal... Another that he's been too busy and stressed to deal with training... It's hurtful... On top of it all, though he tries to hide it (not well) he talks to girls online while he is cuddling me

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ORIGINAL: shaym35

Alright, I'm not sure where else to go for help here...

I met a man on here late last year and have relocated for him... I've been living here for 2 months now but the problem is that once I got here the D/s aspect has barely been a thing. I have a hard time acting submissive, let alone a slave, to somebody who barely tries. I'm treated as a girlfriend and nothing more... I have brought this up with him and he has given me many excuses as to why this is. One being that he sees me as his equal... Another that he's been too busy and stressed to deal with training... It's hurtful... On top of it all, though he tries to hide it (not well) he talks to girls online while he is cuddling me... Saying he needs a slut/slave/et cetera... I mean... I feel bad for looking, but he was doing it right there, beside me... But... This is what I want! I'm sure there is more going on than I have figured out so far... He doesn't want me to leave, and has told me that... But I want to 'inspire' him to be my Sir/Daddy/Master/Dom...

I was considering after I do my chores around here, I dress up nice in my plaid skirt, put everything out on the bed and leave a note saying that I'm waiting for him in his room for him as he wants me... I feel like it might inspire him to be his Dominant master self, as well as open up things for discussion... And I would also just enjoy it...

Perhaps that isn't the best plan, but it's what i've come up with so far. Talking only seems to get me so far.

I was thinking a note may be good as well. I'm just not sure where to start with it or what to say. He knows what I want, and he knows I need to be inspired...

I would just like some advice if anybody has any... I've never been in a situation like this, and I do truly love him with all my heart... Please... Just some advice, anything. I am feeling neglected and don't know what to do...