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sunshinemiss -> RE: How to approch a Mistress online (6/7/2011 4:20:04 PM)
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Hello OP -
Here's what I see - Sit down, I don't think you're gonna like it.
You look like a scared little boy who has been eating ice cream to keep away the meanies and you've been watching a lot of porn to get your sexuality taken care of.
Sure, I could be reading too much into it, but you did ask, so I'm a tell you. See it's like this. Guys who watch a lot of porn have the kinds of names that you do on here. No self-confident MAN who is aware of and celebrates his sexuality has a name like that. Your name alone screams Horny Net Geek. (Heck... I just looked at your profile... you ARE a net geek - you're getting a dang master's degree in it.) You list a bunch of computer games as your interest. Not really enticing.
Your photo frankly really does make you look scared. You are disheveled, in an ill fitting shirt, and it's a poor photo. You don't want people to see you - you WANT to be blurry to people. You don't even try to make yourself look attractive. You post a lion king photo - of a fat but happy lion - which suggests that you are immature.
Here is what I suggest - for what it's worth.
Move your body - go to the gym, take a dance class, ride a bike, walk/run a 5k, take aikido classes. Honestly, I'm a fat lady from the midwest too, but I know that when I go to the gym, I come out of there feeling strong and confident! You look like you could use some "strong and confident" and some body image stuff.
You're 23. You're a smart guy, but your life is unbalanced. Be kind to yourself. And be kind to your body. Once you become a MAN, you will have what a woman wants in order to be with you, not just over you.
I wish you luck and strength, discipline and self-esteem,
sunshine
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