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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:17:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
if there IS a list, it will be among a small number of people only.  As I said in my previous post, be truthful and honorable, and those that deal with you face to face will find the truth of you themselves.

Exactly and even more so from the looks of what I've been pulling up in Google Searches!




barelynangel -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:20:05 AM)

Hey, i saw that profile who had that silly blog.   To me, someone needs a life to partake in such stupidity.  That is also someone who has no life and is probably fake himself lol as if he was real -- he would have time to maintain such a blog how?

Good grief, the things people come up with to be negative about others.  BTW, Wouldn't posting such a link be against the TOS?

angel




poise -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:20:12 AM)

The very first line in your profile is "So many fakes and morons on CM".
Perhaps she meant you were on the moron list? You know the one, right?




BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:21:50 AM)

To be on a list with a bunch of  just ordinary people smile yuck!!!..Bounty




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:21:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: poise
The very first line in your profile is "So many fakes and morons on CM".
Perhaps she meant you were on the moron list? You know the one, right?


It's possible she went for intentionally hitting an extremely obvious hot bottom... (raised eyebrow)




sunshinemiss -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:23:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Hey, i saw that profile who had that silly blog.   To me, someone needs a life to partake in such stupidity.  That is also someone who has no life and is probably fake himself lol as if he was real -- he would have time to maintain such a blog how?

Good grief, the things people come up with to be negative about others.  BTW, Wouldn't posting such a link be against the TOS?

angel


Oh I hadn't thought of that.  Good point!




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:24:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Hey, i saw that profile who had that silly blog.   To me, someone needs a life to partake in such stupidity.  That is also someone who has no life and is probably fake himself lol as if he was real -- he would have time to maintain such a blog how?

Good grief, the things people come up with to be negative about others.  BTW, Wouldn't posting such a link be against the TOS?

angel


Oh I hadn't thought of that.  Good point!



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frazzle -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:26:11 AM)

Fr to the OP

I live in the West Midlands, and havent heard of said list. But some of us do talk to each other and obviously the names of morons come up.

I have just looked and see you have now removed all your previous journal entries where you named people you deemed fake.

I think Pot has now met Kettle.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:33:22 AM)

Okay the detonators are set!! Who's going to press the button on this thread?




aromanholiday -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:37:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: offered247

I found out an hour ago I was on a list when I was chatting with a CM fem sub, on her MSN address

We chatted for 20mins and she asked me to remind her of my profile name

As soon as I gave it she said you are listed as a fake and logged off.

She blocked me on Cm and went offline on msn so I cannot ask her

and if I am listed as a fake then it is likely none will accept anything I say as truth


She's an idiot and all the other people who create and visit such blacklist sites are also idiots. I'm surprised to hear the subs made such a list. Fake lists are very big among the more pathetic pseduo-doms on here; this is the first time I've heard of the submissives "organizing" in this fashion. Interesting, but it's also sickening no matter who does it. Someone could put your name on a list like that if you didn't offer to kiss her pretty-princess feet. (And if she's a submissive you _shouldn't_ offer to kiss her pretty princess feet--still, you may wind up on a list like that if you don't stroke someone's ego in exactly the way they want it stroked.)

Do ignore this. The people who are involved with such foolishness are not worth anybody's time.




offered247 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:38:12 AM)

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I think Pot has now met Kettle.


hello frazzle, you know me from Cm and maybe IC too

i am not sure of what you speak, or if you said that to me??

I have not removed any fake names from my journal, just rants about how many I found and deleted

I seem to think many on here do not see fakes, maybe because they are female and maybe males dont fake so many male profiles

as a male dom, looking for a fem sub, my search throws up 1000's of fake profiles, mostly with yahoo links, many with porn star photos or other blantantly obvious falsehoods

so if you are real, hello




GreedyTop -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:48:39 AM)

oy




aromanholiday -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:50:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: offered247

does not alter the fact if I am on a list will not help with personal and even business endevours



In general, when this sort of thing happens, don't feel bad. It doesn't have to affect you at all. As others have said, this could have just been some extremely petty and vengeful soul who got ticked off by something in your profile. There may not be a list.

Still, it never hurts to take some measures. Close your old accounts and change your screen names. Use different names in different places, not the same name for every account. Change your business name. Businesses remarket themselves under new names all the time. For personal profiles, when you change the screen name, also change the photo to a shot that doesn't look like your first one. Use different photos on different profiles. All of these things give you some measure of privacy/protection against slanderers.

Also, google the screen name you gave to the woman in the chat. Perhaps also google the word "dom" with it. Or the word "list." Persistently search the results. If you are on such a list you should be able to find it that way.

It's a very small thing, however. I doubt it will hurt you. Most people don't know about or pay attention to (even if they know about) such lists, because they are stupid and gossipy and vengeful and reading one is like wading through a cesspool.




barelynangel -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:51:28 AM)

Don't you think its a little hypocritical to be ranting and raving in your journal about those YOU deem fake, and yet be upset when others deem YOU fake?  To me, if i see a guy calling himself a Dom ranting about fakes and whining about same, instead of just chalking encountering same on a site like this as the crap you have to wade through because the site IS FREE, i mean seriously.. does whining about it actually help?   To me, it only makes men who do so look like uncontrolled children, instead of men who are capable of being in control of themselves and not throwing tantrums when things don't go their way.

You do realize such rants do come across as tantrums?

YMMV  angel




sunshinemiss -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 5:52:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: aromanholiday

Interesting, but it's also sickening no matter who does it. Someone could put your name on a list like that if you didn't offer to kiss her pretty-princess feet. (And if she's a submissive you _shouldn't_ offer to kiss her pretty princess feet--
*snip



Is that right?  I'm sure ALL the doms are taking notes about what they should and shouldn't do.  Oh gosh... They are I'm sure DELIGHTED that you are here to give them instructions.  Whatever did they do before you showed up?  It's a conundrum.

Yes, I'm being sarcastic.  I could have just said... Who the fuck do you think you are?  I like the other one better.  Have a day!
Sunshine




DarkSteven -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 6:00:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Don't you think its a little hypocritical to be ranting and raving in your journal about those YOU deem fake, and yet be upset when others deem YOU fake?  To me, if i see a guy calling himself a Dom ranting about fakes and whining about same, instead of just chalking encountering same on a site like this as the crap you have to wade through because the site IS FREE, i mean seriously.. does whining about it actually help?   To me, it only makes men who do so look like uncontrolled children, instead of men who are capable of being in control of themselves and not throwing tantrums when things don't go their way.

You do realize such rants do come across as tantrums?

YMMV  angel


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DesFIP -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 6:07:45 AM)

Considering he's 25 and claims he's been on CM for ten years, he's obviously a liar. Either when he signed up underage, or now claiming this. Or perhaps he can't count on his fingers and qualifies as a moron?

OP, having read your profile, I can assure you that if there was a fake list, I believe you would qualify.

Alas, there isn't one that I know of. I imagine the woman you chatted to checked your profile and put you on HER list of undesirables.




aromanholiday -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 6:15:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

quote:

ORIGINAL: aromanholiday

Interesting, but it's also sickening no matter who does it. Someone could put your name on a list like that if you didn't offer to kiss her pretty-princess feet. (And if she's a submissive you _shouldn't_ offer to kiss her pretty princess feet--
*snip



Is that right?  I'm sure ALL the doms are taking notes about what they should and shouldn't do.  Oh gosh... They are I'm sure DELIGHTED that you are here to give them instructions.  Whatever did they do before you showed up?  It's a conundrum.


(scratches head) Are you actually aruging that dominant men should offer to kiss a submissive woman' pretty-princess feet and that nobody on a message board has the right to express the opinion that they should not? If not, would you care to step out from behind your shroud of confused pseudo-sarcastic babble and explain what in the world you are talking about?

Someone expressing the opinion that she doesn't think dominants should offer to kiss submissives' feet is hardly worth this sort of conniption fit over, is it? (amused) You do remember that this is a mesasge board, don't you, and that people express all sorts of opinions that Your High and Mighty Self might find disagreeable? I find it intriguing that you picked out this particular statement, however, as one worthy of sarcastic wrath. Most interesting.

So tell me, how do you feel about kneeling? Should we all refrain from stating an opinion that a dominant shouldn't kneel humbly before a submissive? I know, it takes a lot of nerve to make a statement like that, especially since we're all free and equal and anbody should be allowed to kneel before anybody else no matter what the relationship dynamics, even in master-slave relationships. I mean, how _dare_ someone suggest you aren't dominant when you are kneeling before your submissive and licking the lint from between her dirty toes?

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Yes, I'm being sarcastic. I could have just said... Who the fuck do you think you are? I like the other one better. Have a day!
Sunshine


Carry on, O perfect embodiment of your screen name. [8|]




offered247 -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 6:16:47 AM)

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Considering he's 25 and claims he's been on CM for ten years


I am 42 not 25

and, not you, but the google idea was a cleaver one and i will try it

as for my comment about fakes, AGAIN, i get many a day saying "i love your profile and want to relocate"

clearly they did not read (let alone love) my profile or they would not have replied, as my profile clearly says do not reply to this profile

i do not list them, i do not remember them, i just try to reduce the number i have to reply too




PdxJ -> RE: WHAT IS SUB LIST (6/6/2011 6:17:21 AM)

Can someone put me on that list - maybe it'll cut down on the stupid messages I receive.

And OP - I think it's your red eyes that freaked her out and made her say those things. It was the power of Christ that compelled her.




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