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darchChylde -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 3:43:58 PM)

A dominant woman does not need greater physical strength to "take down" her submissive physically and aggressively. If she pulls him backwards by his hair, he will have no choice but to follow where she drags him.  Cunning use of leverage and sometimes just pure evil can go far pitted against physical strength.




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 5:31:30 PM)

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But I don't see a lot of it in Female led relationships...in fact, I think that is one of the differences between Male vs. Female dominance is that Male dominance more often (not always) tend to incorporate a very physical coercion-form (coercion with consent mind) - and often an expression of the Male's most times greater physical strength plays a significant role in the dynamic.
two reasons.

1. you've been looking at the wrong female led relationships. female/male tends to have a physical imbalance that makes that sort of play difficult without a lot of role playing. female/female relationships tend not to suffer from this imbalance, so its more common in them.

2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn




sunshinemiss -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 9:10:54 PM)

I swear I sometimes think Sexy Red and I were separated at birth.

Hi?  Are you my mom?  I'm Sexy SunshineMiss.  Sexy Red Miss is my twin.  Nice to meetcha!




DesFIP -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 9:23:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather


2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn


Feeling insecure much? Because nothing else would cause someone to be so prejudiced.

He's got an MBA from Wharton which hardly sounds like a description of someone stupid.




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 9:49:03 PM)

actually babycakes, my view is based on a lot of encounters with men who claim to be doms. you may want to look carefully at what i said. the average male dom... with average being the operative word.

are you really going to tell me that the vast majority of the men who proclaim themselves doms aren't just fucking wankers? if most of them are idiots, then what i said is true.

not being in the same situation i was, you most likely being in a position to be more selective, i suspect you just ignored those sorts, so your sample group is already skewed. you don't play with the average, you play with the exceptional, as do most of the subs on these boards. i wasn't really in a position to be so selective, it was a business consideration. the fact that you interact with intelligent competent doms doesn't alter the facts it only means that you haven't taken a large enough sample to dispute my findings.

and i wasn't saying people who use physicality were not intelligent, after all i use it. heather stated as much in her post. what i said was that that men who only do physicality usually do so because they were too stupid to do otherwise. see the difference?

see, i'm not deflecting insecurity, nor am i small minded, nor am i doing it to make myself feel better. i'm simply relating what i have concluded from my experiences. if your experiences don't jibe with mine, then consider yourself lucky.

and your wrong about my girl, she's not pretty snazzy, she's absofuckinglutely snazzy.

hannah lynn




sexyred1 -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/11/2011 10:51:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I swear I sometimes think Sexy Red and I were separated at birth.

Hi?  Are you my mom?  I'm Sexy SunshineMiss.  Sexy Red Miss is my twin.  Nice to meetcha!




[sm=cute.gif]




LaTigresse -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 5:43:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

actually babycakes, my view is based on a lot of encounters with men who claim to be doms. you may want to look carefully at what i said. the average male dom... with average being the operative word.

are you really going to tell me that the vast majority of the men who proclaim themselves doms aren't just fucking wankers? if most of them are idiots, then what i said is true.

not being in the same situation i was, you most likely being in a position to be more selective, i suspect you just ignored those sorts, so your sample group is already skewed. you don't play with the average, you play with the exceptional, as do most of the subs on these boards. i wasn't really in a position to be so selective, it was a business consideration. the fact that you interact with intelligent competent doms doesn't alter the facts it only means that you haven't taken a large enough sample to dispute my findings.

and i wasn't saying people who use physicality were not intelligent, after all i use it. heather stated as much in her post. what i said was that that men who only do physicality usually do so because they were too stupid to do otherwise. see the difference?

see, i'm not deflecting insecurity, nor am i small minded, nor am i doing it to make myself feel better. i'm simply relating what i have concluded from my experiences. if your experiences don't jibe with mine, then consider yourself lucky.

and your wrong about my girl, she's not pretty snazzy, she's absofuckinglutely snazzy.

hannah lynn


And some of us think you are snazzy also.




Kana -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 7:56:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

actually babycakes, my view is based on a lot of encounters with men who claim to be doms. you may want to look carefully at what i said. the average male dom... with average being the operative word.

are you really going to tell me that the vast majority of the men who proclaim themselves doms aren't just fucking wankers? if most of them are idiots, then what i said is true.

and your wrong about my girl, she's not pretty snazzy, she's absofuckinglutely snazzy.

hannah lynn



1-Yep, I agree...however, splitting hairs a bit here, you have a decided demarcation in your post. You are talking in essence about 2 vastly different groups, men who claim to be doms, and men who are doms. I would argue that the guys who actually do TTTWD have a much lower wanker quotient than the wannabe's, posers and handjob artists. Now, deciding who is  and who just claims to be isn't  a debate I wanna get into, but I do think there is a big difference between the two groups you mentioned.
2-Your affection for HeatherMcL is adorable and laudable.




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 1:43:55 PM)

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men who claim to be doms, and men who are doms.
i don't think, for the purposes of our discussion, there's a real difference. i mean what you consider a real dom and what i consider a real dom will be different, and both those will be different again from what lilly does. as far as i'm concerned anybody who says they are a fucking dom/domme is. that doesn't make them a good dom/domme, but it makes them one. a shitty dominant is just as much a dominant as a good one. its a matter of fucking degrees. an intelligent dom will rely on far more than just physically dominating some cunt, a stupid one won't. if he's got no fucking brains, then he's got no choice, does he?

and in my experience most doms don't have the fucking brains to find their way out of bed without a fucking map and written directions. in my time as a painslut-for-hire, i probably dealt with more individual male doms than most girls on here, so i'm fucking well going to stand by my conclusions.


hannah lynn




PeonForHer -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 2:05:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
I know VC is relatively short, but she still scares me.


No need to be scared, Twoshoes - VC assures me she has a new hairstyle now.




hlen5 -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 2:05:23 PM)

In your time as a "painslut for hire", wouldn't you have been more likely to have only customers who could only pay for it rather than seduce and charm a sub?? Maybe your experiences were skewed to those types of "doms"?

I'm not trying to discount your opinion, I'm just asking.




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/12/2011 2:24:39 PM)

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Maybe your experiences were skewed to those types of "doms"?
oh more than fucking likely. but that's why i said they were the average, not the exceptional. the one's who hired me who were purely physical about it were stupid, the smart ones managed to fuck with my head as well. that's my point.

hannah lynn




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 12:08:13 AM)

I have scared people with my presence. I've been told I "have a great presence," and been perceived as capable of delivering a beat down, on many occasions. I've never been a "get physical" type. I was in one fight in elementary school, and I'm pretty sure I was pushed into it, and I lost.

I'm generally not into physical take down play... Than, I met this adorable, cutest brat you've ever seen. He looked into my eyes, and said, I seem so nice, and not very dominant. In retrospect, it was a topping idea, but I loved taking him down, and well, the rest is history to me; but he never forgot it, and swears he will always miss that kind of play. M




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 1:23:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn
I'm surprised none of the male doms have had something to say to this. While not into them for relationships, I definitely don't lack respect, or even affection for many male dominants. M




ranja -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 1:57:13 AM)

I love a good physical fight with my Husband, the day i might actually win will be a sad one...




MrHCurious -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 3:16:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
I know VC is relatively short, but she still scares me.


Oh, absolutely. She's fucking horrible, that's why I like her so much.




PeonForHer -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 4:55:15 AM)

Slaps.

So long as a femdom can do good slaps, none of the rest of the debate about the relative physical strengths of males and females matters much to me.

That is All.




ILustAfterPeon -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 6:41:19 AM)

The title of the thread says it all.
Let us commence to getting physical Peon. [sm=bust.gif]




PeonForHer -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 6:56:11 AM)

OK! But that would require us to be in physical proximity . . . .




JstAnotherSub -> RE: Let's Get Physical! (6/13/2011 7:01:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

quote:

But I don't see a lot of it in Female led relationships...in fact, I think that is one of the differences between Male vs. Female dominance is that Male dominance more often (not always) tend to incorporate a very physical coercion-form (coercion with consent mind) - and often an expression of the Male's most times greater physical strength plays a significant role in the dynamic.
two reasons.

1. you've been looking at the wrong female led relationships. female/male tends to have a physical imbalance that makes that sort of play difficult without a lot of role playing. female/female relationships tend not to suffer from this imbalance, so its more common in them.

2. the average male dom is too fucking stupid to do anything other than physically overpower, so of course it plays a significant role, hell its the all there is to their game.

hannah lynn


Wow.  Just wow.

Generalize much?  or just to show your hatred of the males of the species?

One could think, from your posts, that all lesbians are mad as hell bitches who have to spew vile at any and every opportunity, but that would be a wrong assumption wouldn't it?

As for the OP, getting physical equals oh hell yeah to me.  To me, the ability to overpower me physically has more to do with how he has gotten in to my mind and not so much his physical strengths though.




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