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New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:27:47 AM

subnurse2

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I am a new sub in great need of training. Im not really even really sure how to start. Any tips or intrest?

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:31:45 AM

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Hi, and welcome here.....

Your question will be answered by the more veteran posters here.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:34:43 AM

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Nope. You don't.

Most so-called training is provided by horndogs who claim that they will train you as a means of getting their jollies with no commitment. Any real Dom will train you to HIS requirements, not some other guy's.

You live in Houston. There's gotta be a good sized kink community there. Go meet people and learn from demos, play parties, etc.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:38:29 AM

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thank you. i had already figured out the whole so called dom and real Dom thing. that is why i am not trained. I have had those that claimed to be dom. However i have not come across one that was truely Dom.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:45:42 AM

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Welcome, how fun for you!

The only advise I can give is even if you submit or surrender - you still own your choices.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 8:55:38 AM

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and just to add on: ditch the 'real dom' vs 'dom' thing.. what doesnt work for you might be exactly what someone else is precisely looking for :)

*edited beacause I am tired and apprently not doing a good job on completing a thought in one session*

Do not dismiss those that dont fit for you outta hand, unless they are obviously a twat (ie: lemme take nekkid pics of you/lemme turn you out to all my friends/etc),... unless thiose are things ya WANT.

(and understand.. my idea of a twat may not match yours)

just, for gods sake, dont let your hormones overrule your common sense..

and yeah, it's time for me to go attempt something like sleep;;; ignore me if I dint make sense...

< Message edited by GreedyTop -- 6/11/2011 9:00:39 AM >

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 9:01:39 AM

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sorry. i wasnt trying to offend. just express the frustration.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 9:10:06 AM

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not offended at all, hon..

just trying in my sleepdeprivation-addled way to try and warn you of some of the pitfalls that may arise from your initial post.

I wish you well..just dont let the genitals rule you, is all I'm saying//

;)

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/11/2011 10:37:10 AM

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Welcome To CM

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/14/2011 8:55:30 AM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Please read some of the older and newer threads started in the different forums. Make use of the search feature upper right hand corner. If you don't find what you're looking for, then start a new thread asking what you'd like to know. Approach it as friendly and curious, be prepared for some who are blunter than others but mean well all the same. Take what you want as advice, throw out the rest, and remember the grain of salt, take it at times.

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RE: New Sub In GREAT NEED of training. - 6/14/2011 9:12:55 AM

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Don't worry, you are a woman are you not? You will get lots of offers of sex or pain.

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