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Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 6:55:03 PM   
SlutlingSlaveBoy


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Status: offline 		Good evening. I have a question I wanted to ask. After two years of service, my Mistress had to leave and return home. I have been unowned since. My question is this. What advice would you give a 24 year old boy on how to gain a New Mistress or gain the consideration of one?

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 7:18:59 PM   
Madame4a


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From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		I'd start with showing how intelligent and resourceful you are by searching "find a mistress" in this forum and looking around here. There is at least one, if not two, related threads in this forum each week. You'll find a lot of great advice there.

The next thing is I'd suggest editing your post and taking the line you've created out as its inconvenient
and causes your post to go off the page if you're using the kind of computer I am.

I'd get out, find groups in your area and meet people. That's a great start.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 7:24:31 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		How did you meet the last one?  Repeat the process.  

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 7:28:25 PM   
SlutlingSlaveBoy


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Status: offline 		sorry about the line. and I met her at a local bdsm dungeon. But lately none have been looking to own or train a slave (the reason i say train is cause i have heard that some like to retrain a slave to suit them). And I am sorry I posted this topic up rathe quickly and dind't notice the find a mistress thread. I will look for it now.

Ryuk

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 7:34:40 PM   
Madame4a


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From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		And now that I've read you're profile.. I'd suggest getting your terms straight... you call yourself "slaveboy" and yet you say you're a switch, then a sub and then a slave.. you also say "dom" consistently and I believe you're looking for a female.. so I'd suggest domme... and for me personally, I find your profile so full of twists and turns its hard to follow and it also seems a bit belligerent if not combative, or even challenging and not in a good way.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 8:00:47 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Madame4a
you also say "dom" consistently and I believe you're looking for a female.. so I'd suggest domme...


I don't agree.  Dominant is a unisex term.  There is no need to femme something up just for the sake of femming it up, unless you're a cross dresser and that's your kink. 

Female dominant or femdom makes sense if you want to specify.  Domme is a faux-French word that looks silly and sounds sillier, IMO.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 8:09:05 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		Start by changing your screen name.  If I were looking, you would automatically be disqualifed on your name alone.  It screams that you're only interested in sex and risky sex at that.  Definitely not someone I want anywhere near me.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/7/2011 8:25:45 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Your edited profile is much improved, good job. Good luck in your search.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/8/2011 4:00:26 PM   
SlutlingSlaveBoy


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Status: offline 		I could see where my screen name is a bit off, I am currently making a new one to replace this profile. and thank you MistressDarkArt for the compliment, this one appreciates it. I have now just made a new profile. it'll be the same except the name. if you wish to message me, please search for [email information]


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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/8/2011 5:06:24 PM   
Madame4a


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From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		Nice improvement on the profile! well done and good luck

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But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/11/2011 6:49:29 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		Hello,

When applying to a new Mistress be honest and sincere. Explain that you had a Mistress before and why it ended. I also like it when a slave applies and asks Me what ways I like to be served and he offers a list of ways he can serve Me.

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/12/2011 5:05:11 AM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		I did not read your original profile, but your current one seems sufficent. My best advice would be to keep looking. It can be a long journey, but you cannot win if you do not play. Best of luck!

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RE: Finding a new Mistress - 6/14/2011 1:36:23 PM   
YourDomSister


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Joined: 5/29/2011
Status: offline 		Best advice from my point of view is this:

Imagine that you have just finished butler school and you are now looking for someone to serve. You need to remember to be polite, maybe offer a drink or a massage if she requests so. You may show some initiative by helping her take her coat off or holding her umbrella. In short- be well-mannered and polite.

Do butlers show their naked bodies without their mistress permission or request?- I don't think so! So well dressed, clean, shaved, calm and fit. Those are the guys dominant females adore! Remain calm, subtle, shy of your body, that make undressing more intimate. In short- Take care of your looks.

Lastly, show interest, but not desperation. Keep sexual discussions to a minimum until more time has passed. After that you may swap kinks, talk about more intimate things. In short- slow and steady wins the race.

Just think good about yourself and make a good impression.

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