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What floats your boat? - 10/11/2004 8:33:38 PM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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Status: offline 		I am asking this question 2 ways, in this section, I want to know what your Dom/Domme does that floats your boat?
What is it about her/him, that just puts you over the edge?

In the Ask a Master section, I ask the Doms/Dommes what their subs/slaves do that floats their boat.

I am not looking for "He/She just does everything", I want to know what they do that sends you into that special place.

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/11/2004 8:58:52 PM   
bottominwa


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Status: offline 		Speaking only for myself now...lol...Master has an ambience to Him...He is quiet, yet not passive, aloof yet not stoic....and this tao like calmness is what generally does "it" for this girl. At this point in Our lives He can look at me and make me cry, more than being whipped all night ever had...There are certain Dominants who see into the core of a person, and that, stops this girl in her tracks immediately.
Now so far as kink goes... :) He has two things in His bag of tricks that He generally will pull out if the girl is particularly insatiable....the first is kissing her tailbone....the second is placing a pussy dripping finger in her mouth and making her suck it...lmao. Both which tend to drive her absolutely out of her gourd....now no more sex talk for the celibate little one.

nightie night,

sabrina King

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/11/2004 9:09:53 PM   
bottominwa


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Status: offline 		ps_ more generically even this girl has a thing for her wrists...We can be in the truck and Master can squeeze the girl's wrist and immediately she is wet...really wet...like a Pavlovian response of some sort...lmao...does anyone else have this?

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/11/2004 9:36:05 PM   
strongnsubmissiv


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quote:

ORIGINAL: INSIDEYOURMIND

I am not looking for "He/She just does everything", I want to know what they do that sends you into that special place.


When something is asked of me, the first thing my mind does, is logically find a reason for why She's asked. 90% of the time, i can usually find a reason, but when things are asked of me, and no obvious reason presents itself, other than because She's asked and i must obey, it drives me crazy. Logical explanations for things usually create reasons for me to obey, other than the D/s dynamic. However when there's no other reason, all that is left is D/s, and then i'm off to that special place. The physical effect as a result for me is an uncontrollable shake.

sns


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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/11/2004 10:10:29 PM   
cynnacent1


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Status: offline 		.oO( i am certain He already KNOWS the many possible answers to this query as far as i am concerned and i'll reply just the same)

i could list many examples as far as what does it for me. i'll stick with the one thing that places me in total submission where even though parts of me are wanting to say no .. my willingness to please takes over and silences any protests.

#1. It's when it is clearly known that i wish to stop whatever W/we are experiencing and am physically not allowed to do so.
#2. Sometimes included with this, it is that tone of voice that i have heard only at those moments that assures me W/we will not be stopping anytime soon.
#3. Sometimes included with this, it is my actually being TOLD that it is all too obvious by the way my body gives me away in wanting more ... and therefore, W/we will not be stopping anytime soon.
#4. Sometimes included with this, it becomes obvious to me just how much *my* reactions (IE: that irractic breathing thing, sweating, hips girating instinctively, squirming away one second then squirming back for MORE the next ... etc ) cause all of the effects of HIS reactions.

Any one of the above can play a part. All 4 combined make this one insatiable, and are just examples which take me to that special place.

Hairpulling is a plus to any of the above. Other's do exist as well i am certain, and i am having a wonderful time discovering them ... still.

It all comes down to one basic example though. It is knowing He is pleased with me. It is the bliss felt while under His command. It's the dominance. It is knowing i am not allowed to say no even if i WANTED to. It is simply knowing i belong to Him & am His to enjoy anytime, in any way He pleases.

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/12/2004 4:59:30 AM   
smilezz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: INSIDEYOURMIND

I am asking this question 2 ways, in this section, I want to know what your Dom/Domme does that floats your boat?
What is it about her/him, that just puts you over the edge?


I think mostly it had to do with the Social Engineering that is wound up so tight in alot of us. One of the things that took Thorns a bit of time to deal with is 'Face Slapping". Some years ago i asked Him to do this....it was hard for Him at the time...but over time....WOW!....now we are into the full backhand across the Face, and i can not beg enough for this *chucklez*
I also very much enjoy Blood play....good gawwdd...give The Man a Blade and use me as a canvas. Fingerpaint my body with my Blood. whew!

These are just two examples of what floats 'my' boat. I could get into the whole thing of the way He just looks at me....the way He moves.....ahhhhhhhhh, but then again... i DO worship the very ground this Man walks upon. *grinz*


happy Tuesday y'all....

~smilezz~


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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/12/2004 1:20:12 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		For me the biggest thing is simply stroking my skin incredibly light. The whole body is an erogenous zone.
Don't know what it really is about it. Although it sends shivers up my spine if done correctly.

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/12/2004 4:10:23 PM   
subbiejenn


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Status: offline 		* Grabbing my hair to pull me to a sweet, tender kiss... the moment His lips touch mine His grip loosens -- something about going from that hard forceful to tender *Whoa*

* Spontaneity - grab me in the kitchen, either force me to the floor or maybe pick me up and put me on the table...

* It’s the tone of His voice (forceful, Dominate)

* Look in His eyes when i have pleased Him.

*Someone else said it also, that light touch...

i currently do not have a Dom but these are things i have found in the past to "float my boat".


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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/16/2004 7:25:54 PM   
IservBlkKingPaPa


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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/16/2004 9:46:25 PM   
ChrisGreen


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Status: offline 		For me it is simply and solely the personality of the Matron, if she has 'Command Presence', then that is it I am clicked into her.

Regards


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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/17/2004 2:57:49 PM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		There are so many things that my master can do to make me feel like I could melt but the things he does that seem to be my sub-space triggers are
- putting one or both of my hands behind my back with a tight grip
- calling me his little one or goodgirl while he's whispering in my ear but not touching me
- delaying my orgasm through any manner of teasing
- and of course a delicious spanking mmmmmmm

My triggers may seem fairly tame and innocuous but I'm fairly new to the lifestyle so my question is this: the longer you're in the lifestyle, as your master pushes your limits further and further, do your triggers for subspace change as well? Does it take more and more to put you there? My triggers haven't really changed over the last few months but I have much to learn from my Master.

Typesgirl

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/17/2004 5:09:50 PM   
Goodmix


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Status: offline 		For me what floats my boat is intellegence, strenth, consistancy to the rules. That will earn my trust and respect, and with out those things i am not able to submit.

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/21/2004 3:18:02 PM   
srahfox


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Status: offline 		When he gabs a handful of hair at the back of my head. Or takes my wrist and sqeezes it. That and the words Good Girl. I love that.

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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/25/2004 8:06:15 PM   
ChrisGreen


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Status: offline 		Depends on the situation, it can be a tone of voice, or a certain enigmatic smile, or a raised eyebrow.

Regards



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RE: What floats your boat? - 10/25/2004 8:17:39 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		"good boy" - especially after a particularly annoying or difficult task. I don't mean cutsey little bondage games, I mean the shit that drives me up a wall, like going to the DMV to stand in line for half a day so that she dosen't have to. God, just kneeling before someone and hearing that simple phrase of acknowledgement has been known to drive me to tears.

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