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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:47:47 PM

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Be true to yourself and those in your life. Find your passion and live your life, it's the only one we have. From everything I've seen of you here, you're a damn good woman.

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Don't say true, level. Someone will start a thread ridiculing all those who use that word.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:50:42 PM

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For all of the pretenders out there, remember this is a 12 step program..Good luck!

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:50:54 PM

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Well, gosh, I stand up for what I believe in and I don't kowtow to every dominant that passes...I guess that means I'm pretend too.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:54:05 PM

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hi everyone my name is mixie and apparently i am a swich.

damn, and i was just about to swich my SN to 'mixielicous_realsub'

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:54:38 PM

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I think there are true submissives, nope cant say I'm offended by the word "true* or "real" in any way. What it means to me is a description of a personality that actually submits. In that light, there are "pretenders" perhaps people who just play the game of submission and have never really touched its essence...so there :P i dont wanna join your club hehe (laughing)

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:55:48 PM

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For all of the pretenders out there, remember this is a 12 step program..Good luck!

Is there a 12 step program for knives? I think we have become addicted.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:56:04 PM

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Oh my.....y'all are just wrong....lol...

However.... i agree, the old " are there ANY true/honest/worthy....._____________(fill in blank)'s out there!!!"

does get a little old. Of course there are!!!

"There are plenty of folks that use certain terms that I disagree with, but I see that less of a sin than some.

Be true to yourself and those in your life. Find your passion and live your life, it's the only one we have. "

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:58:23 PM

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I think there are true submissives, nope cant say I'm offended by the word "true* or "real" in any way. What it means to me is a description of a personality that actually submits. In that light, there are "pretenders" perhaps people who just play the game of submission and have never really touched its essence...so there :P i dont wanna join your club hehe (laughing)

~ chuckles ~ I'm with you, jali. As I said in the other thread, there are submissives who are true to themselves as submissive - therefore genuine and sincere, submitting from the heart. And then there are those who play the game.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 5:58:39 PM

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You buncha phoney baloneys lol.

Again, keep in mind that terms mean different things to different people. Mine meet my needs and beliefs, and there are those that don't like that. What they don't realize, or care about, is that does not mean I see them as fakes, or not real. It doesn't mean that I dislike them, or don't respect them, or want them in my life.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:04:06 PM

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I am "real"....does everybody see that..lol...I'm not a fake, I'm not phoney or bologna....lol....For some reason, I just can not get serious tonight....For the meeting next week, its BYOB......until then, Don't get "real".

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:04:35 PM

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Of course when someone uses the terms "true" or "real" what they really mean is that you believe exactly as they do. That their version of the right way to be a sub or Dom or whatever is universal and absolute. If you don't then you're a fake. It's the same premise that humans have used to create hundreds of offshoot religions over the millenia.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:07:09 PM

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cuddle,

Screw this thread. Let's go make one which is even more obviously a joke, as some people don't get it.

Or it's actually serious, and I just don't get it.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:08:48 PM

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They dont get it Benji...it wasnt meant to be serious people..lol

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:09:42 PM

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I am "real"....does everybody see that..lol...I'm not a fake, I'm not phoney or bologna....lol....For some reason, I just can not get serious tonight....For the meeting next week, its BYOB......until then, Don't get "real".

You are indeed, and let no one take that from you.

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:14:17 PM

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cuddle,

Screw this thread. Let's go make one which is even more obviously a joke, as some people don't get it.

Or it's actually serious, and I just don't get it.

Yours,

benji

PS: Check your inbox

I checked my inbox, there is nothing there. :(

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:20:57 PM

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essence is hard to describe too. that's another thing i've always wondered. it's kind of confusing but try it anyway:

when i used to ask people, "what does being in love like?" when i was a little girl, they always said, "you just know."

what if no one "just knows" and they're just feeling what they think everyone else is feeling but then no one's really feeling anything and it's all a trick? what if "the essence of submission" is like that?

that would be horrible and sad...on both counts. i won't believe it.

but, what if you feel the "essence of submission" without realizing it? how do you get there? what taxi do you take? maybe the "essence of submission" is like this thing i remember reading about in school. something about how the American Dream is so wonderful and big, that we'll never be able to reach it. i could've sworn there was a famous book on the subject. the characters in the story had made up this big fantasy of what BLANK was going to be like and then they could never get there. they were so full of expectations, they just kept waiting and waiting and couldn't be happy no matter what they did.

so...anyone follow that at all?

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:28:41 PM

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Of course when someone uses the terms "true" or "real" what they really mean is that you believe exactly as they do. That their version of the right way to be a sub or Dom or whatever is universal and absolute. If you don't then you're a fake. It's the same premise that humans have used to create hundreds of offshoot religions over the millenia.

Yes, some use their realness as a bludgeon against those "less" than them. If something is true and right for you and yours, that is fine..... but when you use it as a ladder to stand above everyone else and piss down on them.....

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:31:35 PM

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Hello everyone,
My name is Cuddle, and I,... I am a pretend sub. Lowers eyes in shame.

Sorry folks, coudnt help it..too many threads about "true this" and "true that"...kind of getting on my nerves.

*cries...... mmmme too cuddleheart.. I am a fake sssssub too.... WAAAAAAAAHHH

- - there now I feel much better

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:31:57 PM

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but when you use it as a ladder to stand above everyone else and piss down on them.....

What if I'm not on a ladder at the time? I can't really help............... ahhhhh... that feels better. Now where was I?

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RE: Pretend Subs Anonymous - 5/14/2006 6:32:40 PM

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essence is hard to describe too. that's another thing i've always wondered. it's kind of confusing but try it anyway:

when i used to ask people, "what does being in love like?" when i was a little girl, they always said, "you just know."

what if no one "just knows" and they're just feeling what they think everyone else is feeling but then no one's really feeling anything and it's all a trick? what if "the essence of submission" is like that?

that would be horrible and sad...on both counts. i won't believe it.

but, what if you feel the "essence of submission" without realizing it? how do you get there? what taxi do you take? maybe the "essence of submission" is like this thing i remember reading about in school. something about how the American Dream is so wonderful and big, that we'll never be able to reach it. i could've sworn there was a famous book on the subject. the characters in the story had made up this big fantasy of what BLANK was going to be like and then they could never get there. they were so full of expectations, they just kept waiting and waiting and couldn't be happy no matter what they did.

so...anyone follow that at all?

Hmm lol..... the first part, if you mean there really isn't true love nor true submission, yes, that would be terrible, and no, I don't buy it either. They're real. And true lol.

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