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Sex After Play - 5/14/2006 8:37:16 AM

PeaceInterrupted

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I am a Domme in Colorado and I have montly play parties in my home. I have a collared male subbie that I love to play with at my parties. I get very sexually aroused during play like this but I dont do any sexual play with my subbies, I save that for my hubby. But, here is the problem. Even though I get sexually aroused I dont wanna have sex for days... I enjoy how the feeling stays with me for days and I know if I have sex the feeling will go away.. anyone else with these same issues or is it just me?

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RE: Sex After Play - 5/14/2006 9:01:08 AM

Driver1961

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He dips His lid to all,

Nice question and it would be interesting to see what answers come in.

Being Dom and from the 'supposed other planet' I should have no concept of what you refer to! However I have somewhat similar experiences.

I did have a period of a few months where I was going to BDSM play clubs without either of my Precious Ones. I refused to 'actively play' in the absence of my Precious One/s and so 'observed' play. (neither was I playing with my subs at this time due to logistics of distance) I found that I at the clubs I got twitchy. My hands just wanted to whip! but upon leaving I always felt very satisfied and in a satiated state of sexual and play arousal that lasted for days. I'd laughing refer to it as 'Dom space"!

I could expand with other experiences but feel it's a waste except to say- enjoy it, it's all good and wonderful, and I never cease to be surprised at how BDSM settles me.

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Driver 1961, Sir to His loving 'Wild Child'

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RE: Sex After Play - 5/14/2006 10:17:53 AM

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I too refer to it as "Dom Space". And have also found myself wanting to be part of a public scene in progress, and possibly even a little jealous. All the feelings surge and create something that only this lifestyle can bring us... and I wouldnt have it any other way!

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RE: Sex After Play - 5/14/2006 10:27:50 AM

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I think that these feelings are totally normal...as normal as us kinksters can be. As long as you're enjoying the sensations why worry about it? The message between the lines I'm hearing is that you're rethinking the no sex with play thing. I used to live in the fort...the boys up there can make you think the previously unthinkable. Yummy gotta love corn fed beefcake.

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RE: Sex After Play - 5/15/2006 5:37:56 AM

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Im not rethinking the no sex rule that I have, but my hubby doesnt understand that I enjoy this feeling.. its all my own... but I guess I feel guilty in some ways if that makes sense.

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