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SlaveOwner9 -> RE: Perfect submissive??? (6/20/2011 5:00:47 AM)
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Obviously, there's no such thing as a perfect all knowing human who makes no mistakes and knows what their Dom wants before he does. I don't equate perfection with omnipotence... and that is clearly not what you are asking here.
Perfection is a subjective concept, which means the definition differs person to person. In order for me to say what's perfect, I must understand my basic needs, pleasures and fantasies before I can truly define 'what is perfect for me'.
For many of us, we go through a phase known as psychosocial moratorium: within this phase of our lives, we explore different aspects of our identity... eventually we get a fuller understanding of what we genuinely like.
For me, a submissive is not arrogant... she has a sensible comprehension for her weakness and seeks out a man who can complement her by filling in her weakness(es). She is easy to mold behaviourally and mentally... she may resist extreme modifications, but is essentially overwhelmed by someone who has superior endurance.
^ That's my current definition of the 'perfect' real submissive... again, I acknowledge others definition may differ from mine, but that's ok, no one is wrong, since perfection is subjective. I'm sure you guys have heard the saying "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" and so too are our definitions of perfection.
My fantasy of perfection is a slave that never disobeys, never makes a mistake, never smells like shit, never susceptible to disease or wounds, always smiles after each slap, and never releases snot out her nose...
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