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RE: long distance contro - 6/25/2011 11:51:07 AM

UberBrat

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I don't really understand? You're a Dom, not interested in what this sub wants, but wondering how to cater to this sub's needs? Shouldnt it be the other way round - with you having the control, and him catering to your needs?
Honestly, if he's not what you're looking for, I'd tell him. And if he keeps refusing to take the hint, click on the lovely "block sender" button - it's pretty useful :)

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RE: long distance contro - 8/30/2011 11:45:11 AM

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I just don't see how it could ever be satisfying.

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RE: long distance control - 8/30/2011 12:21:14 PM

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I like this advice a lot. Be positive, and try to influence others' lives in a positive way. Even if it is some crazy persistent sub who doesn't want to be your farm hand

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If you really can't think of long distance control, here are some ideas.
Does he stay up late at night? Give him a set bedtime.
Does he procrastinate about chores around his place? Give him a schedule of things to do every day.
Does he need help progressing in his career? Order him to identify what skills he needs and how to acquire them and then order him to get them in the order you think is best.

Improve his life. And that will make you a better dominant for any future subs.

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Alice: But I don't want to go among mad people.
The Cat: Oh, you can't help that. We're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.
Alice: How do you know I'm mad?
The Cat: You must be. Or you wouldn't have come here.

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RE: long distance control - 9/1/2011 4:11:46 PM

dlbilly

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You must like it or you wouldn't answer him. Tell him to stick a big dildo up his ass and then email back for further instructions when he's done that. Then block him from contacting you thru whatever avenues he has been contacting you. Picture him with the dildo up his ass trying to email you for weeks and weeks to get his next instructions. He'll give up someday (maybe).

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RE: long distance control - 9/1/2011 10:26:08 PM

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It;s really obvious to me that the OP is the submissive in this relationship as the other person <read the one in charge> is calling the shots.

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