RE: dominating vs your private life

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: dominating vs your private life

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: dominating vs your private life

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/17/2006 5:05:19 AM

openmindedslave

Posts: 470
Joined: 2/27/2005
Status: offline

You are so right Najakcharmer. What seems un realistic to some may seem like a fit made in heaven. So many here are looking for a taste of the lifestyle. Others need alot more. That is what gives people hope, in that they may find what they seek at places like this. Look at the fact that many people are willing to up root themselves if neccessary to finda realtionship that fullfills their inner desires...

And yes ,bound and gaged while being whipped , ..is really not a good postion to be in when your trying to establish the limits in play or in a realtionship...Of course if your the whipper,, well then ...demand the world lol

(in reply to Najakcharmer)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/21/2006 8:03:44 AM

forluvofmaria

Posts: 59
Joined: 5/16/2006
From: mountains of MD
Status: offline

Talk, talk and did I mention more talk? You have to know the expectations and limits of yourself and desires...Plus know the others requests as well....Agreement to the limits you both can accept.....
Choose wisely

_____________________________

Live, Love and Laugh
Life is to be enjoyed, appreciated and treasured

"Only the Heart knows how to find what IS Precious"
Fyoder Dostoyevsky

(in reply to openmindedslave)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/21/2006 8:12:23 AM

MHOO314

Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

If I am the "dommie" in question you bet your red ass I do, power is my kink...I am equally as happy watching the dishes get done as using a paddle...

Yep, what She said! LOL--I won't touch his job--but like crouching said--it's 24/7--he will go to the grocery, do the dishes, sweat in the garden--now is all that while I sit and eat bonbons? Hardly---but its the power exchange for Me.

_____________________________

SLUTS: Southern Ladies Under Tremendous Stress...

Mistress Hathor

(in reply to crouchingtigress)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/21/2006 11:16:48 AM

TeeGO

Posts: 451
Joined: 12/11/2005
Status: offline

I'm a grown man, have lived a few years, and have taken care of myself and others. I do not need someone to save me from myself or something like that.

But I do desire giving up control to a dominant woman. The key is trusting her to make that right decisions. I want her to control my life, not because I can't, but because of the power exchange and the way I'm wired. I have no idea why I feel this way, I just do, it's who I am. I believe I would be truly happy in such a relationship. But again, I need to be able to trust this person with my very life. Until that type of trust is established, I'm my own man.

D/s is powerful stuff. And it's my belief the ultimate "fulfillment" is to be found in my giving up control of my life.

NOTE: I changed this as primeslave in the next post suggested.

< Message edited by TeeGO -- 5/21/2006 11:27:37 AM >

(in reply to MHOO314)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/21/2006 11:20:29 AM

primeslave

Posts: 45
Joined: 11/18/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

I'm a grown man, have lived a few years, and have taken care of myself and others. I do not need someone to save me from myself or something like that.

But I do desire giving up control to a dominant woman. The key is trusting her to make that right decisions. I want her to control my life, not because I can't, but because of the power exchange and the way I'm wired. I have no idea why I feel this way, I just do, it's who I am. I believe I would be truly happy in such a relationship. But again, I need to be able to trust this person with my very life. Until that type of trust is established, I'm my own man.

D/s is powerful stuff. And it's my belief the ultimate "high" is to be found in my giving up control of my life.

wow TeeGO ...

you said that perfectly. i feel exactly like that.

except for the last line. i believe that i will find the ultimate 'fullfillment' in giving up control of my life.

primeSlave ~

_____________________________

What is a slut: 1. pleasure enthusiast; 2. a wanton individual; 3. a saucy girl

(in reply to TeeGO)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: dominating vs your private life - 5/21/2006 11:25:15 AM

TeeGO

Posts: 451
Joined: 12/11/2005
Status: offline

Yes, your "last" line is much better than mine

I went and changed it, hope that's OK with you.

< Message edited by TeeGO -- 5/21/2006 11:28:30 AM >

(in reply to primeslave)

Profile

Post #: 26