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Back2theFuture -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/13/2011 4:43:39 PM)
Sounds like a really bad sitcom. "New this fall on FOX! What happens when a STRAIGHT Master ends up with a GAY slave? Laugh out loud comedy that will make you question your sexuality. You will laugh, cry and maybe even pop a boner as you watch their wacky hijinks every week." "Like Will and Grace with Leather!" Says Rolling Stone Magazine "We hate eveything so we hate this too!" Claims E Entertanment "Makes me glad I am dead from cancer" Movie critic Siskel" Like most Fox shows it will be canceled after the first season if not the first 4 episodes. You know I started this a joke but now that I think about it, I am gonna write up a treatment and see what Jerry Bruckheimer thinks.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/13/2011 9:54:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JT5 I want him to be happy, he wants me to be happy..........It seems like we are both pretty happy......... I've got an idea. Why not ask one of the Dommes on here to "force" you to suck his cock. That way you'll both be REALLY happy, and you can continue to hold onto delusions of heterosexuality while still practicing homosexual behavior. That's what all of the other self-deluding gay/bi-sexual men do on CollarMe. [;)] Like I said before, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi. But there IS something wrong with locking yourself in the closet with Tom Cruise and John Travolta.

Back2theFuture -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/13/2011 10:05:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 Like I said before, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi. John Travolta. Hey now just because a good looking guy, with great hair is a good dancer, singer, crossdresser; does not make him gay. I find it highly offensive. But John Travolta is totally a rump ranger.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 6:00:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Back2theFuture Hey now just because a good looking guy, with great hair is a good dancer, singer, crossdresser; does not make him gay. I find it highly offensive. Actually, it was a reference to a very funny episode of South Park. Tom Cruise and John Travolta locked themselves in the closet. http://www.southparkstudios.com/full-episodes/s09e12-trapped-in-the-closet

xssve -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 6:01:10 AM)
You guys are assholes. I would encourage him to date in that situation, problem solved.

agirl -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 8:49:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JT5 We have never had any kind of sex, he has never been allowed to watch me jerk and I have only shot my load on him 6 times. He really is my best friend and my slave. Here is the problem. I know he jerks off a lot when he is alone and thinks of me when he does. But I don’t really want him fantasizing about me. That is really making me angry. I want to start keeping him in chastity, so that the only time he gets to cum is in front of me and with my permission. I jerk off a lot too and do have a girlfriend. I am going to be taking away his ability to date someone and to masturbate. Is it too mean of me to keep him like this? Or is this OK to a sub guy? I don’t want to lose him as my slave or my best friend. In answer to your questions and ignoring all the sexuality suppositions as irrelevant..... No, I don't think it's mean to stop him from cumming unless he's with you. Plenty of people do this in all sorts of D/s relationships. He may very well be all for it for a while, simply because it'd please you etc.........but in the long term, it might not work quite as well as either of you imagine.(You know your relationship best) Do YOU think you're being mean to so?.........and do you think that HE may consider you mean to do so after a while, and perhaps lose the devotion he has toward you because of it? I'm curious why it makes you angry that he thinks about you when he wanks.......would you rather he thought of someone else? :) You've cultivated a fascinating relationship that you both clearly get a lot from. There's always the risk that you may spoil what you have, by upping the anti to a point where you burst that bubble. Be aware that people change over time and if your chap begins to find it more of a chore than a pleasure to be in your thrall, so to speak......you may find yourself losing your hold over him. There can be a fine line between getting what you want, and losing sight of the fact that it can be finite when you're dealing with another person. You can always give it a trial run, see how it goes and adjust it if it goes a bit sour. You like the fact that he's so keen........The fact that he spends a lot of his wanking time on you might very well be part of that, so be careful that you don't inadvertantly squash the things that keep him there. agirl

DePubed -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 9:08:09 AM)
A straight Master can own a gay slave, and a gay Master can own a straight slave. Why not? If a Straight Master wanted to have gay male slaves so that they would shine his shoes, cook his food, do his laundry, and for other housework and chores, why not? I guess the issue for most in this group is the sexual focus. If a straight Master has NO sexual focus on their gay slave, but simply wishes to own a gay slave to serve him financially and in labor, why not. The fact that, in order to put the slave into the right headspace the slave does his chores in the nude wearing only a locked collar, or that the gay slave is kept locked into a chastity device, is just part of the tools of the trade. For many people, the master/slave dynamic is solely about being a sexual Master or sexual slave. These people only 'play' at the roles when they are in organized 'play spaces' and clubs. But for someone who makes use of their home to be a Master, that man may wish to have male slaves to wash his car, etc. He doesnt care if the slave is gay or straight, young or old. I actually think that a straight Woman (Mistress/Dominatrix) could own GAY male slaves so that they could cut her lawn, paint her house, fix her roof, etc. why not, if the slavery is about ownership and non-sexual service?

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 10:46:26 AM)
I agree with you completely, DePubed. However, the OP described what sounded like a sexual relationship, not one that is focused on service. In fact, he didn't mention service at all. But I could be misunderstanding his dynamic.

LadyPact -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 11:52:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 I've got an idea. Why not ask one of the Dommes on here to "force" you to suck his cock. That way you'll both be REALLY happy, and you can continue to hold onto delusions of heterosexuality while still practicing homosexual behavior. That's what all of the other self-deluding gay/bi-sexual men do on CollarMe. [;)] Like I said before, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi. But there IS something wrong with locking yourself in the closet with Tom Cruise and John Travolta. I'll give you points for the South Park reference, but if any of the Dominant women get more of that type of mail over your suggestion, don't be surprised if some want to kick your tail over it.

MistressK2011 -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/14/2011 9:20:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LanceHughes BTW: very nice wank material. LOL! ETA: Thanks! I was going to say exactly that. But the style was a bit thick in the middle so I had to bail out. Did the good guy win in the end at least? :-P - K

PdxJ -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/15/2011 2:01:32 AM)
What a funny thread. OP - seriously, you are gay. No straight man, least wise none that I have ever met, would ever do what you are doing. You don't need to be ashamed - slap that rainbow sticker on your car bumper and be proud!

Footstoolnyc -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/18/2011 12:01:44 AM)
I totally believe a straight man can own a gay slave. I am tall, lean, smooth, totally submissive, and when I am with a man, my dick has never been used for anything. Technically that makes me a virgin in some regard. There are so many straight guys that are attracted to me because they know I will submit and that I will not use my penis. Plenty of srtaight married men have used me as their footstools or just to humiliate and beat up on when they are angry. I am honored when an alpha-straight male spits in my mouth or pisses down my throat. I exist as a resceptacle for him in a way that his wife would never allow him to do to her. A lot of these men never ever would have sex with me. Even when they do, it is very clear what my role is. Even when the relationship went on for months, I am still convinced that the man is straight. I don't see why we have to fit everyone in a narrow box of generalizations.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/18/2011 12:09:02 AM)
I don't care if the dude is gay straight or pink polka dotted. He's stringing someone along and toying with emotions. I am looking at his character.

Back2theFuture -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/18/2011 12:54:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I don't care if the dude is gay straight or pink polka dotted. He's stringing someone along and toying with emotions. I am looking at his character. That doesn't make him gay, that makes him just like every woman I have ever dated.

txurinal -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/19/2011 9:15:58 AM)
DePubed and Footstoolnyc are both correct. It is possible for a straight man to have a gay slave. As i have mentioned, when it was owned it was often lent to a straight friend for the purpose of household duties and service. There was never any sexual service, just housecleaning, laundary, etc. Without going into whether YOU are gay or straight, if the slave enjoys serving YOU, enjoys being put into chastity and having its orgasms controlled by YOU, i say go for it. Both YOU and it can discuss what works for each and what does not work. All relationships, even those of MASTER/slave evolve and change over time. Each person in a relationship must get something out of it Personally, i would welcome being owned by a straight MASTER. i am very service oriented and enjoy the dominant/submissive complete power exchange of a MASTER/slave relationship. But again that is just me. Talk to him, try it out, and see where it goes

hotfuncpl69 -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/24/2011 5:45:59 PM)
you are so lucky to have a good friend i wish i could find a stright male dom to use me and pimp me to gay guys.

erieangel -> RE: Straight Master with gay slave (6/24/2011 6:19:10 PM)
Dude, I'll explain it to you. Homer Simpson is in hiding. Much the same way you are. Come out of the closet, already. My son did when he was only 15. It was a glorious thing!! At the very least, you are bi. Admit it and move on.

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